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| Want to boost sexual pleasure, physical health, and spiritual growth all together? Read this issue's feature article. ******************************************************** "S A C R E D S E X U A L S E C R E T S" Newsletter 9/25/02 ******************************************************** Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2002 by Tantra At Tahoe <http://www.TantraAtTahoe.com> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This is a free ezine distributed twice a month offering practical sex tips derived from modern sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra. Tantra At Tahoe is dedicated to helping you deepen your relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training. Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This newsletter is by SUBSCRIPTION ONLY! If you've received it by mistake, see unsubscribe instructions at the end. ******************************************************** M A K E T H E M O S T O F Y O U R E Q U I P M E N T ******************************************************** Dear Subscriber: Using our whole bodies, not just our secret trigger spots, to create divine states of consciousness is central to Tantra. So this issue's article is all about treating your body as the temple it rightly is. Too many of us haven't mastered the owner's manual for our vehicles. For example, do you know how to use the G-Spot to reach spiritual highs? We've been reading survey results lately about G-Spot Orgasms and have learned some fascinating facts. Many folks can't find theirs. Some don't exactly know what to do with it when they do. But those who do report the most incredible sacred connection and mind-blowing continuous climaxes. So we've drafted a new ebook about the G-Spot and Female Ejaculation. Take our October poll/contest (listing below) and help us finish it. And while we're on the subject of polls, congratulations to Ron Pullen who contributed to our September "Beginners Guide To Tantra" poll (results below) and won Somraj's great ebook, "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery." You could be our next winner! Love from Tantra At Tahoe who is... Dhyan Jeffre & Dhyan Somraj P.S. If you have close friends you're willing to talk to about sex, please forward this newsletter to them. Everyone can benefit from Tantric ecstasy and spiritual growth. ******************************************************** T A N T R I C Q U O T E O F T H E M O N T H ******************************************************** “Tantric Buddhism is the much misunderstood practice of using the sexual energy as a way of exploring spirituality. - using sex as a gateway to a richer and deeper spiritual experience, and using spirituality as a means of expanding the sex act into one of erotic symbolism and meditation.” ----- A Beginner’s Guide To Tantric Sexuality ******************************************************** J U I C Y J O K E ******************************************************** "New Medical Crisis" "There's a new medical crisis. Doctors are reporting that many men are having allergic reactions to latex condoms. They say they cause severe swelling. "So what's the problem?" ----- Jay Leno ******************************************************** F E A T U R E D A R T I C L E ******************************************************** "YOUR DIVINE BODY, YOUR SACRED TEMPLE, YOUR SEXUAL BIRTHRIGHT" Loving Yourself & Looking After Your Body To Experience True Sacred Sexuality & Spiritual Growth Have you ever looked into a full length mirror at your naked body? How about doing it right now ? What thoughts go through your head when you look at yourself? How do you feel? Are you filled with awe at the beauty and power of your physical manifestation? Or do you feel disgust? Perhaps there are parts you love and find attractive. And other parts you really wish were different. YOUR BODY, YOUR TEMPLE, YOUR SEX - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - For many of you, you understand the importance of how you feel towards your body and the impact this attitude has on your sexual pleasure. To achieve what Tantra is all about -- growing, loving, and living life to its fullest -- you need to feel good about all parts of yourself. To be totally explicit, we want to support you in feeling maximum pleasure with everything you experience in this world. Which requires you totally accepting who you are mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and, yes, physically. Your body is the physical expression of who you are in this world. It is an extension of your inner spiritual self. To a Tantrika, we view the body as a divine gift, so we call it what it really is, your temple. The sanctuary where your soul resides. The bridge to the other-worldly power of sexual spiritual transformation. A large part of Tantra is sacred sexuality, using the life force of orgasmic energy, to fuel higher consciousness and a connection with the supreme. Your body is the vehicle for moving into these exalted states of ecstasy, being swept away in orgasmic waves of bliss, and experiencing the ultimate communion with self or beloved. YOUR SEXUAL EXPRESSION - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - The way you treat your body and your feelings about your body are reflected in your sexual expressions. Loving and honoring your physical temple is demonstrated in your life through what you eat, how you exercise, and how fit you maintain your body. If you want to experience the ultimate spiritual alchemy of sexual orgasm, you need to keep your equipment working in tip top shape. If you desire to be a world class lover, you must have the body and the energy to sustain frequent