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Your Tantra Newsletter: "Why Men Don't Get Enough Sex And Women Don't Get Enough Love"

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 11/3/04
Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2004 by Tantra At Tahoe (530) 587-1317
This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra & the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy & reach astounding heights of
sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
-- Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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Dear Tantra Friend:

We've just come back to earth after a three-day Private Tantric Workshop for a new couple. How lovely it is when seekers open to the power and joy of sexual energy and learn to fill their bodies and beings with this delicious life force. We've come to expect their surprise at such incredible sensations, deep intimacy, and phenomenal orgasms. Even after years of sharing the power of Tantra, we're still awed at the personal growth and spiritual transformation that Spiritual Sex brings.

That's why we do what we do, in this newsletter, in bed, and in our lives. We hope some of the Tantric Sex Tips, erotic products, and special offers will help you to get a piece of all that. Let us know how we can help your own unique journey.

This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "Actively Seek Inspiration"
* Juicy Joke: "Bottomless At The Craps Table"
* Friend's Feedback: "Best LoveMaking Ever"
* Featured Ebook: "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love"
* Featured Article: "Why Men & Women Don't Get Enough Sex & Love"
* Featured Service: "Advanced Tantric Initiation"
* Interesting Pubic Findings: "Good Reasons For Sex Books"
* Juicy Joke: "They Want A Baby"
* Tantric Quote: "Don't Knock Masturbation"
* Friend's Feedback: "Priceless Lines"
* Adult Product Specials: "Sensual Kits To Get Naughty With"
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Tantric Quote
- Actively Seek Inspiration -

"As I grow older, part of my emotional survival plan must be to actively seek inspiration instead of passively waiting for it to find me."

Juicy Joke
- Bottomless At The Craps Table -

It's 8:00 AM at a gambling casino. Two bored dealers are waiting around for someone to walk up and try their luck at the craps table. A very attractive lady comes in and wants to bet twenty- thousand dollars on a single roll of the dice. The dealers agree.

She says, "I hope you don't mind, but I feel much luckier when I'm bottomless."

With that she strips naked from the waist down, and rolls the dice while yelling, "Mama needs a new pair of pants!"

She then begins jumping up and down and hugging each of the dealers.


With that she picks up her money and clothes and quickly leaves. The dealers just stare at each other dumbfounded. Finally one of them asks, "What did she roll anyway?"

The other answers, "I don't know. I thought YOU were watching the dice!"

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"Here's a personal recommendation to add to y'all's credit at Tantra At Tahoe. When I got into a small amount of therapy for sexual confusion, I wasn't very together on what to do. At one point or another I was led to instruction from Tantrikas, and was on the phone for a little advise with y'all. With only a few sessions, soon thereafter I found myself in bed with a fine lady and experienced the best love-making I'd ever experienced in my life! Not only did I make a breakthrough, but it's been going on consistently for over seven months now, with mind boggling sex. I'm just starting to exist on an entirely transformed personal level. It's heavy if you ask me, so I'm grateful for your help and expertise. I want to encourage others to try Tantra if their love lives suck. Viva Tantra At Tahoe and my greatest thanks!!!." -- J.M. from Lake Tahoe.

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Featured Article
"Why Men Don't Get Enough Sex And Women Don't Get Enough Love"
"Tantric Practices You Can UseTo Heighten Intimacy & Turn-On"

by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees

In Tantra, we celebrate the divine passion in both men and women. But we recognize we're different. Whether you're male or female, Tantra and spiritual sexuality can help you do something about it. That's what this article is about, how to learn to connect more at all levels.

Although men and women have many differences they certainly have much in common as well. Let's say, they have just enough differences to make life and relationship VERY interesting.

Lots Of Books About It
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We've taken the title of this article from a very profound book written in the early 90's by Jonathan Kramer Ph.D. and Diane Dunaway. It traces the bioenergetic and social history of men and women, contrasting their needs and behaviors. The final half of the book speaks to the issue of, OK, now what do we do about these differences.

In his popular series of books, John Gray has told the world that women are from Venus and men are from Mars, further explaining the differences between the sexes particularly when it comes to communication styles and needs.

Adding to this list of researchers, therapists, and scholars who are looking at these differences, a recent offering is the book by Leonard Shlain titled, "Sex, Time and Power: How's Women's Sexuality Has Shaped Human Evolution." Dr. Shlain traces the evolution of women and men as homo sapiens emerged, discusses the female's sexuality and biology as the driving force to separate the roles of the sexes and the development of the awareness of linear time. For those more intellectually inclined, it is a pretty fascinating read.
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You Can Have More With More Meaning
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Why is a newsletter about Tantra and sex talking about male and female differences? Well, I guess the title says it all. Why do men not get enough sex and women not enough love? Suffice it to say that there are two major factors which get in the way...
1. men have more testosterone (as least when they are younger) and
2. women's emotional needs for intimacy are greater.
It's debatable whether this is predominantly a social phenomenon, that is, it's learned. Or is it somehow biologically determined? Probably both.

Testosterone is the hormone (neurotransmitter) that gives us our sex drive, makes us horny, and makes us think about sex. This is true for both sexes. The average woman has about 5% the average man's testosterone. Interestingly, the male's testosterone level peaks at about 18 years of age, while the woman's peaks in her mid 20's. Frankly guys, it's downhill after 18. But have no fear, Tantra is here.

