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How Tantra Makes Your Life Better Part 3

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 8/10/03
Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2003 by Tantra At Tahoe
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This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
--- Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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Dear Reader

We're off to present Tantra at an international sex conference in
Las Vegas. Undoubtedly, the "experts" will do more than talking
about it. We sure plan to enjoy the totally sex positive
atmosphere. It's a wonderful change from the modern world.

We wanted to make the subject line of this issue "How Tantra
Makes Your Sex Life Better." We didn't on purpose because
readers tell us their internet services screen out anything with
the word sex in it. Another example of how unbalanced and over
reactionary our society is about sex. Which the featured article of
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* Interesting Findings: "Self-Pleasuring Is Good For Men"
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Tantric Quote

-- Dancing With Life --

"Lovemaking doesn't just happen sexually. It is a great dance
with life, a way of falling in love with yourself, and feeling
connected to all that is." - Margot Anand

Juicy Joke

-- Elderly Confession --

An elderly man walks into a confessional and says...

"I am 92 years old, have a wonderful wife of 70 years, many
children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. Yesterday, I
picked up two college girls, hitchhiking. We went to a motel,
where I had sex with each of them three times."

The priest responds... "Are you sorry for your sins?"

"What sins?" says the man.

Priest: "What kind of a Catholic are you?"

Man: "I'm Jewish."

Priest: "Then, why are you telling me all this?"

Man: "I'm telling everybody."

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Featured Article

"Sex & Spirit, Spirit & Sex - Part 3"
"How Does Tantra Make Your Sex Life Better?"

In the last couple editions of this ezine, we explored the five
ways that learning Tantra can transform your life...
* Seek Pleasure
* Self-Acceptance
* Know Who You Are
* Say Yes, Not No
* Better Relationship.
As a spiritual practice, these five are probably closer to the
aim and intent of the original Tantric sages thousands of years

But this article is about making your sex life better. And that's
highly Tantric because sexual energy is what fuels the changes
that go on inside as you seek to grow. As we've explained, you
have to excel at the above five qualities to make your Tantric
Sex life increasingly ecstatic.

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When you seek pleasure, accept yourself, say yes, and discover
who you are, you'll undoubtedly find and celebrate your
sexual self. You are a sexual being who came from the sexual
act and is drawn towards it naturally. It's intrinsic, healthy,
and damn good fun.

We call this a sex positive attitude. You'll find more about this
in our new Tantra and Kama Sutra guided tours you can access
from our home page.

Too many people have lived too long suppressing their natural
instinct for physical pleasure. Sex positive people drop most of
the limiting beliefs and taboos they carry around for too long.
When you choose sex as a path for expansion of your life
energy, you'll suddenly or gradually discover your true sexual
identity. As a Tantrika (those who practice Tantra), you find a
closer connection to the whole of life spirit.

We don't mean that you'll find out that you're promiscuous,
kinky, gay, bisexual, or polyamorous (multiple lovers) sexual
preference. Although changes do occur when people begin
expanding the edges of their comfort zone, finding your true
sexual identity means to define what position sex plays in your
life. You'll answer questions like...
- How much time you want to make for Tantric loveplay?
- What do you want more of and less of?
- How will you use this vital bonding force to strengthen
your relationship?
- What will you have to give up to make room?

Overall, that's the primary way that Tantrikas enjoy better sex
lives. They become highly sex positive and define who they are
and want to evolve into sexually.

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So how do you go about making every sexual thought, action,
and interaction downright mind-boggling?

The average lover's pleasure is constrained by a certain
amount of embarrassment about their body. They're often
overly shy about asserting themselves and going after what
they want, based on a limited understanding of the arousal
pathways and orgasmic triggers of their own and their lovers'
bodies. We're not trying to invalidate what you've learned to
do that works so well and feels so good. We're just saying that
there's so much more than the average person has ever

By sexual techniques we're talking about how to touch, kiss,
and lick all parts of your partner's body. We mean how to give
your beloved's jewels (Tantric for genitals) more excitement
than ever before each time you make love. We're referring to
guiding the ebb and flow of who does what to whom and for
how long to reach higher and higher states of ecstasy. You
know, what Somraj's Swedish ex-wife called "fiddling and
diddling." And of course sexual techniques includes
intercourse positions, strokes, and rhythms.

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Tantrikas totally immerse themselves in all aspects of life
they're attracted to. Consequently, they study and learn
techniques to make their sex lives more than it's ever been.

This is how you can use Tantra to create more spiritual fuel.
Sexual play is where the power comes from to energize the
personal changes you're seeking. Things like how to be
happier, more loving, more productive, more creative, more

Through Tantra, our sex becomes...
- Closer
- Wider
- Deeper
- Higher
- Longer
or just simply, More!

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Tantric Sex is more intimate, with more communication, and
more cooperative. It's not a performance, it's a partnership.
Both lovers are creating mutual pleasure together, like kids
playing doctor for the first time. The whole experience
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Tantra is first and foremost about consciousness, which
widens the sexual playing field. When you study your sexual
preferences, you find more erogenous zones. When you
convert to a sex positive mindset, you can absorb more and
more pleasure. When you accept your body more, you become
more responsible for your own pleasure. Maybe you'll find
yourself enjoying things you wouldn't even try before like
finger sex, slower sex, oral sex, or anal sex just to mention a

When you approach sex consciously, you discover more of
what you like, when, and how. Did you know both men and
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Tantrikas learn to get out of their heads and into their bodies.
So they feel more. This makes their sexual experiences deeper.
They become more aware of sexual energy, more able to
summon passion at will, more likely to connect at more levels.
When they tune into the subtler, higher, finer frequencies of
sacred sex, they unleash powerful spiritual forces. That's why
we call S.E.X., Subtle Energy eXchange.

