Click HERE to return to newsletter archives Table of Contents

Your Tantra Newsletter: Receive Pleasure From The World Expert: YOU! -- Secrets Of The Supreme Bliss Tantra Self-Pleasuring Ritual

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 9/22/04
Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2004 by Tantra At Tahoe (530) 587-1317
This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
-- Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
If you don't want our newsletter, scroll to the end to stop them.

Dear Tantra Friend:


This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "A Daring Adventure"
* Juicy Joke: "A Break From Non-Stop Sex"
* Friend's Feedback: "Starting Tantra With Multiple Orgasms"
* Featured Product: "$10 On Our G-Spot Orgasm Ebook Package
* Featured Article: "Receive Pleasure From The World's Expert: YOU!"
* Featured Package: "$15 Off Complete G-Spot Self-Pleasuring"
* Interesting Pubic Findings: "The Stronger Safer Sex"
* Juicy Joke: "A Girl's Best Friends"
* Tantric Quote: "Two Paths From The State Of Wonder"
* Friend's Feedback: "A Big Difference In Sensitivity"
* Adult Product Specials: "50% Off Specials"
* FREE Stuff: You Could Be Our Next Winner Like Roy"
* How To Save $20 On Our Ebooks

Love from Tantra At Tahoe who is...
Somraj & Jeffre

Tantric Quote
- A Daring Adventure -

"Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all. Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature." -- Helen Keller

Juicy Joke
- A Break From Non-Stop Sex -

There was an old man crying on park bench when a concerned pedestrian enquired, "Why are you crying?"

Old Man: "I just celebrated my 85th birthday, and I got married yesterday to an 18-year-old nyphomaniac blonde beauty who is all a man could ask for. We'd been having the most amazing non-stop sex until I went out for some air."

Pedestrian: "You lucky guy. But why are you crying?"

Old Man: "I don't remember where I live."

Friend's Feedback re: "Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery"
- Starting Tantra With Multiple Orgasms -

"Last weekend myself and my girlfriend had the most amazing night of our lives. I'm only just starting the Tantra journey and have already had the ecstatic experience of an internal implosive multiple orgasm!! We thank you!

"The multiples were mine. i am certainly more aware of my body since reading U.E.M and I am a lot more relaxed & confident when it comes to love making. Of course you can use my comments if i can help persuade others to embark on this wonderful experience i am only too happy to oblige!" -- John from Dublin, Ireland

(Lots of free premature ejaculation mastery advice here...
<a href="">AOL click here</a>

Featured Product

- Save $10 On Our G-Spot Orgasm Ebook Package -

Save $10 when you buy our Tantric G-Spot Orgasm ebook package for him and her.

"Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation" is the complete guidebook to supercharge your sexual play with Female Ejaculation and Tantric G-Spot Orgasms of incredible power and emotional sweetness. No longer will your or your lover's G-Spot be mysterious and elusive. Read our ebook to know exactly how to awaken it, find it, and touch it for supreme pleasure.

"Tantric Male Multiple G-Spot Orgasm" teaches how to give and receive the ecstatic pleasure of male prostate massage. It's chock full of frank, accurate, detailed, up-to-date information and 49 graphic color photos and charts about male sexual anatomy, plus 47 exciting solo and hands-on partner practices.

Click here for details and super safe and secure online ordering for instant downloading...
<a href="">AOL listing</a>

Featured Article
"Receive Tantric Pleasure From The World's Expert: YOU!
"Secrets Of The Supreme Bliss Tantra Self-Pleasuring Ritual"
Excerpted From Our Coming Ebook

- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
B If For Being In The Body
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
In our rush, rush, rush world of today, we spend a huge amount of time in our heads, thinking, thinking, thinking. We think about who we are. We think about what we want. We think about what we are going to do next, what is expected of us, what our car needs, what our kids need, etc.
By the time we try to relax, our mind is buzzing with thoughts and relaxation comes with difficulty. Maybe that's why TV has become a major sedative for very busy minds. We would like to offer an alternative mode of relaxing and being .
Tantra is about opening your senses and being in your body.
To be in your body, you have to be relaxed and not thinking too much. Opening the senses with a practice like Sensory Delight in the previous section is a powerful way to be in the body. Believe us, watching TV won't get you there.

