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"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 10/26/05


Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras and Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees

  ISSN 1540-8825   (c) Copyright 2005 by


This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.       Our Motto:  Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex


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Dear Tantra Friend:


With Halloween upon us, our thoughts are turning to the more exotic, the more kinky. Do you have the most outrageous costumes planned for your party? We certainly do. We're currently at an adult clothing-optional resort in Mexico for our party and making the most of it. Don't worry, we'll be home the first of November to help you recover.

In honor of this glorious Tantric occasion, we're celebrating one of the most erotic aspects of sex, namely anal play. As our featured article explains, it's one of the most popular yet least talked about ways to have fun. Hopefully our advice below will help you ease into it safely and cleanly.

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             Love from Somraj, Jeffre, and John at Tantra At Tahoe


Featured Article: "Five Fun Ways To Play In Your Back Door"


- Tantric Guidelines For The Ever Popular Fascination With Anal Sex -

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that sex is one of the terms most often searched for on the internet. But did you know that one of the most popular sex keywords is "anal sex?" We're talking hundreds of thousands, maybe millions, every month.

Now why do you think that is? Because so many conservative partners are uncomfortable with the whole idea? Because it's so naughty that it turns so many people on? Because undersexed folks can actually view fantasies they've only dreamed about during wet dreams?

Whatever the reason, we're here to tell you that anal sex isn't as uncommon as many believe. Recent surveys have shown that over half of American adults have tried it and that a third of women really like it. We're convinced that there are good reasons for both male and female interest in anal play.

What too many people don't realize that with careful washing of the area beforehand and of toys and body parts used for anal play afterwards, it doesn't have to be dirty at all.


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Let's Examine The Rear Geography

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We figure we don't have to point out the main function of your rear orifice. OK, we'll be blunt and call it your asshole. But we mean that in the best possible way in spite of it's primary excretory function.

Because the anus or anal opening looks like a rose, in Tantra we prefer to call it "rosetta." Cute, huh? Have you ever taken a good look at your beloved's rosetta or your own with a mirror? If not, there's your first homework assignment.

Anyway, the rose shape is caused by one of two ring-like muscles, or sphincters, that seal the canal and keep those waste products where they belong. Until you consciously relax your sphincters, that is. The whole process requires a lot of sensitivity which probably explains why there's so many nerve endings back there. Which also explains why playing with rosetta feels so good.

About an inch inside the canal is a second sphincter which guards the exit from your rectum. The rectum is a much wider cavity which, by the way, is most often empty unless a bowel movement is imminent. It's good news that there's room inside there in case you insert something, preferably that feels good.

It's not only the high density of nerve endings around the anus that makes anal play great fun. It's also because the back door is great way to stimulate the G-Spot in both genders. Sure, you can massage a man's prostate from the outside. But it's more intense and easier to reach from inside his rectum.


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Ever wonder why some women love anal sex so much? It's because you can also easily reach her G-Spot from inside her rectum. Did you know that the tissue separating the canal from the vagina is only a few cells thick? Since for some women the angle needed to contact the G-Spot is better with rear entry, it can really feel great.


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So What Do I Use?

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Your four main options for anal play: fingers, tongues, toys, and penises. Because most of us start tight-assed with this kind of love-play, we recommend slow gradual experimentation to learn to relax and discover what you like. This is not something you want to rush. Going too fast is painful and that's not the point. Opening up slowly is the ticket.

That's why most beginners start with fingers. You can explore yourself this way and get to know the terrain. Fingers are easily protected, and clean up is made simple by using latex gloves, or the single-finger variety called "finger cots." When you look for them at your local drug store, be sure to chose the kind without talc. Sandpaper rubbing your rear entry isn't the kind of pleasure most lovers prefer.

Yes, since it's possible for big objects to come out of rosetta, it's possible for multiple fingers or even fists to enter. Obviously, this takes lots of practice and skill by both parties. Please don't try this under the influence of any mind-altering substances, even lots of alcohol. Numbing out is a likely way to hurt yourself with such adventuresome tactics.


Tantric Quote: "Patience"

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“Patience invites ease, whereas forcing invites tension.”  -- Jack Morin in ANAL PLEASURE AND HEALTH


Analingus, more commonly called "rimming," means using your tongue to stimulate rosetta. Some givers and receivers really love rimming, though it's probably the most likely to raise hygiene concerns.

Oh, we forgot to mention the fifth fun thing to do with an asshole: fisting. Now that's an amazing site to behold which we haven't yet aspired to. But there are times when we've enjoyed three fingers. Don't worry about the far end of the spectrum. When you've graduated to enjoying the other four anal play tools, you'll be able to make an educated decision about how big turns you on.

Look Ma, No Hands!

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Are You The Type That Goes All The Way?

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To many, anal sex means penile penetration. With our previous comments, we're glad to have expanded your definition.

Of course, we have to admit that, when really turned on, penis-in-rosetta play is really hot. Anal intercourse impacts different tissues in different ways that are super exciting. Partly this is because the average anal sphincter is tighter than the average vaginal one.

Let's just make it clear that most backdoor explorers move up to anal intercourse gradually. And with good reason. You need to learn the lay of the land (sorry, couldn't resist), how to relax, and reliable communication skills between partners.

So if you aim to go all the way eventually, we urge you to take it slow and enjoy the journey before you go for the full ride. We're more than open (there we go again) to offer our experience and advice. Take advantage of multiple ways to get our Tantric Sex Tips here:


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What's our advice for tonight? Meditate on what you're drawn to, talk with your partner if you have one, and be easy about it. Above all, stay clean. Wash carefully before. And whether or not you use gloves, don't touch anything before washing up again. That way you'll stay happy and healthy so that next time you can go a little further.

              Love, Somraj & Jeffre


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