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Your Tantra Newsletter: Is It OK To Come In Supreme Bliss Tantra?
What Role Does Orgasm Play In Relationship, Happiness, and Spiritual Evolution?

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 11/13/08
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2008 by
This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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Dear Reader:

We hope those you who've already downloaded our new " 208 Kama Sutra Tantra Sex Positions Ebook" with it's hundreds of pictures have started practicing in time for giving each other the best holiday gift imaginable, Tantric Orgasms. We've already started our next project about yoni massage with fingers and mouths and tongues to help even more. Which is what prompted this issue's article about whether you should come or not. Sounds like a silly question but there's more to it than you might imagine.

This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "How Do You Celebrate Thanksgiving?"
* Juicy Joke: "The Jewish Secret To Ear-Splitting Orgasms"
* Featured Ebook: "Supreme Bliss Tantra Guide To Spiritual Sex"
* Featured Article: "Is It OK To Come In Supreme Bliss Tantra?"
* Tantric Quote: "Love Born From Practice"
* Featured Package: "Save $45 On Our Tantric Sex Ebooks"
* Juicy Joke: "Why Are We So Hung Up On Nudity?"
* How To Save Over $45 On Our Ebooks

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Tantric Quote: "How Do You Celebrate Thanksgiving?"

"Just think - if the Indians had given the Pilgrim fathers a donkey instead of a turkey, we would all be having a piece of ass for Thanksgiving."

Juicy Joke: "The Jewish Secret To Ear-Splitting Orgasms"

An elderly Jewish gentleman marries a much younger woman. No matter what he does sexually, the wife never achieves orgasm. Since a Jewish wife is entitled to sexual pleasure, they decide to ask the rabbi. The rabbi listens to their story, strokes his beard, and makes the following suggestion: "Hire a strapping young man. While the two of you are making love, have the young man wave a towel over you. That will help the wife fantasize and should bring on an orgasm." 

They go home and follow the rabbi's advice. They hire a handsome young man and he waves a towel over them as they make love. It doesn't help and she is still unsatisfied.   
Perplexed, they go back to the rabbi. "Okay," he says to the husband, "let's try it reversed. Have the young man make love to your wife and you wave the towel over them."
Once again, they follow the rabbi's advice. The young man gets into bed with the wife and the husband waves the towel. The young man gets to work with great enthusiasm and the wife soon has an enormous, room-shaking, ear-splitting, screaming orgasm.
The husband smiles, looks at the young man and says to him  triumphantly...

"You see, you young schmuck? THAT'S how you wave a towel!" 

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Featured Article: "Is It OK To Come In Supreme Bliss Tantra?"

What Role Does Orgasm Play In Relationship, Happiness, and Spiritual Evolution?

We've started work on a long-awaited two-part ebook about Tantric Yoni Massage and Tantric Oral Sex. We're each going to do different parts, but while I was working on some introductory remarks, I felt compelled to yet again explain the role of energy and orgasm in Supreme Bliss Tantra.

We don't always exchange jewel massage with our clients, but sometimes when they're comfortable with it we all learn wonderful things by exchanging erotic touch. Which reminds me of a time I was giving a Tantric yoni massage to a client whose sexual energy was a bit blocked. It took us a bit of experimenting to find what worked best for both of us, receiver and giver, or what our new volume will refer to as "consort," the queen's personal attendant.

As she started to relax and let the energy build, she suddenly tightened up, and I don't just mean around my finger, I mean everywhere. So I stopped and she opened her eyes and asked what happened. "It was feeling really good," she said. "So why don't we continue?" I asked. "But I'm getting close to coming and I thought you're not supposed to have orgasms in Tantra," she replied. "No, in Tantra you do what you really want to in the moment," I answered. So she had an earth-shaking screamer which we both thoroughly enjoyed.

What Reason Is Good Enough To Block Your Pleasure?
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I suppose we all have our reasons for blocking our pleasure when the situation isn't right. It's just that too many of us stop the good feelings too often or at the wrong times or even all the time. And we end up not enjoying sex, love, and so much of life. Now do you understand the role that pleasure plays in the spiritual evolution of Supreme Bliss Tantra? That's why we call it Spiritual Sex when you make sexual pleasure a pathway and learning ground for spiritual evolution.

We're way in favor of all sorts of sexual climaxes in and out of bed. In fact, our new ebook so far includes exercises for 11 different kinds of female orgasms. But when you're always preoccupied with going for it, when you're pressuring your honey to go over the top, how can you smell the yoni flowers along the way? The kind of Spiritual Sex that we enjoy and share with others like you in Supreme Bliss Tantra primarily teaches how to build your sexual energy higher and longer than you ever imagined.

Here's a quote from my new intro... "Another unique aspect of Tantric Sex that we'll use here is its emphasis on building sexual energy. That electromagnetic charge that fills your body when you get turned on is what makes your skin more sensitive, your breathing faster, and your jewels (Tantric for genitals) hard or wet. But the Tantric pathway isn't just about going for it as soon as you can with finger loving or any other kind of loveplay. It's even more about stretching out the pleasure and letting the energy grow and expand, taking you to unheard of heights of bliss. Then when you do explode it becomes so much more intense."

