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How To Help Your Honey When He/She Needs It Most

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 8/25/04
Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2004 by Tantra At Tahoe (530) 587-1317
This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
-- Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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Dear Tantra Friend:

Next week we're off to BurningMan, one of the biggest new-age parties and community experiments ever. It's completely non-commercial and dedicated to art, love, and giving. As many as 30,000 people descend on the Black Rock Desert in Northern Nevada. It's a harsh place for dry camping that leaves no trace on the environment. But the freedom and excitement of joining such a womb of love and acceptance makes it well worthwhile. We attend because it's one of the few places we're celebrated for being our free Tantric selves.

Living a liberated life in the modern world doesn't come easily. We've worked, struggled, and studied for years to be more of who we really are. Which is why we write, teach, and show courageous people like you that there is another way. Hopefully, Tantra can show you a better way to live.

In this spirit, we finish up our article about how Tantric Sex makes you healthier. The product specials and client testimonials offer you a great opportunity to look into our Private Tantra Workshops. With this issue, we're officially introducing our yearlong Advanced Tantric Initiation. This isn't for the faint-of-heart. But when you decide your want to transform yourself, your love, and your sex life, our seven-stage no-holds-barred program can change your life forever. See the links in our Featured Service.

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This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "Passion Does Not Look Before It Leaps"
* Juicy Joke: "How Does Your Garden Grow?"
* Friend's Feedback: "Improved Confidence With Others"
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* Featured Article: "Have A Healthier, Less Stressful Life With Tantra"
* Featured Service: "How To Totally Go For It, Tantric Style"
* Interesting Pubic Findings: "Frequent Sex Helps You Look Younger"
* Juicy Joke: "Kate and Edith"
* Tantric Quote: "Only With The Heart"
* Friend's Feedback: "Wonderful Weekend"
* Adult Product Specials: "60% Off DVDs, 25% Off Sex Toys"
* FREE Stuff: You Could Be Our Next Winner Like Harry"
* How To Save $20 On Our Ebooks

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Tantric Quote
- Passion Does Not Look Before It Leaps -

"There is no order of precedence for kissing, scratching, or biting, because they involve passion. They are generally used before sex, and slapping and moaning during sex. Vatsyayana says: Everything at any time, because passion does not look before it leaps." -- KAMASUTRA translated by Wendy Doniger & Sudhir Kakar

Juicy Joke
- How Does Your Garden Grow? -

A beautiful blonde woman loved growing tomatoes, but couldn't seem to get her tomatoes to turn red. One day while taking a stroll she came upon a gentlemen neighbor who had the most beautiful garden full of huge red tomatoes. The woman asked the gentlemen, "What do you do to get your tomatoes so red?"

The gentlemen responded, "Well, twice a day I stand in front of my tomato garden and expose myself, and my tomatoes turn red from blushing so much."

Well, the woman was so impressed, she decided to try doing the same thing to her tomato garden to see if it would work. So twice a day for two weeks she exposed herself to her garden hoping for the best.

One day the gentlemen was passing by and asked the woman, "By the way, How did you make out? Did your tomatoes turn red?"

"No" she replied, "but my cucumbers are enormous."

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"Have A Healthier, Less Stressful Life With Tantric Sex"
"How To Help Your Honey When He/She Needs It Most"
Part 2

In our last major newsletter...

we introduced you to the simple truth that sex is healthy. Here, we need to finish the story about what doctors once did to get their patients off. More importantly, we'll share much much better ways to use sex to stay healthy.

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Medical Doctors Did WHAT To Their Female Patients?
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Really, seriously. The practice of using female orgasm to cure overly sensitive emotionality spawned a new industry, the development of mechanical vibrators. Though they were crude at first, these appliances did help speed up the doc's treatment. In fact, a friend of ours has a private collection of hundred-year-old sex toys. As you might expect from the Victorian age, the literature that accompanied them was really fascinating.

Today, ethical physicians wouldn't dream of touching their patients inappropriately. But medical doctors do advocate healthy sex and advocating frequent male ejaculation as a healthy way for men to keep their prostates cleansed of built-up toxins. Just some other facts to back up our proposition that sex is healthy for you.

Then as now. getting the patient off is only a temporary cure, of course. In Tantra, we don't seek orgasmic release as the primary path to address tumescence. We hold no religious injunction against spilling your seed, we just don't want to waste all that life-giving energy until we've made the most of it.

Tantric LovePlay is holistic, dealing with all the senses of the body, mind, heart, and spirit. They all need cleansing, healing, and exercise to stay healthy. Take the time to sink fully into your body, open to your sensations, revel in the pleasure. Get as high as you can with as much stimulation as you can absorb for as long as you can take.

If you don't practice Tantric Sex with yourself or your partner reverently as we teach in Tantra, you may accept nagging physical discomforts and emotional stress as a way of life. You might be drawn to using medication to counteract the symptoms of tumescence. Guys may find themselves suffering from premature ejaculation. Both sexes, especially women, may turn off to sex entirely to combat the warring forces inside.

Please don't give up! Do yourself a big big favor: get more sex.

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How To Help Your Tumesced Honey
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We know, it's easy for us to say "get more" when your life may not automatically cooperate. There's always your hand or handy sex toy, of course. But even though frequent masturbation is more commonplace than anyone likes to admit, that does fly in the face of strong negative programming.

In a coming article, we hope to address the reverent self-loving Tantric practice of self-pleasuring. Maybe that will help you enjoy yourself more.