long lovemaking sessions. If you truly love yourself, which is a high state of spiritual health, then you will treat your body with care, give it the loving attention that is necessary, and not abuse it. MEN & WOMEN HAVE ONE, BUT TREAT IT DIFFERENTLY - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - There is a gender difference in the West regarding loving your body.... 85% of women in this country are dissatisfied with their body in some way. Only 15% of men feel this way. Neither of these figures necessarily reflect a healthy attitude nor a healthy behavior pattern. Over 50% of the populace are out-of-shape, unfit, and overweight. Unfortunately, this figure is growing higher all the time. Now, we don't want to imply that you have to be a thin marathon-runner to be fit and sexy. In Tantra, we don't subscribe to the exaggerated media-driven images of what's right, healthy, and desirable for a body. Attractive bodies can assume many different shapes, sizes, and proportions, as long as they're loved and cared for. As we learn to joyously own our vehicles and open their hidden channels to the flow of sexual energy, we discover we can create powerful desire for any body shape. However for most, being unfit represents a lack of love for the body and in turn, promotes a form of self loathing. Self loathing almost always leads to dysfunctional behavior. Men often deny they have a problem, and come to us to figure out why they are having erectile problems or too rapid ejaculation. Somraj's popular ebook, Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery, available at... <http://www.tantraattahoe.com/uem.htm> can help build the skills to lengthen sexual delight almost indefinitely. But much of the time, it's poor health, prescription medications, or smoking and drinking which training may not resolve. DON'T JUST LOOK OUTSIDE TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - From a Tantric point of view, your temple, your altar, your body deserves reverence and an attitude of worship. Your body gives you the foremost pleasure when it's fit, healthy, and loved. The huge delightful payoff for caring for your body is clear. One scenario we've seen over and over again is the married woman who is overweight, feels depressed, and has lost interest in sex. She complains that can't get into sex because she feels unattractive. She decides to divorce, immediately starts working out, becomes fit, and voila! her sex drive returns full bore. Suddenly a juicy relationship becomes a priority again. We're not saying that her original relationship wasn't part of the problem. But we are agreeing that feeling unattractive, male or female, will diminish your interest in sex. Similarly, you may be turned off if your partner gains weight or lets the body go to pot. How you look, how you feel is a reflection of deeper issues. Feeling self love is the foundation for hot sex, trying new things, a solid relationship, and a joyful life. Do what ever it takes to love yourself. WHO WILL LOVE YOU IF YOU DON'T? - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Ironically, you may have difficulty getting fit if you don't love yourself. To counteract this natural resistance, consider standing nude in front of that full length mirror each morning and telling each part of your body that you love it. For example, "I love you legs, I love you butt, "etc. Dancing is a sensual way to get great exercise. Take a dance class. It's a blast. Go dancing to bands that really move you. Your body will love it and your partner will too. Just this simple pleasure in rhythm movement can stimulate the motivation to love your body. In our private Tantric Initiations, we recommend daily yoga to stay limber, to stay fit, and reinforce the sexual muscles which open the body to the flow of spiritual sexual bliss. If you are unfit, it will be more difficult for you to feel the muscles necessary to generate orgasmic energy. Fatty tissue has very few nerve endings, therefore very little feeling. You will want to be able to feel that energy running in your body. Your body will benefit from feeling fine tuned, just like your car runs better when it is tuned. START DOING THESE THINGS RIGHT NOW - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Here are some things you can start doing right away... -- Start with loving yourself. Use affirmations, prayer, psychotherapy or whatever you need to increase your ability to love yourself. -- Honor your body with healthy food, a fitness regimen, and daily appreciation. --Consider increasing your sexual energy through self pleasuring or being with your partner sexually more frequently. Sexual energy heals. --Learn the ancient secrets of sacred sexuality and incorporate these into your daily life for growing spiritual health and a healthy diet of sexual ecstasy. Our Tantric Initiations are the fastest and most powerful way to transform you life, love, and sexuality. Click here for details... <http://www.tantraattahoe.com/service/initiation.htm>. - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D. is a licensed SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-author of "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love." Dhyan Somraj is the author of countless articles about Tantra, over 50 workshops, and 4 books including Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery. During his 30 year career as a counselor, group facilitator, and trainer, Somraj has guided more that 20,000 people to lead more ecstatic effective lives. ******************************************************** E A R N F R E E S T U F F & L O T S O F $ ( M O N E Y) ******************************************************** With our affiliate program, you can make hefty commissions