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Your Tantra Newsletter: The Explicit Joys Of Digital Sex
Handy Suggestions About Making Tantric Sex Even More Exciting

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 6/2/04
Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2004 by Tantra At Tahoe (530) 587-1317
This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
-- Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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Dear Tantra Friend:

The best way to learn the ecstatic joys of Tantra and Tantric Sex is by
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"Married love is a creative enterprise . . . Perfunctory coitus is a
confession of lack of intelligence and character." -- Alexis Carrel

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After she ordered her drink she turned to the cowboy and asked,
"Are you a real cowboy?"

"Well, I have spent my whole life on the ranch herding cows,
breaking horses, mending fences... I guess I am," replied the

After a short while he asked her what she was.

"I've never been on a ranch so I know I'm not a cowboy," said
the young woman, "but I am a lesbian. I spend my whole day
thinking about women. As soon as I get up in the morning I
think of women. When I eat, shower, watch TV, everything seems
to make me think of women."

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drink. A couple sat down next to him and asked, "Are you a real

"I always thought I was, but I just found out that I'm a lesbian."

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Featured Article
"The Explicit Joys Of Digital Sex"
"Handy Suggestions About Making Tantric Sex Even More Exciting"

No, digital doesn't refer to on-line sex. It's not only a computer term.
By Digital Sex we're talking about with digits. Not the ones in
numbers, the ones at the end of your hands.

Yes, that's right, Digital Sex means with fingers.

Jeffre and I were talking in the hot tub one morning recently (where
our really important decisions are made every day) about how our
attitude and picture of sex has changed over the years. Before she was
first sexually active, she thought full sexual union (our Tantric name
for intercourse) was to put it in and take it. Just once.

Before you think I'm picking on her, let me mention my strange
adolescent ideas about sex. I thought it was something only teenagers
majored in. And after losing interest, no one over 30 ever had sex.

Now that we're over 50, we can assure you we're having the best and
the most sex, passion, and orgasmic pleasure of our entire lives.
Thankfully, how wrong we both were.

The Digital Revolution
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I was really ignorant about something else very important to sexual
union: getting Vajra (Tantric for penis) inside Yoni (vagina). When I
was just learning about sex, I thought it happened naturally without
any assistance. Kind of like you just get on top and Vajra automatically
slips in. Now that we enjoy experimenting with a whole range of sexual
positions from the Kama Sutra (and more), I realize Vajra sometimes
needs a little guidance to pass into Yoni's Jade Garden.

At the beginning of our Tantric sexual journey, I was a little
embarrassed that I couldn't steer Vajra into without my hands. Funny,
because Jeffre and other sex partners were never shy about assisting
with penetration. So I had to look at myself.

By the way, this is a great example of why we call Tantra spiritual sex.
It's all about consciousness and personal growth. Sex is such a charged
topic for so many of us that we carry around information gaps, strange
beliefs, and ignorances for years. If you approach sex
-- and all of life, for that matter
-- in the Tantric way, you witness what you think, feel, and do. By
looking at yourself, you realize what doesn't fit today. And change.

Like about navigating Vajra into Yoni. Why was I embarrassed about not
being able to aim Vajra without my hands at times? Or for that matter,
touching, massaging, and exciting jewels (genitals) before full sexual
union. For all the sexual freedom I thought I'd embraced, I was sure
repressed about lots of things I wasn't even aware of.

How did I get so hung up? Frankly, I don't know and I don't care.
Maybe it's just another example of picking up our culture's pervasive
repression of sexuality. In Tantra, we don't worry too much about the
unusual ideas and troubling emotions we carry with us from the past.
Our focus is on how we choose to be now and from here on out. Which
is the point of this article.

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Add A Wonderful Touch To Your LovePlay Repertoire
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We're telling you our story to interest you in a wonderful addition to
your repertoire of loveplay games, if you're not already doing it.
Namely, Digital Sex. Use Digital Sex to awaken, titillate, excite, and
play with your and your lover's jewels before, during, after, or instead
of sexual union.

As you're warming up, some sensual touching of each other's jewels is
a great way to get your juices flowing. Using your fingers while Vajra is
sliding in and out of Yoni is quite fantastic. When I first started
enjoying Digital Sex, it really added a powerful jolt of excitement me
and my beloved.

By adding the sense of touch around your jewels, you get pleasure
messages through the nerves from your fingertips plus the stimulation
of Vajra, his two round supporting cast members, Yoni, and her lips.
Plus it seemed kind of naughty. Speaking of which, there's another
orifice back there that you can use your fingers around, on, and in, too.

Here are some Digital Sex suggestions that may turn you on...

