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Your Tantra Newsletter: In Tantra Do You Have To Swing? And With Your Teacher?
More Ways To Look At How Sex Positive You Really Are

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 9/25/08
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2008 by
This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
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Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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Dear Reader:

In this article we're continuing our series of articles about what some would call outrageous sexual practices. Do you know about the swinging or partner-swapping sub-culture that's alive and well and busy in this and other countries? And how does that fit in with Spiritual Sex. Read on to discover and share you reactions on our new blog at .

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* Tantric Quote: "No Ordinary Blow Job"
* Juicy Joke: "Grammar Lesson"
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* Featured Article: "In Tantra Do You Have To Swing? And With Your Teacher?"
* Tantric Quote: "A Wonderful Play I've Written"
* Juicy Joke: "The Beautiful Urologist"
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Tantric Quote: "No Ordinary Blow Job"

"As the hurricane said to the coconut tree, hang on to your nuts, this ain't no ordinary blow job."

Juicy Joke: "Grammar Lesson"

Harry is getting along in years and finds that he is unable to perform sexually. He finally goes to his doctor, who tries a few things but nothing seems to work. So eventually the doctor refers him to an old gypsy medicine Woman.

The medicine woman says, "I can cure this." That said, she throws a white powder in a flame, and there is a flash with billowing blue smoke. She collects the ash, then she says, "This is powerful medicine. You can only use it once a year. All you have to do is say '123' and your member shall rise for as long as you wish!"

The guy then asks, "What happens when it's over, and I don't want to continue?"

The medicine woman replies: "All you or your partner has to say Is 1234, and it will go down. But be warned - it will not work again for another year!"

Harry rushes home, eager to try out his new powers and prowess. That night he is ready to surprise Joyce. He showers, shaves, and puts on his most exotic shaving lotion. He gets into bed, and lying next to her says, "123." He suddenly becomes harder and more aroused than anytime in his life just as the medicine woman had promised.

Joyce, who had been facing away, turns over and asks, "What did you say 123 for?"

And that, my friends, is why you should never end a sentence with a preposition.

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Featured Article: "In Tantra Do You Have To Swing? And With Your Teacher?"

More Ways To Look At How Sex Positive You Really Are

Have you made any posts on our blog to my last article about Full-Service Sex? Well, there's more where that came from.

Ecstatic Sex Requires Training And Practice
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If one partner can’t get something that they want at home, what do you think they should do? Just try and forget about it? That doesn’t sound very sex positive, does it? Should they pay for it? How about having an open relationship where either party can have lovers on the side without secrets? Would it be better to cheat behind their partner’s back in a clandestine affair which is the most common practice?

None of these options sounds perfect to us. Supreme Bliss Tantra certainly doesn't doesn't endorse cheating, but neither do we advocate any kind of open lifestyle that doesn't work for both of you. Our best recommendation is for the couple to attend some public sacred sex training together or take one of our Private Tantra Workshops. Then they can both work through their inhibitions and get clear on their desires with professional support and guidance. The outcome is that together they can create a hotter, fuller, consensual sex life.

We get a lot of inquiries from people who want to change their sexual diet. Unfortunately, too many of them are from one frustrated member of a couple who can’t get their partner to go along with it. I remember one loving husband who assured us that his wife would love his surprise tenth anniversary present of a Private Tantric Workshop . Predictably, she freaked out and we never heard from them again.

What do you think about Tantra teachers who demonstrate sexual techniques in a spiritually uplifting atmosphere? Do you believe it’s OK for couples to practice in the classroom in front of others? What do you think about teachers who have sex with their students? Would that be OK if it’s consensual in a sacred space? Though we don't have intercourse with clients, we get pretty erotic at times when it’s requested consciously. And often we don't if they prefer that all sexual contact is between them or in private.

What do you think you'd be most comfortable with?

Supreme Bliss Tantra Is Way Different Than Swinging
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Part of the titillation that brought Tantric practice to the U.S. in the middle of the last century was unsubstantiated stories about secret group-sex rituals. That probably came out of the era of couple's "key parties." Know what that is? Ever been to one? It's where all the men at a party put their car keys in a basket and the women reach in and pull out one set. You guessed it, she gets to go home in the car those keys unlock and spend the night with whichever husband owns the car. That's probably where swinging started in this country.

