Who I Am
by Somraj

What Do You Call Me?

I've always been a seeker of truth, a natural teacher of the mechanics of life, and a spiritual warrior. You might call me a highly-educated iconoclast or a passionate yet civilized rebel, but above all a super-sensitive soul. My path to author, trainer, and mentor of Supreme Bliss Tantra has been a rich, full, and windy journey fueled by my desire to understand the underlying dynamics of life.

In preparation, I began my professional life as a chemist, rose high in management with an European-based international counseling academy before my mid-twenties, and later built a million-dollar communications training and team-building consulting practice for Fortune 500 companies, high-tech dot-coms, and government agencies. In addition to thousands of hours of client therapy and authoring 4 business books, I've trained over 20,000 people in better people skills before turning to the spiritual pursuits of Tantra.

Start The Chronicle Here

My chronicle goes like this. After a Bachelor Of Science from the California Institute of Technology with honors in 1968, my first career as an organic chemist didn't last long, much to my father's chagrin, a Ph.D. chemist and college professor himself. The good news about attending a world-class technology institution was my introduction by another chemistry professor to my first spiritual philosophy, Scientology. Even with a mind chock full of science, I was able to embrace a spiritual philosophy that made some sense about the interplay of mind, body, and spirit that guides the role of emotions in our lives.

As a result, right after graduation, I ran away to Europe for professional counseling training at Scientology's international headquarters in Sussex, England where I mastered the technology of interpersonal communication and their Organization Executive Course. After graduating from my doctoral-equivalent program, I worked my way up the chain of command via Corfu Greece, Edinburgh Scotland, and Copenhagen Denmark to master instructor and technical director of all counseling and training in the United States. This first personal development experience ingrained deeply within me some fundamental truths about people: we are spiritual beings, we all have equal opportunity (women, men, gays, different races, etc.), and we're all responsible for our own path.

During the formative stages of this hectic life, I was fortunate enough to connect with my son, Patrick. He was born in Copenhagen and is a caring citizen of the world, currently living in Sweden where his mother is from. One of these days we predict he'll be running his own restaurant, probably in California (we hope).

Private Therapy, Public Consulting

At the age of 25 I established my own successful private therapy practice while at the same time doing masters work in professional education at the University Of Southern California and serving as assistant director of the Intra-Science Research Foundation. Then, in 1974, I founded Viability Group Inc and began my 25-year career as a Fortune-500 training consultant, teaching interpersonal communication, people skills, and management practices to organizations like IBM, Motorola, U.S. Department Of Education, Westinghouse, University Of California, and Siemens. During this time I wrote four books on problem-solving, decision-making, and team-building, plus developed over 50 training workshops on subjects like "Skill And Tact In Dealing With People," "Rapid Team Deployment," and "Managing Staff For Results."

When I met Jeffre in 1996, I was definitely ready for a change. After decades helping business people work together more effectively, I was still yearning to understand how things tick, especially inside. Since Jeffre was completing her Tantra teachers training program at the time, she helped me discover that Tantra, ancient metaphysics of sex, love, and spirit, was the perfect vehicle to go deeper into understanding -- and sharing with others -- the underlying dynamics of life force energy as it manifests in all aspects of our lives.

Enter Supreme Bliss Tantra

After Jeffre and I began teaching Supreme Bliss Tantra and launched TantraAtTahoe.com in 1998, I wrote my best-selling ebook Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery. Don't misunderstand. I came to this new field with training and writing expertise but little in the way of evolved sexual skills. My first Tantric ebook is really my story of the long drawn-out process of learning to manage orgasmic energy in order to extend sexual stamina. Because of my people skills training background, this and my other ebooks are practical and easy-to-read with step-by-step instructions so anyone can teach themselves the processes and techniques that can transform their life with Supreme Bliss Tantra. In other words, so they can follow my learning path but without the blind alleys and pitfalls I ran into.

In 2000 Jeffre and I turned our attention to the secret orgasmic trigger in both men and women, typically called the G-Spot. After long, arduous, and wildly exciting research, we wrote Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation: Awakening Her Sacred Gate To Supreme Bliss and Tantric Male Multiple G-Spot Orgasm: Awakening His Sacred Gate To Supreme Bliss. In 2004, we collaborated on our comprehensive ebook Supreme Bliss Tantra Guide To The Ecstasy Of Spiritual Sex: How To Use The Erotic Power of Sexual Energy To Merge Intimacy, Love, & Spirit which takes lovers step-by-step through the process of creating a sacred ritual every time they make love.

A Million Hits Per Month

Throughout these years of study and training spiritual masters and leading sexologists, TantraAtTahoe.com steadily grew to the range of one million hits and over 100,000 visitors per month with satisfied customers in over 104 countries. In response to website visitor demand, I turned my attention in 2005 to writing ecourses, a small series of short online interactive lessons, to speed students learning process with Supreme Bliss Tantra skills and methods. Initially I developed the Tantric Sex Muscle Ecourse and the Solo Premature Ejaculation Mastery Ecourse and at the time of this writing is actively working on the "Couples Premature Ejaculation Mastery Ecourse" and the "Kama Sutra Sex Positions Ecourse."