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"S A C R E D S E X U A L S E C R E T S" Newsletter 7/10/02

Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras
(c) Copyright 2002 by Tantra At Tahoe
This is a free ezine distributed twice a month offering practical sex tips derived from modern sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra. Tantra At Tahoe is dedicated to helping you deepen your relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy with long-distance learning and hands-on training.
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W E R E Y O U I N D E P E N D E N T O N J U L Y 4?

Every time we make Tantric Love, we unleash powerful forces in our minds. You know, being professional Tantrikas, we're required to do this every day or two, whether we want to or not. (Yes, yes yes, we want to!)
It's just like the ancient wisdom has taught us, channeling and circulating sexual energy creates some sort of unique inner transformation. This issue's article about" Dancing On The Tantric Verge" begins to explain.
We've scheduled this issue to reach you while we're working real hard at our craft, practicing Tantra on a sailboat in the Bahamas. Undoubtedly, we'll return with some profound wisdom inspired by Caribbean ecstasy. We hope you look forward to it as much as we are.
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Love from Tantra At Tahoe who is...
Dhyan Jeffre & Dhyan Somraj

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The Penis requests a promotion and a raise for the following

* has to work hard,
* has to work at great depths,
* has to work upside down,
* has no ventilation or air conditioned environment at work,
* has to work in a high humidity environment,
* has to work at high temperatures,
* does not get weekends and holidays off,
* does not get time off after extra hours of work, and
* has a hazardous work environment that often causes
professional sickness.


Request denied for the following reasons:

* does not work 8 hours in a row,
* does not answer immediately to all requests,
* falls asleep at work after a short activity period,
* shows no fidelity to the workplace,
* retires too early,
* does not work at all unless pushed from behind,
* does not leave the workplace clean after finishing work, and
* sometimes leaves work too early.

Editor: Well, this may be conventional wisdom, but we find that this kind of unforgiving attitude may stunt the big guy's growth, regardless of his age. Maybe we should start a grass roots movement to institute a "Celebrate The Penis" week. What do you think?


“"From the state of wonder, there are two paths. One is of questioning -- the wrong path -- it leads you into more and more knowledge. The other is not of questioning but enjoying. Enjoy the wonder, the wonder that life is, the wonder that existence is, the wonder of the sun and the sunlight and the trees bathed in its golden rays. Experience it. Don't put in a question mark, let it be as it is.” -------- Osho

Unleash The Tantric Wizard Within
To Catapult You To Untold Heights

Though we silently bowed to each other and touched foreheads, we obviously were so hot for each other that we just wanted to rip each other's clothes off and go for it.

As we undressed each other ritually and whispered sweet endearments, the heat sparking between us rose to a fever pitch. The first slow subtle caresses were like the discharges of a powerful electrical storm. Our nerves reacted as if hit by lightning.

While our hands explored everywhere, we were drawn by an irresistible magnetism to our hard and wet spots. The moaning shook the rafters. Every time we expected to explode from the torrent of pent-up sexual energy, we consciously slowed. With a moment of silence and a few deep breaths, we surrendered to the spasms reverberating well inside.

Penetration, when we couldn't resist any longer, was like being transported to a different reality. The intense sensations were more like an inner hurricane than a warm summer's breeze. To savor every last drop of pleasure, we moved at a snail's pace.

Finally I understood how scientists harness nuclear power, letting the radiation in the reactor build very gradually to create a steady flow of electricity instead of the detonation of an atomic bomb.

Ever so slowly the delightful in and out strokes created wave after wave of tingling excitement, rush after rush of pulsing heat, and spasm after spasm of cosmic feelings. After each peak of pleasure, we relaxed so that the energy could wash over and between us.

We were in no hurry, with no place to go, simply absorbing every last calorie of delicious sensation we could glean from each subtle motion.

As our bodies merged with less and less separation, pulsing one inside the other, the plateaus rose higher and higher. We seemed to contain so much sexual energy that just a few minutes earlier would have blown our heads off with an explosive orgasm.

The Pathway To An Uncharted World Of Ecstasy
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That's what Tantric LoveMaking is all about, playing on the verge as you ascend to amazing heights of ecstasy. Dancing the edge is the pathway to a vast world of altered-state consciousness that few even dabble with. When you conserve sexual energy and channel it to your higher centers, the short-term trips and long-term transformations are truly phenomenal.

When we talk about being on the brink, you know what we're referring to, don't you? Being swept away in a brief explosion of orgasm that often empties the reservoir, lowers the voltage, and ends the playtime.

Though there's little consciousness involved, animal-driven lust is a powerful human urge. Since Tantra accepts everything and rejects nothing, this is one of the forces we honor as an expression of divine power. At an earlier and untrained age, unconscious sex like this would have been a powerful and exciting 10 minute animal romp.

