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Your Tantra Newsletter: Your Guide To Sexual Strokes
Finding Stroking Patterns That Will Bring You To The Brink Of Ecstasy And Beyond

The first draft of our new ebook, Long Hot Tantric Love Making, is nearly complete. To get you jazzed about it and get your feedback, we’re going to give pieces away in our upcoming newsletters. Here’s the third.

You and your new friend are setting out to do things that feel good with your bodies. Touch feels good. Stroking feels good. Taking time feels good. Slow down enough so that you can truly feel what you are doing.
-- Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt in The Ethical Slut
This chapter is your guide to sexual strokes. That’s the delightful sliding of his vajra into her yoni and back out again. Preferably over and over again. Though an evolved woman has an active role in making stroking wonderful, the skillful technique of the male stroker is pivotal. To be a virtuoso he also needs to perfect his timing, sensitivity, and consciousness. Achieving the true wonders of jewel union is an art, not a science.
To get more skillful at lovemaking, we suggest you learn lots of strokes plus when and how to use them. In the bedroom, options are good. Knowledge, alternatives, and experience will assist you whether you’re giving or receiving the thrusts.

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 6/28/15
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2015 by
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This free ezine (scroll to the end if you want to stop them) offers practical sex tips derived from modern sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training. Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex

The simplistic view is that you can slide your vajra in deep or shallow, fast or slow. You can approach from left or right, top or bottom, gently or forcefully. And you can combine all these variables in multiple stroking schemes.
But you need more than technique to make sexual stroking ecstatic. Without communication, sensitivity, and the flexibility to allow your partner’s needs and preferences to guide you, you’ll rarely reach true sexual satisfaction. Yet again we will discover how vital a two-way partnership is to Tantric LoveMaking.
When your vajra is blessed to enter a yoni, do you make sure that your partner is turned on enough for faster or deeper pumping? Do you adjust to her mood, your hardness, her wetness, how well your jewels fit, and how close you both are to orgasm? Can you sense which part of her yoni likes which kind of stroke and rhythm at different times? And can you find some rhythms that keep you hard and streaming waves of pleasure without getting to close to coming?
Most guys come to the party conditioned to do the exact wrong thing when their incessant banging isn’t getting the woman off: pound even harder. Great strokers, on the contrary, learn how to do the counter-intuitive thing, namely slow down or even stop. Then they can take a moment to search, test, or check-in to find a new groove.
Passive female lovers don’t usually get everything they want in bed. We urge you to take responsibility for making his stroking reach your sweet spots the way you like. Do you insist on creating enough intimacy before you start to feel safe? Do you assert yourself and do your part in creating enough harmony to play together full out? Do you guide the action by being responsive and communicating so you send him clear signals about what you want more of and less of?


Long Hot Tantric Love Making
The Ins And Outs Of Passionate Sex For Her And Him: The Love Dynamics, Physical Mechanics, And Practical Energetics of Sexual Intercourse

Our tenth Tantric sex ebook is unlike any other. It’s a how-to guide that shows men and women, straight and gay: 1) exactly what to do once your sexual organs are connected, and 2) how to expand your intimacy into full erotic union of heart, mind, and soul while you’re doing it. This is the first publication of ways to devise the most ecstatic Stroking Schemes, find Sweet Spots and Sweet Rhythms, connect your electrical Passion Circuits, and fill your Bio-Field with orgasmic energy during sexual intercourse. We’re a long-time married couple who wrote this because too few women are emotionally fulfilled and sexually satisfied. Our expos? is as much our sexual diary of startling discoveries as it is a program of steps every woman can take to get exactly what she wants in and out of bed. It has two goals: 1) making lovemaking last longer, and 2) making lovemaking so passionate that you want it to last and last and do it again and again. It’s the complete no-holds-barred graphic story of how we made our sex life more satisfying than we every imagined possible. And how you can, too.


Search For Stroking Patterns
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“When the jade stalk is thrust into the jade gate, it turns hot and urgent. The woman by her own will stirs and rocks her body, and presses herself upward against the man. When this happens, thrust deeply.”
— The Elemental Maid’s (Plain Girl) advice to the Yellow Emperor

Together you’re searching for stroking patterns that will bring both of you to the peak of pleasure many times. Once past the First Strokes, some couples like to go at it fast and hard. Others like to keep it shallow for the most part. Some just like to relax into it, rock back and forth, and see what happens. Our favorite scheme is variable. We use short cycles of stroking with pauses in between to rediscover what our bodies are yearning for every few minutes.
As you read through and experiment with our survey of stroking methods, we hope you adopt the spirit of the intrepid explorer. We hope you both find what works best for the two of you so you can enjoy the right inner pressure, depth, angle, and speed to make you both overflow with sensational excitement.
We aim to create a spontaneous Kaleidoscope Rhythm in each encounter and every moment. That’s a pattern without much of a pattern that shifts its colors continuously in response to the energy flows at each chakra. In this kind of swirling rhythm you change gears, start and stop as you shift position, angle, speed, and depth.
You do this by following your intuition about what might suit yourself and your partner. You test and experiment, watch each other carefully, and note what produces what reaction. You do more of what’s working and less of what’s not. You know when your sweetie needs something different and find a way to give it that excites you too. You learn to flow kundalini or sexual energy, sensing each other’s ebbs and currents, and circulating that energy to take each other higher.
After making love thousands of times, we find ourselves continuously reading how close we both are to orgasm and react accordingly. That might mean to extend lovemaking as long as possible so we can fly higher and higher. Or, when the time is right, we might enlist our partner’s help when one or both of us wants to explode over the top. Though orgasm isn’t our primary goal in Tantric LoveMaking, we will deal with understanding and guiding your energy towards climax in a chapter near the end of this book.
It should be self-evident that when you’re co-creating this kind of stroking style she won’t be so bored that she’s waiting for him to finish and get it over with. And you’ll both be having so much fun he won’t have to ask “did you come yet?” because it will be so obvious when you go for it.

Love, Somraj and Jeffre

P.S. We’re looking for a few qualified reviewers to help us edit and refine “Long Hot Tantric Lovemaking” when we return from vacation in August. If you’re interested, please email us at the address that follows.


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