-- Stroke vajra and his cousins with your fingers to get him real hard
and expectant. Sexual lubricant makes it even more exciting.

-- With lots of water-based lubricant, use your fingers to play with
Yoni's outer lips and then inner lips to get her hot and throbbing for

-- When cleo (clitoris) is awake, she loves different finger strokes, too.

-- Once she's wet and swelling, fingers inside Yoni are a welcome visit.
There are so many things to do within this sacred grotto as we explain
in "Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation: Awakening Her
Sacred Gate To Supreme Bliss."

-- Hold Vajra in one hand and rub his head up and down Yoni's wet and
engorged tissues.

-- For a powerful new sensation once you're really turned on, gently
slap cleo and Yoni's lips with Vajra. Or not so gently if you love it like
we do.

-- When you're both raring to go, circle Vajra with your fingers and
slowly insert his head inside Yoni's inner lips.

-- Keep your fingers circling Vajra while he's moving deeper and while
he strokes in and out. This, by the way, is a great way to maintain his
erection's hardness when you need it.

-- While stroking inside, circle vajra with your fingers and feel him
penetrating through your hand. This adds to the excitement by
including another of your senses, the sense of touch. Holding Vajra
during sexual union channels energy through your hands to and from
the heart and upper energy centers.

-- Sensually run your fingers around Yoni's lips as Vajra slides in and

-- Play with and massage cleo (clitoris) while Vajra is busy inside Yoni.

-- Titillate, circle, and even penetrate rosetta (Tantric for anus) for a
powerful boost of pleasure. Just be sure you use latex gloves or wash
your hands before touching anywhere else. If you're interested in
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Who Reaches Where?
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If you're confused about who we're recommending can enjoy these
actions, don't be. Both of you are invited to try all these moves and see
what you like, whether you're the receiver or giver. Well, that means
we're not only suggesting that you use your digits on your lover's
precious jewels, but on your own as well.

Why not include the most popular form of sex while engaged!
Masturbating while you're making love? Sure, why not. But since we
revere all forms of sexual play in Tantra, we call it self-pleasuring.
Pleasure is a good thing and you deserve it. So why not accentuate your
lovemaking with your hands everywhere you can reach, your own
jewels included.

Which raises one important consideration: where can you reach?
Obviously, the sexual position you're making love in exposes some fun
places to play with and hides others. For example, when one of you is
laying flat on top of the other, the underneath lover can reach the
other's butt but little else. To expose your stroking jewels, the on-top
lover needs sits up. Or use a side-to-side position which allows much
freer access for Digital Sex during penetration.

"Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation" contains a detailed
chapter about all Kama Sutra positions and how you can enjoy them for
much much more than just exciting Digital Sex.

Is Digital Sex A Requirement To Be A High-Class Tantrika?
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Is Digital Sex a major requirement of Tantric Sex and a supercharger
for orgasms? Probably not. It's just another added aspect that
approaching sex with a fresh and open perspective provides. To get
really high with Tantra, you didn't need industrial-strength vibrators,
mind-altering substances, and hard, fast, strong pumping.

See, the point of Tantric Sex is to develop your subtle inner energy
system so that any stimulus can make you high. We do love all kinds of
loveplay because almost anything with the right focus and intent gets
our orgasmic energy surging through our bodies.

We hope some of our suggestions about Digital Sex will turn you on.
Please write and tell us how it works for you and we'll enter you in our
monthly drawing to win an ebook or ecourse.

Wishing you an ecstatic hand...

Love, Somraj & Jeffre

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- My Mommy's Wash Cloth -

There was a little boy whose mother was about to have a baby.
One day, the little boy walked in and saw his mother naked.
He asked his mother what the hair between her legs was.

She responded, "It's my wash cloth."

Weeks later, after the mother had her baby, the young boy
walked in on his mother again. While she was in the hospital,
the doctor had shaved her pubic hair.

The boy asked, "What happened to your wash cloth?"

The mother responded, "I lost it."

The little boy, trying to be helpful, set out to find his
mother's washcloth.

A few days later, he ran to his mother yelling and screaming,
"I found your washcloth."

The mother, thinking that the child was just playing, went
along with the boy and asked, "Where did you find it?"

The boy answered, "The maid has it! She is washing daddy's
face with it."

Tantric Quote
- Everything Within Us -

"We have everything within us. The true Tantric master --- it’s the
Self. There’s nothing to find out there. Everything divine that we look
for out there is in us." -- DANIEL ODIER in Tantric Quest

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grace to know Somraj is the scholar, great of intellect, great of heart,
for the temple of the universe. And how he honors me by thinking
that there are words that flow from me that are worth sharing." --
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