NO LUCK WITH AN URGENT PROBLEM
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Further, initial pressure on the sacred gate often creates a sensation called "urgency" in the medical world, the feeling of needing to pee. We believe this occurs because an engorged urethral sponge presses on the neck of the bladder. Even when empty, this feels identical to the pressure caused by a full bladder.
For reassurance, it's a good idea for a woman to empty her bladder before this kind of play. And while you're preparing, grab a couple of thick towels to lay on for that extra sense of security, just in case you ejaculate. More about that soon.
For many women's bodies, it's easier for a partner to locate their sacred gate. If sex to you is limited to the old in-an-out, here is a wonderful opportunity to drop your outmoded beliefs and start experimenting with what works uniquely for you. Like defining sex as anything that makes your body feel good.
For a partner to find your sacred gate with their fingers requires that you guide them to the right place with the right strokes. Which is why, even if your lover knows where and how to look for a your sacred gate, the perennial challenges of sexual communication can get in the way.
If you approach this kind of play as conscious Tantric Sex however, you'll grow through these kinds of problems. Don't yet know how to do this? Never fear, just read on.
THE WET TRUTH ABOUT FEMALE EJACULATION
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Scientists estimate that from 10% to 40% of women are conscious of ejaculating when their G-spot swells with the right kind of arousal. This means they can tell when they emit sexual fluids distinct from yoni lubrication. Some dribble, some gush, some downright squirt. Mostly this happens during orgasm, but some women can do it at other times, too, when highly aroused..
Those sexually-liberated females who understand the gift of ejaculation relish this feeling of warm release. The same with enlightened lovers who swoon when showered with such an intimate gift. Somraj, for one, finds supreme delight in being with a female ejaculator.
Why isn't female ejaculation better accepted?
Once again, we're reminded of generations of ignorance and prejudice, partly fueled by the male-dominated sciences. Not so long ago, physicians ordered surgery for female ejaculators to cure the inability to control their bladders during sex, referred to as "urinary incontinence." We'd rather not share how many painful stories we've heard about ignorant lovers who thought their women partners were peeing on them when they climaxed.
(This Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation article continues on the next page.)
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