Why Be In Your Body
- - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Being in the body means feeling everything that is going on in the body. For example, when you orgasm you are totally in the body and feeling intense sensations. Being in your body means sensing the subtle energy flow and allowing it to take you to the heights or orgasm. Tantra can and does teach you to focus on your sensations as a meditation, It's a way of further finding out who you really are, a way of expanding your awareness and your pleasure.
By focusing on your sensations without thought or judgment, your senses open even wider and your attention leaves the chatter of the monkey mind far behind. Your mind can actually keep you from feeling pleasure, which you can probably identify with. As you sink deeper and deeper into the sensations of the body, you can begin to taste the real freedom. This is the freedom to drop the continuous churning and control by the mind and be your ecstatic self. The mind can't get you to ecstasy.

PRACTICE: Being In The Body
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Purpose: Get in your body to become present to the now out of the mind in order to drop the incessant thinking and mind chatter

1. FLOOD: Put your full attention on your body. Flood it with consciousness.

2. FEET: Focus on what your feet are feeling for 15 seconds.

3. OTHER PARTS: Then ankles, calves, knees, thighs, pelvis, stomach, lower back, upper back, chest, shoulders, arms, hands, neck, face, head.

4. WAVES: Then imagine waves of sensation slowly washing up and down your whole body.

5. RELAX: Just relax, feel your body, and watch what happens.

You probably noticed while doing this practice that you weren't worrying, obsessing, or really thinking about anything. You probably also found that your mood shifted in the process of the practice.

Losing Your Mind Is Good
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
What you can achieve by spending more time in your body can truly be amazing. A couple of our favorite sayings are...
"Open your senses and lose your mind" and
"The mind is a wonderful thing to waste."
Don't get us wrong, a mind is a powerful and sometimes magical tool when used effectively. But when it's running the show 24/7, gobbling up your bandwith, and chattering away non-stop then it saps your limited energies. Our minds too often rule our lives in counterproductive and even painful ways.
Take charge, dear friend. Use your mind to find your path to ecstasy. Then let your mind go. Your ecstasy is in your body.
The myriad of practices that we teach in our Private Tantric Workshops and year-long Advanced Tantric Initiations are designed to get you feeling and sensing, not thinking. Frankly, too much thinking is the biggest deterrent from ecstatic pleasure that we encounter with our clients.
The meditations we offer in the Meditation Chapter actually can assist you dramatically in getting in your body and staying there.

E Is Enjoy The Pleasure
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
We want you to enjoy the pleasure that's available to you from your body. Our society has so easily accepted and teaches that sexuality is dirty and undesirable. As a result, many of us continue to be conflicted and repressed sexually. We all have confusions and doubts about the true nature of sexual pleasure...
- Are we supposed to indulge?
- Do we restrict ourselves in some way?
- Is sex really okay?
- Should I control my appetite so I don't get addicted?
We have been given, through divine design, the ability to feel ecstatic pleasure. Your body can offer you these divine gifts. Since we are each divine beings, a spark of the cosmic whole, how can sex be less holy or less sacred than anything else one feels and does?
Tantra believes that sexual or bodily pleasure is a divine blessing, however you receive it: from your beloved, from the fantasies in your mind, from your connection to the Divine Presence, or from yourself.
Yes, that includes from yourself. If you accept the basic precept of the Tantric Attitude that nothing is more important than that you feel good, then you'll find yourself relishing solo sex, making love with yourself. Of course, we're talking about Self-Pleasuring with a Tantric Attitude.

Everybody's Doing It
- - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Let's face it, most everybody does it. In a recent poll done by which asked "How often do you masturbate?", the tabulated results were...
38% tell us they masturbate at least once a day.
48% say that they pleasure themselves a few times a week.
11% admit that masturbation is rare for them: monthly, or less.
3% report that they don't masturbate at all.
In other words, 86% of us indulge in masturbation but few talk about it.
Because our hormones and our minds continuously generate sexual desire, it's natural that the pressure builds up. Younger folks have more of the biological tension, mature folks who know they like sex find their minds dwelling on it and their bodies respond. So we have an ever-present reminder that encourages many of us to play with ourselves for release.
Very sadly, many of us had childhoods which gave us the message that it's bad to touch yourself "down there." Jeffre has seen hundreds of men and women in her sex therapy practice who aren't yet fully recovered from the verbal and physical punishments when they were "discovered" masturbating. If this is your background, let Tantra heal your shame and guilt as you learn to take great pride in your pleasure, self and otherwise.

We're Not Really Talking About Masturbation
- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
So in Tantra we're not really talking about masturbation, that is, secretly trying to get yourself off as quickly as possible. That's sometimes desirable, we admit. Although there's really nothing wrong with making yourself come, we're just trying to get you to add joyful Tantric Self-Pleasuring to your list of spiritual practices. We don't want you to stay in the shame-ridden closet of secret masturbation so you can have more satisfaction, more enjoyment, and more fulfillment from what you're probably doing already.
Because the word masturbation has so many negative connotations, we urge you to adopt our Tantric term, Self-Pleasuring. If you accept the Tantric premises that...
- you are a child of the Universe
- all of your body is a divine gift,
- pleasure is your natural state, and
- nothing is more important than that you feel good,
then divine Self-Pleasuring is a completely natural next step.

