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Your Tantra Newsletter: Getting It ON or Just Getting OFF
How To Change Your Life By Making Sex Last And Last And Last

(Intro Note: How wonderful to just receive an email from Joel in De Moines raving about my “Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery” ebook: “I have to tell you that your ebook has changed my life. Now, I don't just mean my sex life, or my social life, or my self-confidence, but my whole entire fucking life has in some way or another been affected. So ...thanks :).” So I thought I'd tell you my similar story so you can enjoy some powerful life change if you're interested. Plus you can save 20% for a short time in honor of Joel's sharing.)

Who was it who first said that orgasming is next to godliness? Oh yeah, that was my first lover who screamed “Oh God” as she was coming. To be honest, that was way, way, way past my first lover, just the first one who I lasted long enough with for her to cum. I remember it so well since we were outside by a lake and my sun burnt butt happily reminded me for the following week. Though sitting was a challenge for a while, making her cum was way more important for my fragile twenty-something ego.

What's more important to you: getting it ON for as long as you want or just getting OFF?

In Supreme Bliss Tantra we really love getting off. When we're ready.


"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 9/16/11
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2011 by
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This free ezine (scroll to the end if you want to stop them) offers practical sex tips derived from modern sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training. Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex

If you know anything about the Tantric approach to love, sex, and all of life, then you already know that we like to make lovemaking last and last and last. Which requires that the guy knows how to spread sexual energy throughout his whole body so it doesn't force it's way out the tip of his vajra (Tantric for penis) along with a big wet squirt. And it requires that his lover can sense his sexual energy. If she knows how close he is to cuming and ending the fun at least for the moment, then she can slow down or change position so she doesn't push him over the edge in her own rush to cum. We sex teachers might call that Pacing.

For me, getting off when I'm ready usually means after my lover has had all the orgasms she wants to. But it wasn't always that way for me. I spent decades losing it, creating a big wet spot, and leaving my partner unsatisfied. So when my wife Jeffre introduced me to Tantra 15 years ago, it totally changed my love life.

Back then, I didn't have any plans to write a book and train men and women to relish hours of sacred sexual union (or intercourse if you prefer). I did want to write down how I changed my sex life and that turned into my Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery Ebook. After a couple thousand men downloaded it, I figured it was important enough to turn into a print book.

You can get a copy through Amazon (or any leading bookstore chain that hasn't gone out of business yet) under the title Male Multiple Orgasm: Techniques That Guarantee You and Your Lover Intense Sexual Pleasure Again and Again and Again. The paperback costs less than the ebook because it's slimmed down for public consumption (and doesn't come with a money-back guarantee like my ebook). My publisher thought it would sell better without all the Tantric details about shifting and spreading sexual energy. And it's a way good start if you want to make sex go on and on with more and more pleasure.

In honor of Joel's glowing testimonial, I'm offering you a time-limited discount

But us Tantrikas care less about how many orgasms we have or how many hours it lasts and more about how high we send each other from the intense energy connection that we create together. It's like a dance, albeit a horizontal one most of the time, where who leads and who follows changes.


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So how did I learn to time my ejaculation only when I wanted to so I could make love for hours? I'm going to give you the first and most important technique of my six-step RAMPER formula that my books and ebooks are based on: Relax!

Yeah, I know, easier said than done. If you've studied the male sex organs in depth like I have, then you know that there are two steps to the wet male orgasm: Emission and Expulsion. Did you know that it all starts around the prostate gland? This walnut-sized organ inside your crotch is made up of 40 little glands and ducts surrounded by a muscle sheath. When the energy gets too intense, the prostate contracts and squeezes out a critical part of semen into the urinary canal. That's Emission.

Expulsion comes (hah, hah) when the muscles in your crotch (PC for pubococcygeal) spasm about 10 times shooting out the mixture of fluids through the end of your vajra.

So if you could simply instruct the glands and muscles in your pelvis to relax, voila, no wet spot here. This is where the phrase “easier said than done” comes into play. We've all heard unbelievable stories about ancient yogis slowing their breathing and heart rate to imperceptible levels (and levitating too). Whether or not those are fact or myth doesn't matter because it's way easier to learn to relax your sex organs. It just takes practice.

First, with your hand. Sorry, the doctor is giving you permission to masturbate. Purely as homework, of course. (Well, OK, anytime else you want to for practice.) And after you master several of the other steps of the RAMPER formula, then you and your honey do the same exercises in my books gradually building your ability to relax.

The other steps of RAMPER deal with that hidden secret above: “when the energy gets too intense.” Relaxing is vital, yes, but spreading the energy throughout your body is even better. Because then it feels like you're feel having a whole-body orgasm without ejaculating. Wait, it feels like that because you ARE having a whole-body orgasm without squirting. That's the more important part of the whole system, learn to master your sexual energy.

In fact, that was the major accomplishment from the yearlong Tantra training that I completed with my beloved 14 years ago: how to relax in a state of intense excitation. It doesn't happen overnight, but I'm sure you can do it in a few weeks if you don't mind practicing with sex. That's why my more-complete ebook comes with a money-back guarantee.

Heck, the worst thing that can happen while you're practicing solo or together is that you get off! At first it might still be before you want to, but it's still a reward built into the Divine's sexual system. You might call it a win win proposition.

Love, Somraj and Jeffre

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