Don't get us wrong, quickies have their place even in a Tantrika's life. (A Tantrika is an adept of ancient Tantric sacred sexual practice, something even moderns like you can become easily.). But as a steady gourmet diet, we prefer to taste divine fire for extended periods. Sacred sexuality can evolve to a higher plane when you bring lasting awareness into the mix.

If you approach love play in a mind-controlled way as most untrained lovers do, holding back your energy and pushing for the goal of orgasm, you'll never rise to these levels. Consciousness, awareness, presence - simply being in a spiritual sense - is essential to master Tantric Sex.

Flirting with the precipice is more like sipping wine than gulping beer. It's more like nibbling a mouth-watering marbled cheesecake bite by bite than gulping down chunks non-stop. It's more like savoring the rich taste of expensive caviar than dousing your fries with ketchup.

Tantric Sex Practice Makes Perfect, Or At Least Is Great Fun
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Like any challenging new skill, learning to skirt the sexual edge follows the maxim of practice makes perfect. Remember your first bicycle rides without training wheels? Before long you could relax, enjoy more speed, and actually go places.

As you learn to relax on the edge of the cliff, dallying so close to orgasm that your body shivers inside and out, your capacity for pleasure naturally expands. It's as if deep inside your body there's a teeny little rubber bag constraining your pleasure. When you practice riding the sexual verge to generate stronger and stronger currents of feeling, as you want more and more, you find can take more and more.

When you learn to savor the power locked within the slightest stimulation, you open doorways to other realms. Your emotions change, your body feels more alive, and your spirit views existence as a joyful celebration.

Does is make any sense now when we say that Tantrikas downplay orgasm in order to experience different sorts of escalating peaks?

When you learn to cling with one leg over the orgasmic ledge with pounding tides of vibration undulating inside, the powerful build-up of energy unleashes rare and wonderful sensations. You'll find such profound highs and priceless experiences one after the other that you'll never look back.

When we first started teaching Tantra some years ago, we didn't have a simple rebuttal for the mature beginner who said "Don't try to convince me to give up orgasm. I love cuming and plan to continue until well past 100." Now that's a declaration for enjoyment which we applauded. But it closes the window to the undiscovered territory beyond the verge.

Now we simply mention that when you stumble into your first extended multiple orgasm, you'll find it so much stronger, deeper, and moving than that little gush of fluids. Then you'll be able to make an informed decision about what you prefer.

Rush To The Big O And Miss The Juiciest Bits
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In the rush to orgasm, most people slam the door shut long before experiencing the altered state of continuous orgasmic vibrations on the other side. The typical male pattern is to explode with ejaculation, depleting energy reserves and falling asleep.

Women who struggle to climax can't relax into the flow while pushing for more and more arousal. Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. The tension they create prevents them from reaching the high they seek. Though women are more naturally multi-orgasmic, those who force their way to orgasm through intense stimulation can't seem to enjoy skipping along the edge. Instead, they often experience much the same pattern of energy depletion as the ejaculating male when they do orgasm.

A man who masters the blind urge to orgasm can learn to separate ejaculation from the highly-pleasurable energy spasms some call a dry orgasm. As Somraj explains in his popular ebook, "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery," an orgasm master can have intense climax after higher climax without spilling a drop of seed. You can learn 12 secrets right now by clicking here...


Often the challenge for a woman to enter this state of trust is deep intimacy with her partner as Jeffre's ebook, "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love" describes in detail. Click here for the 13 keys...


We hope this article has awakened your desire to learn the ancient Tantric secrets of harnessing your life force to reach unheard of ecstasy. They have certainly transformed our life and lovemaking.

What can you do to begin incorporating these secrets into your love life? Read the next installment of the "Sacred Sexual Secrets" newsletter scheduled for two week from now.

Love and Goddess Speed Your Journey
Dhyan Jeffre and Dhyan Somraj

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Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D. is a licensed SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-author of "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love."
Dhyan Somraj is the author of countless articles about Tantra, over 50 workshops, and 4 books including Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery. During his 30 year career as a counselor, group facilitator, and trainer, Somraj has guided more that 20,000 people to lead more effective lives.

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According to "The Complete Book Of Sexual Trivia"...
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Males under the age of 40 can achieve erection in less than 10 seconds.
(Oh, the good old days.)

Male fetuses can achieve erection during the last trimester in the womb.
(Now how's that for getting an early start.)

Males experience 4 to 5 erections nightly during the REM stage of sleep.
(You think we dream at that time, too?)

Women also experience periods of genital arousal at night similar to the male REM pattern.
(Wet dreams are not gender specific.)


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