We hope we've convinced you to pleasure yourself with a Tantric Attitude. Enjoy.

In our next full issue, we'll continue explaining the spiritual benefits of Self-Pleasuring. Plus we'll give you directions about how to make it a truly memorable experience.

Love, Somraj & Jeffre

Featured Discount Package

- Save $15 On Our Complete G-Spot Self-Pleasuring Package -

A great way to enjoy Tantric Self-Pleasuring is with the best tools. You've already got the two most important ones: one between your ears and the other between your legs.

Two other fantastic Self-Pleasuring tools are designed specifically for your G-Spots: the Crystal Wand for men and women and the Aneros just for men. If you're one of those folks who want it all, get our COMPLETE G-Spot Package. This includes both the men's and women's G-Spot ebooks and Stimulators. Great for solo and partner use with both men and women.

Our favorite all-purpose G-Spot stimulator is the Crystal Wand, a sensuously curved "S" shaped bar of clear Lucite plastic that's easy to hold and manipulate when one end is inserted inside a man or woman. The wand allows deeper reach, stronger pressure, and perfect vibration when and where it counts.

The Aneros Male G-Spot Stimulator is one of a kind. It's a medically researched, designed, and patented sex toy for simultaneous male prostate and perineum self-pleasuring. It's made of non-porous medically-approved material and can easily be cleaned with hot, soapy water. The Aneros is much easier and cleaner to use than a finger, and applies much more focused pressure than a dildo or vibrator.$15
<a href="$15">AOL click here</a>

Interesting Pubic Findings

- The Stronger Safer Sex -

Who says females are the weaker sex? A new survey shows ladies are pretty powerful in the bedroom. The poll by Trojan condoms shows 65 percent of gals make the first move when they crave sex. And 88 percent say they like to suggest new, kinky positions or exotic lovemaking locations for sex.

Ladies are equally forceful when it comes to safe sex, with 52 percent of women saying they'd refuse to sleep with a guy if he didn't wear a condom. What's more, 31 percent would pull out their own stash of condoms and force the guy to wear one if he initially balked at using one.

Win By Taking Our Poll
- You Could Be Our Next Winner Like Roy -

Congratulations to Roy who won our August CONTEST by entering our on-line poll. Roy will receive his free copy of our upcoming ebook, "Supreme Bliss Tantra Guide To The Ecstasy Of Spiritual Sex," when it's available soon. May your sex life be as awesome as his will be shortly.

You could be the next winner of a FREE Tantra ebook. For your
monthly chance to win a free Tantric , be sure to enter our
monthly contest by taking our 1 minute Tantric Sex Poll by
clicking here...
<a href="">AOL click

Juicy Joke
- A Girl's Best Friends -

After dinner and a movie, Carl drove his date to a quiet
country road and made his move. When Mary responded
enthusiastically to his kissing, he tried sliding his hand up
her blouse. Suddenly, she jerked away, got out of the car in
a hurry, and ran home. Later that night, she wrote in her
diary, "A girl's best friends are her own two legs."

On their next date, Carl returned to the country road. As they
were kissing passionately, Carl slid his hand up Mary's skirt.
Once again, she pulled away, got out of the car, and hurried
home. Later that night, she wrote in her diary, "I repeat,
a girl's best friends are her own two legs."

On the third date, the pair returned to the country road. This
time, Mary didn't get home until very late. That night, she
wrote in her diary, "There comes a time when even the best
of friends must part."

Tantric Quote
- Two Paths From The State Of Wonder -

"From the state of wonder, there are two paths. One is of questioning -- the wrong path -- it leads you into more and more knowledge. The other is not of questioning but enjoying. Enjoy the wonder, the wonder that life is, the wonder that existence is, the wonder of the sun and the sunlight and the trees bathed in its golden rays. Experience it. Don't put in a question mark, let it be as it is." --OSHO

Friend's Feedback re: Tantra
- A Big Difference In Sensitivity -

"Since getting back, I have noticed a BIG difference in having sensual/sexual sensitivity again. I had pretty much noooo feeling in the genital area (unless playing with myself) before. My lover is still around, he's someone to talk to and to experiment using the techniques with. The sex at least is more interesting.

"I got from your program: A) more of my physical sensation back B) an interest in sensuality and sex again C) better sensual massage for guys while giving some guidance on how they can enjoy the feeling more. D) a feeling like it was breaking down of the protective ego a bit to do some of the stuff -- but that's good! It was needed.