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Closer, wide, and deeper sex yields more ecstasy with more
intensity. When you open your senses to full enjoyment of
pleasure and drop your expectations, agendas, and goals about
sex, you naturally soar higher and higher. Instead of focusing
on getting or giving that Big O, you let better orgasms come to
you. Both men and women discover new peaks, climaxes, and
ecstatic experiences, expanding their orgasmic range.
Ultimately, Tantric Sex becomes meditation when you both
float together lost in the O-Zone.

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We ran into a swinger at a sex conference last year who said,
though she'd never tried it, she knew what Tantric Sex was.
Slow sex, she said. Well, sometimes that's true. And sometimes
not. What we can vouch for is that Tantric Sex takes more time
and lasts longer. Which is wonderful, spending more hours
absorbing more and more life-giving energy.

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With all this going for you, you'll definitely beat the national
average for committed couples having sex just once or twice a
week. You'll get more sex because you'll want more sex more
often. It will make you feel more alive, more vibrant, more
healthy, more peaceful. When your sexual encounters leave
you feeling excited, energized, and empowered, you'll make
more time for it. When your sexual play becomes closer,
wider, deeper, higher, and longer, you'll find your whole
outlook on life becoming more positive, upbeat, balanced,
evolved. Then you'll know the true outcome of Tantric

Yes, that's what sex is about in Tantra.

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Being a better lover with better sexual technique is simply a
step, not the end result of learning Tantra. If you only take the
position of a technician...

"Just move the finger a millimeter to the right...good!
Now a little more pressure...oh, yes, faster, faster!"

you can get better and better at it and have great fun. But we
still believe you'll fall far short of the possibilities of ecstatic
Tantric sex.

This is what we mean when we say it's designed to help you
create more energy to fuel spiritual centers to ignite more

We may use techniques every step of the way but now you
understand that it's for the greater purpose of enjoying life,
loving yourself, and becoming more of who you really are.

Wishing you love and lots of long ecstatic lovemaking,

Dhyan Jeffre & Somraj

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Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D., cofounder of Supreme Bliss
Tantra, is an author, speaker, workshop leader, and licensed
SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical
experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-
author of "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love."

Dhyan Somraj Pokras, cofounder of Supreme Bliss Tantra, is the
author of countless articles about Tantra, over 50 workshops,
and 4 books including "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery." During his
30 year career as a masseur, speaker, counselor, personal coach,
group facilitator, and workshop trainer, Somraj has guided more
that 20,000 people to lead more ecstatic and effective lives.

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Interesting Pubic Findings

-- Self-Pleasuring Is Good For Men --

First of all, we don't use that dirtyish word "masturbation." In
Tantra where we revere feeling good in all its forms, we call
loving yourself "Self-Pleasure."

For decades some sexologists have been preaching that regular
sexual release was an important way to guard against future
prostate problems. This makes complete sense based on what
we know about the negative effects of chronic pelvic muscle
tension. But until recently there was no proof.

Now researchers in Australia have documented the connection.
Several key news references are pasted below. A colleague, Dr.
John Perry, found these and 2,100 more on Google news.

Masturbation Can Prevent Prostate Cancer, Study Claims - Jul 18, 2003
The more often young and middle-age men ejaculate, the less
likely they are to develop prostate cancer, Australian researchers

Masturbating may protect against prostate cancer
New Scientist, UK - Jul 16, 2003
A team in Australia led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council
Victoria in Melbourne asked 1079 men with prostate cancer to
fill in a questionnaire...

Masturbation could protect against prostate cancer
Independent, UK - Jul 16, 2003
Masturbating more than five times a week between the ages of
20 and 50 could protect men against prostate cancer, Australian
researchers claim today.

Masturbation may protect against prostate cancer says Aussie ...
Ananova, UK - Jul 16, 2003
The Australian study questioned more than 2000 men about
their past
sexual habits as part of a prostate cancer study.

Masturbating Lowers Prostate Cancer Risk - Study
Yahoo News - Jul 16, 2003
LONDON (Reuters) - Frequent masturbation, particularly in the
20s, helps prevent prostate cancer later in life, according to
new research.

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Juicy Joke

-- The Bucket-and-Saucer Method --

Three women were talking together, and the subject of birth
control came up.

The first women said, "Because of my religion, I can't use birth

The second women said, "My husband and I use the
rhythm method."

The third women said, "My husband and I use the bucket-and-
saucer method."

She was asked how it worked.

She said, "I'm 5'11" and my husband is 5'2". When we have sex,
he stands on the bucket. When his eyes get as big as saucers, I
kick the bucket out from under him.

Tantric Quote

-- Giving Up Your Soul --

"Dancing is not rising to your feet painlessly like a whirl of dust
about by the wind. Dancing is when you rise above both worlds,
tearing your heart to pieces and giving up your soul." -- Rumi

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Supreme Bliss Tantra is the modern system of personal
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- deepen love and intimacy,
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By opening your senses of the present moment, embracing all of
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journey in total communion with all that is.

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