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Your Tantra Newsletter: A Match Made in Heaven

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 10/8/03
Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2003 by Tantra At Tahoe
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This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
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Dear Reader:

Jeffre goes even deeper in this issue's feature article into her no-holds-barred look at how short-changed our sexual culture leaves the average woman in bed. And, of course, she offers lots fun of transformative things you can do about it.

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This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "Which Feelings Do You Chose?"
* Juicy Joke: "Food For Thought"
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* Friend's Feedback: "Aiming For Multiple Orgasms"
* Featured Article: "Tantra & The New Sexual Politics:
A Match Made in Heaven"
* Featured Service: "50% Special On Tantra TeleSeminars"
* Interesting Findings: "Sex Customs Around The World"
* Juicy Joke: "Yes, They Actually Said It On The Air"
* Tantric Quote: "Know Your Orgasmic Center"
* Friend's Feedback: "Still Enjoying Sex After 47 Years"
* Wanted: Live-In Girl Friday In Idyllic Mountain Setting
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* How To Save $15 On Our Ebooks

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-- Which Feelings Do You Chose? --

“Whatever you are giving your attention to is vibrating... You can choose something that causes you to reverberate in such fantastic harmony with your Source that you heart is singing all the time -- or you can choose something to focus upon that is gut-wrenching, or unsettling.

“When you discover the freedom of choosing thought which connects you with who you are and causes you to radiate the powerful Pure Positive Energy that is You, your heart is singing -- and you are so good to be with.” -- ABRAHAM

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- Food For Thought -

Fighting for peace? Isn't that just like screwing for virginity?

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Featured Article

"Tantra & The New Sexual Politics: A Match Made in Heaven!"

(In our last issue, Jeffre explained how women suffer from our cultural "orgasm gap." In her final installment, she explains how, and what their lovers role is as well.)

If you have been reading our newsletter for some time you probably have an idea about the ways that Tantra is the perfect tool for expressing the new view of sexuality that we have been describing for the past two newsletters. However, we want to briefly review the most important points of the past two articles and demonstrate how these points are addressed by Tantra.

Goddess, Develop Your Sexual Self
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For a woman of any age in our society, there is a need to uncover, discover, rediscover and expand her sexual self, her identity as a deeply sexual being. As she, Shakti (Tantric for the feminine energy), opens her energetic channels and loves her sexuality, she is open to more and more pleasure which includes more and more orgasms. As she develops her sexual self, she, gains self confidence, joy and the ability to ask for what she wants.

You, Shakti, will also never do anything that will not serve you, just because a guy wants you to. Shakti, yes, you are a goddess, a divine being who deserves all the fun, love, and pleasure there is.

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Your Capacity For Pleasure Is Enormous
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Not only is each of us a conscious being, we each have an enormous capacity for pleasure. What if we could take this capacity and expand pleasure and passion into all aspects of our life. That my friends, is a Tantric Life. Click here to check out our new ebook that describes this Tantric Life...
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Whether you are male or female, when you are feeling fulfilled sexually, you are a much happier person. Pleasure begets pleasure. As our beloved teacher Abraham says, "The better it gets, the better it gets."

Women naturally love sex when they are pleasured fully. Men have been as inaccurately brainwashed as women about how to have sex. The vast majority of men only want to please their woman, their Shakti, but they have to be taught. They need to understand in general about women's responsiveness and they need to understand specifically your turn-ons, your turn-offs, and the order that gets you to the supreme bliss ecstatic state and ultimate orgasms.

Extend Your LoveMaking For Hours
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One of the most important gifts Tantra can give to a man is ejaculation mastery. Remember, women take 30-45 minutes to orgasm on the average. Tantra teaches the Shiva (Tantric for the man and male energy) to extend his lovemaking by separating orgasm from ejaculation. With training and practice, can feel orgasmic ecstasy without losing his hard on.

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Afloat In The Sea Of Sexual Ignorance
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If we redefine sex as loveplay and not intercourse, with the goal of ecstasy, not orgasm, then we begin to focus on the process of making love and not the specific technique of the moment.

One of the fundamental teachings of Supreme Bliss Tantra is to release your goal orientation. Keeping your goal in mind keeps you out of your body and into your head; a sure combination to limit your ecstasy. Learning to breathe into every moment, spread the energy throughout your body, you simply flow into the next moment and the next moment, etc. This is Tantric lovemaking with or without intercourse.