In the meantime, we offer a suggestion of what those in relationship you can do when you notice your honey is tumesced. You'll know they haven't had enough lately because they'll be showing some of the symptoms of sexual congestion.

Here's our advice: seduce your significant other.

Of course, that requires not taking their situation personal. If it helps, just consider it a medical condition. Instead, put aside your reaction to his or her grouchiness. No matter how remote they might seem, flirt shamelessly. Set up a date. Sensuously undress them in the kitchen. Urge them into bed.

Make time in your busy life to give your sweetie what's most needed: sexual pleasure and gratification. We're not talking about forcing sex, we're talking about being sweet and loving yet insistent about how much you'd like to pleasure them.

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What To Do Once You've Got A Green Light
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When you've got the go-ahead, we suggest you focus entirely on your beloved. Again, put aside your own needs for the time being.

Start with slow, gentle, sensual massage. A foot rub is a great relaxer. Scratch those places that soak it up the most, like the back or head. Use long slow strokes and unexpected flutters to titillate.

As you begin, don't entirely avoid your beloved's jewels (Tantric for genitals). But when things heat up, gradually focus your massage more and more on those places that are getting wet or hard. Take a lesson from the Kama Sutra and add in a little playful biting or love taps. From there it's not far to kissing, licking, and sucking everywhere it's appreciated.

Notice we haven't mentioned sexual union (Tantric for intercourse) yet. Helping your tumesced honey means making THEIR pleasure your entire agenda. If you use your hands and mouth exclusively, it will keep the game plan entirely in their court.

But, of course, what's a willing servant to do but comply if penetration is demanded? With two Tantrikas (adepts at Tantric Sex), full sexual union might be the most healing practice of all. Tantrikas, who know how to channel and circulate vast amounts of sexual energy, find that exchanging this life-giving force is the most freeing and energizing thing they can do for each other.

Remember, your partner's pleasure is your program. Orgasm isn't the goal. But if you find, after extensive sexual exercise, that a delightful explosion is warranted or desired, go for it and enjoy it.

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Wouldn't It Be Wonderful If...
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Wouldn't it be wonderful to live in a free and mature society where we so many of us didn't put sex last on our list of priorities?

Wouldn't it be great to live without sex being constantly put-down and denounced as sinful and unhealthy?

Wouldn't it be more healthy to live in a place where you could relieve your tumescence as often as needed with or without assistance?

Wouldn't it be truly liberating to live like a "Stranger In A Strange Land" where exchanging love and sensual pleasure was something friends shared openly without sneaking around behind their partner's/family's/boss's backs?

Well, no matter how far from this reality is today, we can all dream. It's healthy, right? Do what you can to make sex a health-giving, life-affirming, energy-producing spiritual practice.

Feeling good is your natural state. Feed your body, mind, and spirit what you need and you can feel great all the time. Tantric Sex is a wonderful way to regain your balance and flow pure positive energy so you can feel good.

It's your job to look after yourself, all parts. It's our job to help you any way we can. Let us know what we can to make your life healthier. Click here to let us know what you need or how this article has helped you...
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Ecstatically yours, Somraj & Jeffre

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Interesting Pubic Findings

- Frequent Sex May Help You Look Younger -

Lovemaking can take 10 years off your looks, study claims. Making love three times a week can make you look 10 years younger, claims a Scottish researcher.

Over the last 10 years, Weeks and his colleagues interviewed 3,500 European and American men and women on a variety of lifestyle topics ranged in age from 20 to 104, but most were 45 to 55 years old.

The thing they had in common: They looked young for their age.

A vigorous sex life, Weeks says, was the second-most important determinant of how young a person looked. Only physical activity proved more important than sex in keeping aging at bay, he says. The young-looking participants had sex an average of three times a week, Weeks says

Others agree that sex can be good for your health. "It's extremely important to your health," says Dr. Barbara Bartlik, a clinical professor of psychiatry at Weill Medical College of Cornell University in New York City. "It promotes marital harmony. The stresses and strains become more manageable when a couple is having sex regularly."

Sex can burn fat and cause the brain to release endorphins, naturally occurring chemicals that act as painkillers and reduce anxiety. In men, sex seems to stimulate the release of growth hormones and testosterone, which strengthens bones and muscles. In both men and women, research has shown, sex also seems to prompt the release of substances that bolster the immune system.

Another study on sex after 50 confirmed the data in this article. Over 1,000 middle aged men and women (50-55) were followed for ten years. They were divided into two groups. Group #1 seldom, or never, had sex. Group #2 averaged twice per week. Ten years later, the overall health of Group #2 was dramatically better than the mostly celibates in Group #1. Further, the mortality was 70% less in Group 2.

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Juicy Joke
- Kate and Edith -

An airplane pilot got engaged to two very pretty women at the same time. One was named Edith; the other named Kate. They met, discovered they had the same fiancée, and told him: "Get out of our lives you rascal. We'll teach you that you can't have your Kate and Edith, too.".

Tantric Quote
- Only With The Heart -

"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye." -- Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

Friend's Feedback re: Tantra
- Wonderful Weekend -

"Thank you for a wonderful weekend and for helping us realize what a special relationship we have together. We have had some really great sessions and always look forward to the next one! We are setting up our sacred space and having fun doing it! Hope all is well with you guys and thanks for your support. We will keep in touch." -- Love, Kathy & C.P.

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