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Tantric Backdoor Play - Part 2

If You Don’t Have Yet Cosmic G-Spot Orgasms, Here’s How For Both Men & Women

(This issue is a continuation of our June 29 newsletter which you can find here... Tantric Backdoor Play - Part 1)


We’re bummed out (sorry, did we actually use that word?) about all the women who’ve been forced to endure being fucked in the ass when they didn’t want to. Your guy may crave it because it’s a tighter fit, but that’s no reason to succumb to his primal lust and not enjoy it.

Listen, ladies, Tantric Backdoor Play can be fun and pleasurable and orgasmic for you too, but only on your terms, right? We want the Goddess to lead in anal sex as in everything else. Then it becomes making love sweetly, sensuously, spiritually and not being sexually abused. It’s up to you to want to try adding this whole new dimension of feelings back there. You have to consciously choose to learn to relax and open up, and eventually reap the rewards of how good it can feel.

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 7/5/11
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2011 by
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This free ezine (scroll to the end if you want to stop them) offers practical sex tips derived from modern sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training. Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex

As our girlfriend Joy says “Being penetrated in my backdoor feels really good when I’m ready. It’s another orifice that gives me great pleasure. When I’m really turned-on I want every part of my body involved. Ass-fucking triggers full-body orgasm which is a lovely thing to experience, and I go for it whenever I can get it.”

If you love sex and want to love it even more, than you know adding more turn-ons spreads the energy. Kissing while making love, having a nipple sucked, and especially the right kind of clio (clitoral) massage while you’re being penetrated triggers more excitement in more places. Anal play can do the same, and more.

So many women love the very different sensations a finger or toy or vajra (penis) can create while sliding in and out of their anus. Plus, for many, it’s an ideal way to stimulate her G-Spot during sexual union. That’s a matter of understanding how her G-Spot works and the angles involved. You can get more information and download our “Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation Ebook” here (don’t miss the discount later)...

Women, if you’d like to start the gentle easy way to acquire the knack and desire for Tantric anal sex, we heartily endorse the Peridise toys. Being smaller and shaped for comfortable entry, the Peridise line from Aneros is the perfect way to explore backdoor play. Check them out with no obligation here and order online safely and confidentially you’re ready...


So how do you start Tantric Backdoor Play with the greatest chance of rapid pleasure?

For anyone, and certainly if you’re single without a sex partner, do a web search and read up. Read our earlier FREE articles from October 26, 2005...

“Five Fun Ways To Play In Your Back Door: Tantric Guidelines For The Ever Popular Fascination With Anal Sex” here... and

and May 19, 2004 “What's The Big Deal About The Back Door? Tantric Guidelines About The Ever Popular Fascination With Anal Sex” here...

Of course, we think the best way to start is by reading our “Tantric Male Multiple G-Spot Orgasm Ebook” for him here...

and “Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation” for her...

We’re so high on helping your enjoy Tantric Backdoor Play that we’re offering a $5 discount on both ebooks for a limited time. Just enter the secret code “gspot5other” in the Redeem Coupon field when you reach our secure shopping cart and then hit the button.


Once you’ve done some studying, get the necessary gear together...

• Pads or towels to protect the bed
• Water-based lube
• Powder-free latex gloves
• Handiwipes for clean-up

We would certainly order a Beginner Set of two Peridise from Aneros for $55. Or if you have some experience, you might start with their Advanced Set. You can get all four and save $10 here...


What’s your formula for getting out of your head so you can stop worrying about things you don’t want happening? Some find meditation, deep breathing, or self-pleasuring your jewels until you’re really turned on first helps. Part of Supreme Bliss Tantra is the ritual of consciously creating a sacred space to play in first. That includes a clean, beautiful, private room plus music, incense, candles and anything else that calms and focuses you. A little preparation can go a long way to creating the right mood.

Whether you’re partnered or not, starting out by playing on your own first is a great idea. Then you can be sure to go at your own speed which helps the basic prerequisite of anal play, which is relaxation. Use a lot of lube, go slow, and experiment until you find what feels good.

For those playing together, an initial meeting of the minds is essential as well. An easy and effective way to do this is to answer our three famous Partnering Questions. Looking at and clearing these three issues are an essential part of all Supreme Bliss Tantra exercises: your desires, your concerns, and your boundaries. Discussing answers to these three questions can bring you in harmony so you’ll be exploring in sync instead of rushing ahead blindly with unchecked assumptions.

As you experiment together, keep checking in with each other. How’s it going for you? Be open to the unexpected. Welcome and respond to feedback. Change what you’re doing to create a better experience at any time. And be ready to wrap up at any point if either of you needs to back off, relax for a moment or longer, and process what’s coming up.

Anal play can be emotional. It can trigger inhibitions and old wounds. It can bring up old baggage. It can push unresolved buttons between you. That’s why you need to follow a tested consensual program. This is a big part of why we wrote our do-it-yourself training programs in our ebooks about G-Spot Orgasm. When you’re convinced you need them, use these links...

“Tantric Male Multiple G-Spot Orgasm Ebook” for him here...

and “Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation” for her...

Don’t forget to get your up-to-25%-off discount. After clicking the BUY button on either of these pages, you’ll find yourself in our secure online shopping cart. Enter the secret code “gspot5other” in the Redeem Coupon field and then hit the button which deducts $5 from the download price.


It took me, Somraj, lots of fits and starts to get over my tight-assed-ness and enjoy Tantric Backdoor Play. I sure started slow and slowly graduated to larger and larger Aneros models. I used the Aneros SGX and MGX models for quite some time. These are the original Male G-Spot toys which are a great step up from the Peridise. And there are seven more models to choose from as you learn to welcome greater and stronger pleasure inside.

When you’re ready for bigger, check out our Aneros Selection Guide here...

Now anal play is something that I ask for frequently to detonate that extra special inner sexual power when I’m really turned on or want to go higher and higher longer and longer. Sure, it was a journey because it’s an acquired taste. I’m so grateful that my beloved stuck it out (I mean, stuck it in) with me until I got it. Now it’s an integral part of our Tantric LovePlay. And when I enter her backdoor, she gets that extra powerful unique jolt, too.

So does that explain why you might want to give it a try? We hope so. But if you don’t, we’ll still love you.

Love, Somraj and Jeffre



Supreme Bliss is the zenith of sexual ecstasy which transforms orgasmic energy into expanded consciousness.

Supreme Bliss Tantra is the modern system of personal transformation based on the ancient Eastern spiritual path which uses sexual energy practices to...
deepen love and intimacy,
extend lovemaking, and
create continuous full-body mind-altering Tantric Orgasms.

By opening your senses of the present moment, embracing all of life and all of your being, and focusing on pleasure as a divine gift, Supreme Bliss Tantra...
heals your mind, body, and spirit,
connects you passionately with your deeper self and your beloved, and
immerses you deeply into the untold joys of sacred sexuality to
reach cosmic peaks of pleasure to make life an ecstatic journey in total communion with all that is.


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