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How Tantric Love Making Is Different
Tantric Love Making is a kind of sex that both lovers contribute to and co-create. Instead of him performing and her hoping he does a good job, you collaborate. You both contribute by knowing yourself and communicating what you want and what you're feeling. That begins with mutual respect and patience and grows through lots of listening and even more consideration. Awareness of what you're experiencing and what your partner is requesting is more vital than rehearsed technique.
Neither of you can make magic happen all by yourself while making love. You both need geysers of energies bubbling forth, mixing, and merging. Passion erupts from connecting at the multiple levels of heart and soul, mind, and body. Together you use sexual energy to empower love and love to empower sexual ecstasy.
This becomes a conscious, intentional meeting of minds and bodies which requires you to be naked in front of each other inside and out. That means much more than just shedding your clothes. Tantric Love Making is best when composed like a spontaneous symphony in response to each other's changing desire, response, and excitement. Instead of a set, predictable scheme, it creates a kaleidoscopic rhythm, which means creatively and spontaneously varying sexual strokes and flowing in and out of sexual postures to create an exciting and continuously changing pattern of sexual intercourse that may be interrupted with erotic massage, oral sex, and self-pleasuring at any time.
Because lovers who practice Tantric Love Making are relaxed, open, and conscious, they sense each other's passion flows, shifts, and surges. They both guide sexual thrusts in and out in response to what they want and how they feel in each moment.
In summary, in contrast to ordinary sex, Tantric Love Making has six unique characteristics...
Closer: Tantric Love Making is more intimate, with more communication, and more cooperative. It's not a performance, it's a partnership. You create mutual pleasure together, like kids playing doctor for the first time. The whole experience becomes a closer one.
Wider: Tantric Love Making is first and foremost about consciousness, which widens the sexual playing field. When you approach sex consciously, you discover more of what you like, when, and how. You have more things to enjoy with new and different sensations.
Deeper: To practice Tantric Love Making, you get out of your heads and into your bodies. Then you feel more which makes your sexual experience deeper. The more you become aware of sexual energy, the more you'll be able to summon passion at will and connect at more levels.
Longer: Tantric Love Making takes more time and lasts longer. Sometimes it's slower, yes, but sometimes it's faster before slowing to enjoy. Instead of rushing towards orgasm, you savor the pleasure which gets more and more intense. Which is wonderful, spending more time generating, absorbing, and exchanging life-giving energy.
Higher: Closer, wider, deeper, and longer sex yields more intense ecstasy. When you open your senses to full enjoyment of pleasure and drop your expectations, agendas, and goals about sex, you naturally soar higher and higher. Both men and women discover new peaks, climaxes, and ecstatic experiences, expanding the range of their orgasms.
More: Tantric Love Making includes all twelve types of orgasm. Being more a journey than a destination, you surf from orgasm to orgasm, from one kind to another. Instead of exclusively targeting the goal of a big O, you enjoy multiples of many kinds.
With all this going for you, you'll definitely beat the national average for committed couples having sex just once or twice a week for ten to fifteen minutes. You'll have more sex because you'll want it more often. It will make you feel more alive, more vibrant, more healthy, more peaceful. When your sexual encounters leave you feeling excited, energized, and empowered, you'll make more time for it. Busy couples might say “make more time?" But when the core of sexual coupling becomes highly valued, it shoots up the priority list.
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