Swinging is the practice of couples going to parties and exchanging partners to have sex. Sometimes it's nearly anonymous, meaning you don't even exchange your real names. But we've found it's much more satisfying if you make friends with new lovers who you have fun doing it with. We used to attend parties and teach Tantra workshops at the big annual LifeStyles Convention in California which sometimes attract 5000 people.

LifeStyles is a big sex-positive community represented by people all around but staying in the dark to protect their public images. There's no guarantee that, as we've found, there's much interest in the spiritual aspects of this kind of healthy, recreational play. We call it healthy because it exercises our natural appetites in a way that doesn't sneak around behind your significant others back. Lying is much less sacred than consensual swapping, don't you think?

But still, this isn't what happens in a Tantra workshop with a reputable teacher. What's your opinion about swinging? Does it sound healthier than clandestine affairs? What problems do you think it could create if lovers aren't honest, safe, and conscious?

Are You Interested In Group Sex Rituals, Sacred Or Otherwise?
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Let's get back to the Tantric group-sex rituals. I'll tell you the story as we know it. When Tantra went underground in India thousands of years ago, most everything became secret. All that was written was cryptic scrolls were kept hidden. Most instruction was by word of mouth from a guru whose trust the student had earned through lengthy service and practice.

No, that doesn't mean sexual services. In fact, if you're really interested, you should read Daniel Odier's great book "Tantric Quest" about his personal journey to find a teacher in the Indian countryside. It was an ordeal to find her, and months of extreme effort to prepare himself once he did until she deemed him worthy for the "Tantric Maithuna." Some would call maithuna ritual intercourse but those trained understand it as the sacred exchange of life-force energy seeking higher consciousness and a divine connection.

Even sketchier are accounts of the ancient Ganachakra Ritual. Eight couples who have been trained by the guru for months or years cleanse and fast for several days to prepare themselves. They come together in a circle, surrounding the guru and a young woman ready for initiation, moving through various stages of ritual. Together they imbibe forbidden substances like meat and wine and some say bhang (marijuana). Then they exchange sexual partners.

If you don't understand the context, it just sounds like a key party or a swingers' orgy. But when you're steeped in the tradition captured in the Eastern ritual greeting called "namasté", you'd understand better. Namasté is the bow with palms together over the heart which signifies "The God/Goddess in me honors the God/Goddess in you." Ritualized sacred sex is done with the belief that a woman can reach God by making love to any man, and a man can reach Goddess by making love to any woman.

Another way to put this is to say that the ultimate Tantric conception is that you can reach the highest evolved spiritual consciousness by creating sexual energy with anyone who shares that awareness with you. This is not something we've ever done with students new to Supreme Bliss Tantra because that's not the point of studying to upgrade your relationship and expand your sensuality to include Spiritual Sex.

The Question Is: Can You Drop Your Dramatic Human Emotions?
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Yes, when appropriate we've enjoyed versions of this ancient ceremony with fellow Tantric adepts. It requires focus, dedication, mental presence, and spiritual awareness, otherwise the natural human emotions of jealousy, shame, guilt, and old baggage interfere dramatically. How do you react to such rituals? Are you titillated or repulsed? Do you dismiss them as meaningless excuses for promiscuity? Can you conceive of such spiritual dedication? Post your comments and questions on our blog and let's see what the consensus is.

At first, we thought it would be lots easier to find sex-positive couples at swinger events who would be interested in better and more Tantric Sex. What we found out, though, was that the vast majority of attendees were spectators or wannabes. Actually, we've found that's a pretty healthy way for couples to broaden their horizons in a group that condones all sorts of sexual behavior. Well, OK, they typically frown on sex between men, but love to see women go down on each other.

How do you feel about all of this? Are you willing to use the Supreme Bliss Tantric process of consciously putting a toe in the water (before you put your cock in a strange mouth or pussy) and seeing how it feels first? We all look forward to your reactions.

Your self-proclaimed sexually-liberated Supreme Bliss Tantra mentor…


Tantric Quote: "A Wonderful Play I've Written"

"I think of life itself, now, as a wonderful play that
I've written myself...And so my purpose is to have
as much fun playing my part." -- Shirley Maclaine

Juicy Joke: "The Beautiful Urologist"

My regular Doctor referred me a urologist for some tests.

The meeting was at 8:00 this morning.

The urologist was a women, in her early 30's,  and she was unbelievably beautiful and sexy.

She told me that I had to quit masturbating. I asked her why.

She said "Because I'm trying to examine you".

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