"I know that I'm in 'Tantra kindergarten' basically, from where I started. I want to experience and learn more of it because sexual energy is so misunderstood, powerful, life giving, and feared.

"You guys rock!" -- Robyn from Vancouver

Adult Products Store
- 40% Off On A Love Swing & More -

Check out our September SPECIALS on swings, paddles, cuffs, collars, and more at great low prices.

We paid over $250 dollars for our love swing. With one hook in the ceiling, we enjoy floating lovemaking. We've never seen a love swing at such a low price before. Read the amazing testimonials.

Click here for these specials...
<a href="">AOL click here</a>

Adult DVD/Video Store
- 50% Off Specials -

Get 100 Hours Of Hot DVDs for less than $100!

50% off specials on Adult Video On Demand --- 1000s of titles. Choose & view right now, this minute, with just a few clicks!

50 to 60% Off DVD Sale for a limited time!

Unlimited Erotic DVD Rentals --- You pay NO shipping!

Click here for these specials...
href="">AOL click here</a>

Save $20 On Our Tantric Sex Ebooks
It's amazing how much we've all learned in past 10 years about
the body, sex, lovemaking. Yes, the answers are out there. Unfortunately, in our repressed society information about sexual
education, communication, and pleasure is suppressed and
repressed. That's part of our Supreme Bliss Tantra mission, to
help you learn all you can about your orgasmic triggers, releasing
blockages, extending lovemaking, using all parts of your body,
enjoying fantasies, and getting all you've ever dreamed of out of
sex. Save $20 when you buy all five of our Tantric ebooks...
* Tantric Sex Life: How To Use Sacred Sexuality For Ecstatic
Pleasure, Tantric Orgasm, & Personal Transformation
* Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation: Awakening Her
Sacred Gate to Supreme Bliss
* Tantric Male Multiple G-Spot Orgasm: Awakening His Sacred
Gate To Supreme Bliss
* Hotter Sex, Deeper Love
* Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery: The Ecstatic Tantric Solution
To Premature Ejaculation
Click here for complete details...
click here</a>

Summary Stuff
Contact Us...

Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
(Dhyan is a prefix meaning "meditation.")
11200 Donner Pass Road #146, Truckee, CA 96161
Office (530) 587-1317 Fax (530) 550-0946
<a href="">AOL
email here</a>
Our motto: "Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex"
Best Sex Toys & Adult Products...

We're always getting samples of "marital aids" that are designed
to enhance sex. That's industry talk for sex toys, lubricants,
exercisers, and the like. It's our sworn duty as your Tantric Sex
experts to surrender ourselves as laboratory guinea pigs. OK, we
admit it, we've got a touch of the kinky attitude that inspires us
to test them all out. The ones we keep and use we feature on our
site at...
<a href="">AOL click here</a>
Thanks For Passing It On...

Please, forward this newsletter to all your friends, family, and
lovers who might be interested! You may quote anything
included with the following attribution: "Reprinted from Sacred
Sexual Secrets Newsletter ©2004"
Make Money...

Tell your contacts and customers about Tantra At Tahoe and
make lots of money. If you register for our free and easy affiliate
program, we'll supply you with listings and descriptions so you
can earn commissions. Click here for details...
<a href="">AOL click
Past Articles...

To help you revolutionize your sex, love, and intimacy, check out
previous articles in our newsletter archives at...
href="">AOL click here</a>

For a complete description of our services, click on...
<a href="">AOL click
Privacy Statement...

We respect the privacy of our readers. We NEVER provide our
subscriber list to ANYONE.
This Document Is For Informational Purposes Only...

The information contained in this document represents the
current view of Tantra At Tahoe on the issues discussed as of the
date of publication. We provide this free advice in the hopes that
your conscious use will improve your sexual life. If you have a
medical or psychological condition, please contact your health
professional before acting on this advice. Our guidance is not
intended as medical or psychological treatment, psychotherapy,
or services best performed by a health professional. Information
provided in this document is provided "AS IS" without warranty
of any kind, either expressed or implied. You assume the entire
risk as to the accuracy and the use of suggestions in this
document. Without our personal services, your results may vary.

To subscribe to the "Sacred Sexual Secrets" newsletter, click
<a href="">AOL
click here</a>

Tantric Sex HOME | Affiliates | Adult Store | Articles | Contact | DVD/Video | Ebooks | FAQs | Newsletter | FREE Tours | Resources | SEARCH | Services | Site Map | Specials | Tell Friends | Sex Toys | WebMaster