Tantric Sex isn't the same as the kind of loveplay most of us have grown up with. Interested in a comparison between normal sex and Tantric Sex? Review the following table that summarizes some of the differences...
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Comparing
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Normal Sex
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Tantric Sex
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Intention
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The goal of orgasm
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Continuing pleasure
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Focus
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Physical event
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Spiritual meditation
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Energy
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Building & releasing arousal as fast as possible
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Moving energy up the chakras continuously
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Erogenous Zones
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Genitals
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Awaken whole body
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Expectations
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Performance anxiety, especially for guys
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Respond to impulses in the moment with the flow
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Progression
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Quick release
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Higher & higher plateaus
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What Qualities Differ?
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Time
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10 to 15 minutes
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Virtually unlimited
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Speed
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Fast
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Slow
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Sound
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Quiet & reserved
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Verbal & noisy
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Passion
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Rare heights caused by unknown outside factors
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Can generate heights of ecstasy at will
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Activity
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Don't stop pumping or you might lose the mood
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Start, stop, & change at will with lots of variation
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Arousal Reaction
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Tense
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Relaxation
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How Do You Do It?
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Responsibility
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Your lover is responsible for getting you off
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You're responsible for your own pleasure
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Communication
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Private & closed, keeping anxieties within
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Lots of feedback, requests, & acknowledgement
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Breathing
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Fast, shallow, & often out of control
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Slow & deep through the mouth to energize body
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Stimulation
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Doesn't happen without an erection
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Lots of hard & soft stimulators work great
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Connection
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Use each other's body to get off
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Visualizing heart & energy connection at all chakras
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You don't get to the Tantric column just by snapping your fingers. It takes lots of delicious practice, practice, practice. All that starts with Tantric LovePlay on the next page.