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Do You Have To Give Up Your Favorite Things To Become A Tantric Lover?


"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 4/27/05


Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras and Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees

  ISSN 1540-8825   (c) Copyright 2005 by Tantra At Tahoe (530) 587-1317


This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of

sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.

       -- Our Motto:  Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex


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Tantric Quote



     - The Sinfulness Of Sex -


"When authorities warn you of the sinfulness of sex, there is an important lesson to be learned. Do not have sex with the authorities."  -- BASIC SEX FACTS FOR TODAY'S YOUNGFOLK



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           - Take Two And Call Me In The Morning -


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The next morning, the woman stormed into the doctor's office and exclaimed,

"You have to change my husband's prescription! It's much too strong!! I gave him the pills before dinner, just like you told me, and halfway through dinner they took effect. He got a wild look in his eyes, then pulled the tablecloth off the table, breaking all of the dishes! Then he threw me onto the table, and we made love right there!!"


"I feel awful," said the doctor. "Let me at least pay for all of the broken dishes."


After she calmed down, the woman replied, "Don't worry about it. We just won't eat at that restaurant any more."



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                    - The Pros And Cons Of Coming -

         - Do You Have To Give Up Your Favorite Things -

                      - To Become A Tantric Lover? -


                             By Somraj Pokras


"Do I have to give up coming?"


When we first offered public workshops many years ago, men often asked me if they would have to forego ejaculating when they learned Supreme Bliss Tantra. I especially remember one gray-haired, rambunctious, sexy senior citizen (one of our favorite kinds of people) who was most outspoken.


He stood up and declared that he would never give up ejaculating because it was his favorite part of sex. Over the years, we've also heard from many women who feel their sexual power is incomplete unless they can make a man squirt a big load.


Obviously this comes from the notion that Supreme Bliss Tantra requires men to stop enjoying wet orgasms and women to stop getting them off.


Fortunately, they're both mistaken.


More And Better When It Comes To Orgasms

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A major outcome of mastering Spiritual Sex is, as you practice, to learn how to experience better and better orgasms. By doing the simple and juicy exercises of this unique kind of yoga, you too can reach your unfulfilled orgasmic potential, whether you're male or female.


You can choose when to come, how to come, how many times, and what kinds.


What kinds? There are so many kinds of orgasms. Our first Tantra teacher used to say "There are as many kinds of orgasms as there are stars in the sky." We heartily agree. And the more we practice ourselves and teach others, the more real this becomes to us.


Of course, there are a few things you need to learn before you can both become Orgasm Masters. This starts with the Supreme Bliss Tantra attitude that nothing is more important than that you feel good. In other words, you have to accept deeply inside that sexual play which makes you feels good is good for you. So the more the better.


That explains why Spiritual Sex is sometimes so slow, so sensitive, so sweet, almost like a meditation. It also explains why Spiritual Sex typically lasts so much longer than the 5 to 10 minute quickie so many are accustomed to.


The net effect of all of this is bigger, longer, stronger climaxes when you're ready, but not before then.


What Would You Give Up To Be An Orgasm Master?

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What do you need to learn before becoming an Orgasm Master? Women who don't come easily need to learn to welcome sexual pleasure as a divine gift and open their sexual energy channels. Men who do come too easily need to learn to bask in the pleasure, slow down, and spread sexual energy out of their jewels (Tantric for genitals).


If we put aside the outdated notion that men are more sexual beings than women, there still are some built-in challenges that women need to face to become more orgasmic. Sex surveys frequently show that less than half of women routinely orgasm from sexual union (intercourse). One found that only 25% of women easily come through sexual union.


In their defense, much of this stems from how little priority so many couples give sex. They do it when they're tired after work, TV, and kids are attended to. They don't have the time or energy for the long sensuous rituals Tantrikas prefer.


The average guy can get up and off quickly compared to the average women. She needs 5 to 10 times the affection, the warmth, the touch that he does. So quickies meet his needs more than hers. And women's orgasms suffer when  she's not turned on enough, she's not ready to be penetrated.


Ask any lesbian who's willing to explain and you'll understand.


What's A Loving Man Supposed To Do?

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So what's a loving man to do? Plan long dates well in advance with the kids away. Romance her every step of the way leading up the big event. Take your time and tell her how you love her. Touch, nuzzle, kiss, and lick everywhere. When she's screaming for you inside her, then you'll know she's ready.


Once vajra is inside yoni (right, Tantric words for penis and vagina), savor every stroke. Play with the waves of building energy. Make it last as long as you can. Make sure she has as many orgasms as she wants.


When you know how to do this, you can have multiple orgasms of many varieties, too. Yes, men, you guys. Multiple orgasms need not be purely the province of women.


How can a man learn to be multi-orgasmic?


Well, first of all you have to last long enough. How long is long enough? When is ejaculation premature? Kinsey, the first major American sex researcher who's been immortalized by a feature film, found that 75% of men he tested ejaculated within two minutes of yoni entry.


Two minutes is faster than most women want. And faster than most need to be able to come.


Building And Cavorting In The Energy

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Because Supreme Bliss Tantra is all about building and cavorting in the delicious energy of sex, we define premature ejaculation as having a play-ending explosion before you both want to. That could be after an hour or two. When you've developed that kind of communication, that kind of synchronicity, that kind of intimacy, coming together becomes a truly spiritual experience.


If you want any of this, then you're probably burning to know how a guy can develop this kind of orgasm mastery. Three suggestions: practice, practice, practice. Yes, there are exercises that you first need to get good at by yourself and then there are some you do together.


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But that's only the beginning. By continuing to practice, you eventually learn how to avoid the involuntary prostate spasms that cause ejaculation. (If you don't understand exactly how this works, "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery" spells out the anatomy and physiology in complete detail.)


One Of Your First New Discoveries: The Dry Orgasm

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When you can climax without the prostate contractions, you'll have developed the talent for a different kind of orgasm, the dry orgasm. In other words, you have all the pleasure without the play-ending wet spot.


And women, you'll be happy to learn he won't automatically get soft, roll over, and fall asleep either.


Now, if you could have a dry orgasm whenever you wanted and not shoot your wad, you'd be able to go again and again and make love longer. Then you could have a series of dry ones for as long as you want, or as long as your bodies can handle it.


You can have lots of fun giving your baby as much as she wants for as long as she wants. After which, you could have a big wet explosion when your honey is done.


Imagine how good that feels after all that playtime building all that energy for all that time?


The Cosmic Place That Makes You Scream

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But that's not the ultimate by a long shot.


The crescendos of ecstasy that you can reach by mastering Spiritual Sex result in an even more powerful experience, the Tantric Orgasm. When you learn to create a whole series of these tidal waves of sexual energy, you enter the lofty reaches of the O-Zone, our name for the Orgasm Zone.


That's the cosmic place that makes you scream "Oh My God!" That's where your boundaries dissolve with your beloved, where you leave this plane of existence, where you unite with All That Is.


Now don't you agree that's the kind of experience you'll be willing to delay your ejaculations for? It certainly is for us.


Hopefully, you've gotten clear that you don't need to give up anything when you embark on the ecstatic journey of Supreme Bliss Tantra. Which brings us to the key question.


Would you give up your old kind of coming if you found a new way that was oh so much better?


May the choice be yours soon.


              Love, Somraj


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       -  Sexual Deviants -


"It all wraps around the feeling of guilt and the feelings of not being able to express yourself sexually. There are all kinds of sexual deviants in your culture that almost without exception all exist because of the pressing of the irrational laws around the subject, both religious and secular. The surest way to make a deviant society, is to make a whole lot of deviant laws." -- ABRAHAM



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