This raises a bunch of important questions like...
-- How can we explain why some women are really horny?
-- Why are some women in their 50s often very turned on and want a lot of sex?
-- Or conversely, why do many menopausal women lose their interest in sex?
-- How does a woman learn to embrace her sexuality when she has a low testosterone level?
-- How does a 40 or 50 year old man learn to compensate for his decreasing testosterone level and waning libido?

Put Your Most Powerful Sex Organ To Work
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In addition to the little joke she played on us with these conditions, the Goddess or All That Is gave us something to think with, the cerebral cortex, specifically the frontal lobe. This is ultimately our most powerful sex organ. Our friends, the animals are lacking this piece of the brain, which is the great integrator, the part of our brain which is able to project into the future. Certainly for some of us worriers, this may not be a good thing, but it has a great deal of survival value if you live off the land as a hunter and gatherer.

We're talking about the brain of imagination and envisioning. this is the brain over which we have much control. We can quite literally, program ourselves to think differently if given the time and necessary repetition. In simple terms, we can teach ourselves to love sex by thinking about sex in desirable ways. And the more we think about the pleasures of sexual contact and sexual energy, the more we will feel it in our bodies.

So you, man or woman, have to want to feel more sexual and desire more sex and begin finding new and creative ways to think about it. For some this can be the value of pornography, which is visual stimulation which can fill the mind and push away conflicting thoughts. Which is one reason we offer links to popular erotic DVDs and videos in our adult store here...
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How To Talk About Sex
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Because Tantra is a new and for some, radically different way of thinking about sex, the practices of Supreme Bliss Tantra can nudge you to thinking more and more about pleasure, sex and spirit. When you think more about the pleasures of your body, the more you feel it and the more you want it. Sounds simple and it is, with one caveat. If you don't think about Tantric Sex, practice it, and think about it some more, it won't be effective in changing your feelings and responses to sex.

If you're in a relationship where you aren't getting enough sex or enough affection and intimacy, you must begin by communicating about what you want. Pay attention to what and how you say it. Try not to blame your partner, but stick to what it is you are feeling and wanting. Because sex is such a powerful focus of energy in our culture with its many taboos and restrictions, sex is often the fire of destruction in a relationship. It's hard to think you're not fully okay. It's hard to talk about sex. It's hard to work through differences. But working through those differences can transform your life and your relationship. It can empower you to be the divine being you truly are.

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Supreme Bliss Tantra Is About Ecstatic Energy
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Supreme Bliss Tantra teaches you to use energy to move through blocks and inhibitions. We also teach you multiple ways to sink into your bodily sensations and move into states of ecstasy. Once you learn to do that, you will never be dependent on your testosterone level again. You will simply want to be sexual more and more because it's the juice of a passionate life.

Our new ebook will offer dozens of practices so you can put this new perspective on love, life, and sex into action inside. How to sink into pleasure, accept yourself, open to love, feel more. These are some of the Tantric prerequisites for reaching your orgasmic potential. We're talking about bigger, better, easier orgasms. We're talking about multiple, extended, and continuous Tantric Orgasms. There's so much undiscovered pleasure out there for you, you can't imagine.

But you have to practice. That's why those couples who really want to save their sex lives and transform their relationship join us for Tantra training. You can read all about our Private Tantra Workshops here...
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In our next issue, we'll give you some specific things you can do each time you touch and connect sexually. For now, we simply suggest you bring up what you're wanting more of in bed.

Until next time, ecstatically your,

Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees

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The aim of this yearlong program is the total transformation of your mind, body, and spirit so you can live perpetually in the exalted sacred space of Supreme Bliss. When you complete our Advanced Tantric Initiation, you'll be able to relate to any beloved now or in the future with divine love, reach the sublime pinnacles of sexual ecstasy at will, and walk through life with consciousness, compassion, and abundant joy.

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Interesting Pubic Findings
- Good Reasons For Sex Books- ran a web poll recently about sex-related books. The results were...

26% admit they use sex books for inspiration and ideas.
60% say they are titillated by reading sex-related books.
9% tell us they find sex books to be totally instructional.
5% have no use for sexuality-related reading material.

Win By Taking Our Poll
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Juicy Joke
- They Want A Baby -

A man and a woman had been married for ten years and decided to try and have kids. They had not been using birth control for the entire time they had been married, so they thought they may have a problem conceiving.

The woman decided to go to the gynecologist and see if the problem was with her. She had been hard of hearing since she was a small child. The doctor examined her and came in to give her his opinions.

He said, "I'm sorry, but the problem is with you. You have insufficient passion and if you ever have a baby it will be a miracle."

The woman was very upset and went home crying. Her husband got home and asked her what was wrong.

She said, "The doctor told me I've got a fish in my passage and if I ever have a baby it will be a mackerel."

Tantric Quote
- Don't Knock Masturbation -

"Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love." -- WOODY ALLEN

Friend's Feedback
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"I really enjoyed the article's on this site: yoni massage, tantric yoga and your article on ejaculation mastery. It was refreshing to hear some one talk about this subject in a open and humorous way. Too many articles/books tend to reduce all discussions of sex to the "mechanics" and "physiology" of humans. As if our minds had nothing to do with our bodies. I find even many of the "new age" articles seem to be written by people who view everything in a serious and stern manner. Finding the humor in all things breaks through our natural defenses and helps, not hinders understanding. Lines like "So you get the fun without the wetness", were priceless." -- DAVE from Canada

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