Voluntarily Pulling The Trigger
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What got me thinking about this recently was our last long lovemaking session before Jeffre headed to the Southern California desert to teach shamanic energy medicine for a couple weeks. As we often do when we're not swept away by the irresistible urge for a quickie, we stretched out our lovemaking for the longest time. We were shifting and flowing back and forth from finger loving to oral play to many positions for jewel penetration. Maybe that was partly because I had just finished my new "208 Kama Sutra Tantra Sex Positions Ebook."

Anyway, Jeffre said to me near the end "Do you want to come before I leave?" While I was deciding, a warm wave of laughter swept through me that she asked me to explain. I was laughing because this was me, the same guy who had a hair trigger before we learned Tantric Sex. Now she was asking me if I wanted to voluntarily pull the trigger. That's what some sexologists call it, you know, voluntary ejaculation.

Of course, that sounds like a totally alien concept to teenagers who are constantly in heat. Studies differ in whether it's every 3 or 5 or 8 seconds that a sexual thought forces its way into their minds. (In middle age I've graduated to every 12 seconds.) Whatever the frequency, we still remember what it was like when the slightest hint made me hard or her wet. But those continual mindless testosterone trances had their downsides, too. Being spontaneously flooded with desire doesn't happen to us all the time at our mature ages. But that doesn't mean that I don't still spar on occasion with premature ejaculation or her with orgasmic explosions being elusive.

Now our sex lives are predicated on consciously summoning, guiding, and directing our sexual energies. We can get hot just about whenever we want to, and stay high for just about as long as we want. And the resulting pinnacles are mind-altering and life-changing. So how did we get here from being a couple of randy over-reactive rabbits?

What Did We Learn?
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First of all we let go of the game of controlling orgasm. You know, making her come and stopping myself from coming. Instead we learned to go with the flow. We learned to sense and feel and relish the subtle energies that slowly seep through our bodies. We learned to expand the slightest sensations into pelvis-rocking vibrations. That's partly why we're writing about yoni massage now. With the right attitude and sensitive touch, one finger is all you need to reach heaven whenever you want.

We learned to peak, meaning to rocket up with excitement while still going with the flow. That's a little more challenging when the surges are sparking through you and your breathing gets so fast and your muscles are quivering all over. But it's the secret that's not so secret anymore in my "Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery Ebook." Until I learned to relax at the peaks I was too often fighting to not come. And until Jeffre mastered surfing the tops of the waves, she would often numb out and want to stop sooner. How she learned that we thoroughly explain in our "Tantric G-Spot Orgasm And Female Ejaculation Ebook."

How Do We Make Love Now
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How we make love now is so much more than just servicing each other. When we finally write our masterpiece about full sexual union with vajra inside yoni in the next year or two, we're going to call it "The Dance Of Love." Dancing in sync with each other's energies is what's so special about this kind of spiritual loveplay.

We've both learned to allow each other to build our own passion inside our bodies. We've learned to sense each other's energy so we can follow each other's rhythms. Sure, we've learned what buttons to push to really turn each other on. But what's most remarkable is the instinctive timing that we've both developed. We both learned when to slow down, when to speed up, and when to go for it. We've both learned to flow with the crests of each other's energy.

That's the skill we urge you to develop: sensing, summoning, circulating, and sharing the energy of orgasm for hours before the Big O. As you learn to create and relish single, extended, and multiple explosions, you'll gradually develop the knack for imploding. That's the key to Tantric Energy Orgasm, not spilling the energy but recirculating back inside so you go higher and higher. Eventually you reach the O Zone, like a world-class dancer or athlete, where your state of ecstasy is effortless and continuous.

The Best Way To Develop Energy Mastery
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How do you develop energy mastery? Well, though it's not difficult but for many of us, it's not always quick. It just takes some dedicated practice while talking, connecting, touching, communicating, kissing, and more. A critical element is strengthening your sexual muscles which is why we give away our "Tantric Sex Muscle Ecourse" for half-price with any other ebook, or for free when you get our entire Tantric Sex Library.

It doesn't matter how long the path is as long as you're feeling good and exchanging pleasure. Along the way, it helps if you learn to relax into sexual pleasure, to honor your body's gifts, to create a sacred space for spiritual sex, to titillate your honey's orgasmic triggers, to extend and expand your own orgasms.

We might be just a little bit prejudiced, but we believer the best way for you to learn orgasmic energy mastery is to get our entire Tantric Sex Library. What better holiday present could you invest in to realize the full potential of your sex life, your love relationship, and spiritual health? Check out the huge savings and all the details here...

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Tantric Quote: "Love Born From Practice"

"Love born from practice: All activities of the senses, starting with speech, require continuous practice in order to manifest themselves. Love is born of long practice, like the love of hunting for the hunter." -- THE COMPLETE KAMA SUTRA translated by Alain Danielou

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Juicy Joke: "Why Are We So Hung Up On Nudity?"

I was driving with my three young children one warm summer evening when a woman in the convertible ahead of us stood up and waved. She was stark naked! As I was reeling from the shock, I heard my 5-year-old shout from the back seat, “Mom, that lady isn't wearing a seat belt!”  

A little boy got lost at the YMCA and found himself in the women's locker room.  When he was spotted, the room burst into shrieks, with ladies grabbing towels and running for cover.  The little boy watched in amazement and then asked,”What's the matter, haven't you ever seen a little boy before?”
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