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Your Tantra Newsletter: More NEW Sexual Politics

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 9/25/03
Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2003 by Tantra At Tahoe
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This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
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relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
--- Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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Dear Reader:

Jeffre goes even deeper in this issue's feature article into her
no-holds-barred look at how short-changed our sexual culture
leaves the average woman in bed. And, of course, she offers lots
fun of transformative things you can do about it.

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* Featured Article: "More NEW Sexual Politics"
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* Tantric Quote: "Self-Gratification Is So Important"
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-Entice Women Like Tender Flowers-

“...Women are like flowers and need to be enticed very tenderly...
If they are taken by force by men who have not yet won their
trust, they become women who hate sex. Even a beautiful or very
angry woman cannot resist a man falling at her feet; this is a
universal rule.” -- Kamasutra

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- Lessons From X-rated Movies-

- Women wear high heels to bed.

- Men are never impotent.

- Women enjoy having sex with any man who looks at them "that"

- Women always orgasm when men do.

- People in the 70's couldn't shag unless there was a wild guitar
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- Women never have headaches... or periods.

- When your girlfriend bursts in on you having sex with her best
friend, she'll only be momentarily mad before having sex with
the both of you.

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Featured Article

"More New Sexual Politics: What is Sex?"

(In our last issue, Jeffre introduced you to how stilted our sexual
attitudes our. In her second installment, she goes much much

I hope to bend your mind a little. As you read this article I ask
you to stay open for a new definition of sex in general and for
women in specific.

What I'm going to do is outline a new model of female sexual
anatomy and pleasure. When the woman, or Shakti, experiences
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and the cry is "more, more, more."

What Do You Think Sex Is?
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When you think of sex, the chances are very good that you think
of intercourse. Why do you think that is? If you answered cultural
conditioning, you are correct. But let's go deeper.

In their terrific book, The Sex You Want," Drs. Lisa and Marcia
Douglass describe what they call the Orgasm Gap. The reality is
that intercourse is designed to get the guy off quickly to help
ensure the impregnation of the female. Well, I hope most of you
are well beyond that stage of wanting to get off quickly, that is.

What results from the average intercourse is that about 70% of
men have orgasms and about 70% of women don't. This is the
Orgasm Gap. Intercourse is not the most likely way for women to
have the most pleasure nor the most orgasms.

I would never put intercourse down, I love it too much. But as an
exclusive diet, it leaves much to be desired. Intercourse ain't the
whole banana. Chuckle!

Another book that is very up to date yet in a different way is "For
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Begone The Orgasm Gap
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Keep in mind that the average sexual encounter in this country
lasts 15 minutes. And the average guy comes in 5 to 7 minutes.
Now I know that none of our male readers are in this category
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Because of the Orgasm Gap, with most men and women believing
sex is intercourse, a majority of women do not have orgasms
regularly. This is a clear case of too much intercourse and not
enough loveplay. This gap leads to many women believing they
have a sexual problem or they just stop being interested in sex.

A woman who doesn't orgasm regularly with her partner stops
believing she is a sexual being. Guys, if you had intercourse
without being able to orgasm, do you think you might stop
wanting it too?

This is just a piece of the problem. Even more basic is what
Tantra teaches us: conscious empowered sex we celebrate. This
requires owning your sexual identity, communicating about it,
and going for what you want.

If you, Shakti, want to modify your sex life with your partner,
deepen your connection and expand your options as well as your
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Let's redefine sex as love play or sex play without goals, just
great fun and oodles of pleasure. Use all the parts of your body.
They're erogenous zones all over the body. What an ecstatic
journey finding all them. Sex is the most fun adults can have
while deepening their relationship and their connection to All
That Is.

How To Fully Satisfy Women
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What about female sexual anatomy? In the early 80's, Whipple,
Perry and Ladas put the G-Spot on the medical map. In the late
80's, the Feminist Women's Health Collective and then
Josephine Lowndes Sevely proffered a new view of women's
sexual anatomy. M.D.s dismissed it as feminist foo foo, but
science is slowly coming to give substantiation to their view.

Marcia and Lisa Douglass take this view a few steps further in
The Sex You Want. This is a very brief summary and I know you'll
want to know more.

As a culture, we don't know how to please a women sexually.
Other cultures have known and forgotten while others have
known and not forgotten. We are still wrapped in a Victorian
cocoon where "ladies" are only ladies if they don't like sex.

Break out, Shakti. Look at your own genitals in a mirror. What do
you see? Explore. What do you feel, outside and inside? Your
Yoni, vagina, is not a "black hole." It is filled with the most
elaborate and finely figured apparati with which to have pleasure
that could have been designed. Share these discoveries with your

Do you know your clitoris, we call her clio, has legs? Do you
know these legs are sensitive to touch? Do you know that the
tissue of the G-Spot is not a spot, but is an area that swells like a
puffy, juicy croissant when stimulated correctly?

The Drs. Douglass call this glorious pleasure area the Orgasmic
Crescent, because of the way it looks when aroused and swollen.
Do you know where the other spongy tissue in your genital area
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But Wait There's Even More Ecstasy
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It is also true that every woman is capable of ejaculating or
squirting. Many experts say that we probably ejaculate a little
with every orgasm. The amount may be so small it isn't noticed.
Learning to ejaculate takes a little finagling and a lot of practice.

But isn't that what this new sexual loveplay is all about: playing,
fun, and ecstasy? Experimenting and sexual play becomes an
never-ending, ever new journey of discovery and joy. How many
different kinds of orgasm do you have?

Join me for the next newsletter in October where I expound on
the multiple reasons that Supreme Bliss Tantra is the perfect
vehicle for loving yourself and finding the ways to cherish and
explore the NEW female anatomy.

As you grow into who you are sexually, all of your feelings about
yourself grow too. The sexual self, or sexual identity shapes how
you love yourself and how you interact with the world. Be the
best you can be and feel the best you can feel.

Wishing you love and lots of long ecstatic lovemaking,

Dhyan Jeffre

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Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D., cofounder of Supreme Bliss
Tantra, is an author, speaker, workshop leader, and licensed
SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical
experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-
author of "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love."

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-- Elementary My Dear Watson --

Sherlock Holmes and Watson were walking through a park,
when they passed three women, eating bananas. "Good evening,
ladies," said Sherlock.

After they passed, Watson asked if he knew those women. "No,
Watson, I didn't know that nun, prostitute, or bride."

Baffled, Watson asked how he knew their identities.

"Elementary, my dear Watson. The nun was eating the banana by
breaking it into small pieces. The prostitute was shoving the
banana into her mouth. And the bride was holding the banana
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Tantric Quote

-- Self-Gratification Is So Important --

“All of your life you have been taught that it is better to give than
to receive. Yet you cannot give what you do not have.

"That is why self-gratification is so important.

"Give yourself abundant pleasure, and you will have abundant
pleasure to give others.

"The masters of Tantric sex know this. That’s why they
encourage masturbation, which some you actually call a sin.” ---
Conversations With God, Book 2

Friend's Feedback

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"Through your newsletters you are giving me a greater insight
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gone? Do you find you can hold on to that feeling even when
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make an effort to stay there?" -- J.P. from the UK

(Yes, J.P., with enough regular practice we can. And so can you.
-- Ed.)

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