for referring your friends, emailing your lists, and posting listings on your website. Click here to register and for complete details... <http://www.tantraattahoe.com/reg/free.htm>. ******************************************************** I N T E R E S T I N G P U B I C F I N D I N G S ******************************************************** "Longest Human Clitoris" Clitoris size has only rarely been of importance in human society. A few communities- Ford and Beach mention the Easter Islanders - have favored the large clitoris and some natives have tried with varying degrees of success to enlarge this organ in their girls. For the most part however, with a prevailing indifference in the nineteenth-century and early part of the twentieth-century to sexual arousal in women, the clitoris has been neglected. Needless to say, it varies in size. How big are the largest? Theo Lang in "The Difference Between a Man and a Woman" mentions one recorded instance of a woman having a clitoris 2 inches long, and 3 inches "when fully erect". Pomeroy has remarked that clitorises measuring more than 1 inch are very rare in whites... Benjamin and Masters note in "The Prostitute in Society" that Parent-Duchalet came across a clitoris that measured 3.14 inches The eighteenth-century Swiss biologist, Albrecht von Haller, is said to have come across a woman with a monstrous clitoris no less than 7 inches long. But the record clitoris is almost certainly the 12 inches specimen mentioned by various writers and quoted (without comment) by W. Francis Benedict in "The Sexual Anatomy of Women". ----- From The Illustrated Book of Sexual Records. ******************************************************** W I N B Y B Y T A K I N G O U R S E X P O L L ******************************************************** Congratulations to Ron Pullen who won our September CONTEST and received a free copy of Somraj's popular ebook, "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery." We wish you lots more long-lasting Tantric Orgasms, Ron. Thanks for contributing. You could be next month's winner. For your monthly chance to win a free Tantric ebook or email course, be sure to enter our monthly contest by taking our 1 minute Tantric Sex Poll by clicking here... <http://www.tantraattahoe.com/poll.htm>. ******************************************************** T A N T R I C S E X F O R B E G I N N E R S P O L L R E S U L T S ******************************************************** Our September poll gathered feedback about our forthcoming Tantric Sex ebook for beginners. We were excited to learn that 77% of you were very interested, women more than men. The most important themes for this ebook were... * Make lovemaking last for hours of ecstasy * Better longer stronger whole-body energy explosions * Intimacy and heart connection. The most popular techniques you want us to include are... * Sensual massage * Oral sex techniques * G-spot massage * Manual genital stimulation. The methods people most want to master are... * Spreading sexual energy to create ecstatic vibrations * Connecting sexual energy with partners to get closer * Releasing tensions and worries in order to relax more * Becoming more comfortable in fully letting go Most sexuality teachers believe that women have more trouble releasing tensions and letting go, but our results were about the same for both genders. Since Tantra is primarily a spiritual practice, we were heartened to learn that nearly half of you were willing to practice solo or together. That's how you make progress on this ecstatic path. Over half of the men and about a third of the women who responded were living together in a monogamous relationship. We didn't expect that higher response from men and wonder if more men in long-term relationships are aware of needing Tantra (or something) to rekindle the fire and closeness with their partners. Well, if we're right, you've come to the right place. ******************************************************** J U I C Y J O K E ******************************************************** "Alligator In The Bar" A guy walked into a bar with a pet alligator by his side. He put the alligator on the bar and turned to the astonished patrons. "I'll make you a deal," he announced. "I'll open this alligator's mouth and place my genitals inside. Then the gator will close his mouth for one full minute. He'll then open his mouth and I'll remove my unit unscathed. In return for witnessing this spectacle, each of you will buy me a drink." The crowd murmured their approval. The man stood at the bar, dropped his trousers, and placed his privates in the alligator's open mouth. The gator closed his mouth as the crowd gasped. After a minute, the man grabbed a beer bottle and rapped the alligator hard on the top of its head. The gator opened his mouth and the man removed his genitals unscathed as promised. The crowd cheered and he received the first of his free drinks. Then the man stood up again and made another offer. "I'll pay anyone $100 who's willing to give it a try." A hush fell over the crowd. After a while, a hand went up in the back of the bar. A woman timidly spoke up, "I'll try, but you have to promise not to hit me on the head with the beer bottle!" ******************************************************** S P E C I A L R E P O R T ******************************************************** As a newsletter subscriber, you're entitled to a free copy of our groundbreaking 70-page Special Report "The Top Ten Tantric Secrets Of Sex, Love, & Intimacy." ******************************************************** S U M M A R Y S T U F F ******************************************************** CONTACT US... 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