Tantra says "yes" to all that you are. Yes to your humanness. Yes to your divine nature and yes to your sexual self. Everything about you is part of the divine plan. There are no mistakes. Nothing about you is "bad." When you study Tantra, you begin to really get how you, your consciousness and the rest of the universe fit together. It is part of truly loving yourself. If you are a child of Goddess, God, All That Is, how can there be anything wrong with you or any part of you?

We have spent so many eons under the illusion that sex should be limited; that you can have too much pleasure or fun; and that there should be strict laws and rules about the nature of sexual play. As a result we are afloat in a sea of ignorance which simply promotes the Orgasm Gap (see previous newsletter: The New Sexual Politics, part 2).

Sex Is Much More Than Intercourse
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Sex is soooo much more than intercourse. Sex is divine play, which is "Leila" in Sanskrit. For example, think of fingers as 10 little sex organs, not to mention that divine sex organ, the tongue.

Tantra completely acknowledges the deep sexuality of Shakti, the female. Tantra encourages Shakti to know herself, love herself and educate herself about the art of pleasure and sexual ecstasy.

Tantra encourages Shiva, the male, to follow the Shakti energy and develop within himself the feminine side of his nature. Shakti develops her masculine energy, knowledge, awareness and assertiveness while Shiva learns to tame his masculine energies by developing his receptive energy.

When both happen, ecstatic states become second nature and easily attainable. It all begins with self love, education and being open to pleasure. This is what Supreme Bliss Tantra is all about.

You Can Be The Lover You've Always Dreamed Of
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Whichever path you take -- solo, reading, talking with us -- I urge you to exercise your spiritual power and be all you can be sexually.

Wishing you love and lots of long ecstatic lovemaking,

Dhyan Jeffre

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Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D., cofounder of Supreme Bliss
Tantra, is an author, speaker, workshop leader, and licensed
SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical
experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-
author of "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love."

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Interesting Pubic Findings

-- Sex Customs Around The World --

In Tasmania, a widow is required to wear her dead husband's penis around her neck for a period of time after his death

Married men in Iran can legally have homosexual sex with their wife's father, brother or son.

During their ceremonies, Australian Aborigines of the Walibri clan greet neighboring tribes by shaking penises, rather than shaking hands.

Among the Marind-anim people of New Guinea, a bride has sex with all the men in her husband's clan in a kind of marriage ceremony called "Otiv Bombari." This ceremony also takes place after the birth of a child.

According to the Ayatollah Khomeini, though, it is acceptable to have sex with a lamb, but a mortal sin to eat it afterwards.

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-- Yes, They Actually Said It On The Air --

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Weightlifting commentator at the Olympic Snatch & Jerk Event: "This is Gegoriava from Bulgaria. I saw her snatch this morning during her warm up and it was amazing."

Ted Walsh, Horse Racing Commentator: "This is really a lovely horse and I speak from personal experience since I mounted her mother."

At a trophy ceremony BBC TV Boat Race 1988: "Ah, isn't that nice, the wife of the Cambridge president is hugging the Cox of the Oxford crew."

Metro Radio, College Football: "Julian Dicks is everywhere. It's like they've got eleven Dicks on the field."

US Open TV Commentator: "One of the reasons Arnie Palmer is playing so well is that, before each final round, his wife takes out his balls and kisses them. Oh my God, what have I just said?"

Tantric Quote

-- Know Your Orgasmic Center --

"I'm astounded at the percentage of men who have not a clue about the function or importance of the prostate. In informal polling, I think it could be upwards of 80 to 90 percent of men who, if you ask them what is the importance and function of your prostate, you get blank stares... Because  they've never read about, talked about or thought about their prostate." -- Kim Garretson, prostate cancer survivor and founder of the Mans Gland Campaign

(We agree, Kim. G-Spot massage is not only healthy, it creates supreme bliss and sexual ecstasy for both sexes as our new ebook, Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation, demonstrates and teaches. -- ED)

Friend's Feedback

-- Still Enjoying Sex After 47 Years --

"We have been married 47 loving very sexual years. We both are 67 years young. Have 3 children and 5 grandkids. We raised our kids to be
open-minded, nudists & loving. Sex & being open with each other has always been one of our greatest concerns plus raising our kids to be close to each other. We are always interested in learning new things & staying up on things & your newsletter that we receive from Tantra At Tahoe is very enlightening & full of information that we have enjoyed reading." -- Gene & Ernie from Phoenix

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