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B&D Is Not Dunn & Bradstreet

Some popular fantasies include one lover tying the other up and having their way with them. What's typically called B&D for bondage and domination can be awfully titillating. Even further out is S&M, sadism and masochism, which plays with pain as a turn-on for others and yourself.

Lovers who study Tantra find they need less and less physical stimulation to reach the heights of pleasure in the continuous Orgasm Zone. So we're not big on lots of force that threatens to or actually hurts someone. But we do find that fantasies that include power and risk excite some basic instincts.

In B&D, it appears from the outside that one person generally plays the dominant role, while the other takes the passive position. For example, in the...

• master/slave
• interrogator/prisoner,
• torturer/victim

scenarios this sure seems to be the case. In reality, skilled sexual play always includes negotiating roles and boundaries in advance, as well as a "safe word." Agree on a term unlikely to come up during your play, like "pomegranate" or "Newfoundland," which you agree will immediately end your role-playing.

Sex Can Be A Gear-Intensive Sport

You'll find lots of great props in our adult store to assist your game-playing like blindfolds, restraints, gags, ticklers, clips, and crops. We offer restraints like hand cuffs, ankle cuffs, and wrist cuffs, some sensually padded. Don't forget to check out the whips, as well. There are 48 leather options here.

You'll have to get your own chains at the local hardware store if you want to go that far. But we can provide you with some great sex furniture, especially harnesses and love swings here so you can make love suspended in the air. Oh, that reminds us we left out the trapeze scenarios earlier.

For making your wildest fantasies come true, you'll find an outrageous assortment in the toys section of our store by selecting "Restraints" from the category pull-down menu or just click here.

The next page in our Better Sex Guided Tour offers some great year-round ideas for using Tantric Sex the basis for gifts and presents. As if your hands, tongue, and jewels weren't enough, huh?