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Your Tantra Newsletter: Say AH To Anal Orgasms -Part 2
How To Awaken A Whole New Arena Of Ecstatic Tantric Love Play

In our last issue we introduced you to the potential delights of anal sex. If you missed it, we call it AH play, the initials for what people on the street call the orifice.

As we wrote, you probably can’t decide if the benefits outweigh the risks until we present them. You’ll find them in our next article, along with our four-step how-to program. So here are some of the questions and challenges associated with AH play, many of which are simply unfounded myths we can set right here.

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"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 4/26/13
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees http://www.TantraAtTahoe.com
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2013 by TantraAtTahoe.com
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This free ezine (scroll to the end if you want to stop them) offers practical sex tips derived from modern sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training. Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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Anal Play is Painful

No, it doesn’t have to be if you approach it right. The ultra-insensitive approach of too many physicians during gynecological and prostate exams has probably created unnecessary resistance to anal play.

Because of the high concentration of nerve endings back there, it makes a receiver highly sensitive to anal pleasure. But the downside is true, too. Force your way in before he or she is ready and the pain takes precedence. If you follow a measured program of relaxation, releasing armoring, and awakening the pleasure responses, it won’t hurt at all.

Let’s point out the obvious while we’re at it. Don’t start penetrating with big things first and use lots of water-based lube. More about the Gradual Insertion Method later.

Anal Play Is Dirty

Sure, we all know what the AH’s primary biological purpose is, elimination of waste. But unless you have to go right now, the rectum, the final part of the colon, is usually pretty empty. We’ve had enough experience with different lovers to know that it’s usually not visibly dirty.

Of course, there are some pretty strong bacteria that normally live in the GI tract. That’s why young girls are taught to wipe backwards after going to the toilet. During anal play, you just have to keep affected body parts and toys separate before washing. We’ve never had a problem because we’re conscious of what we put where.

There are a couple easy and inexpensive ways to make sure things stay clean. Use a fleet enema before play. Use unpowdered latex gloves and condoms during play. Keep paper or hand towels and handiwipes at hand. And wash up right afterwards.

Fear Of Homosexuality

Being gay is not an infection, an irresistible force that overpowers your will, a sleeping monster lurking deep within the dark recesses of your asshole. It's just a choice that gives some men greater pleasure as a way of life.

If you enjoy anal play, it doesn't mean you have latent homosexual tendencies. Anal sex is more common with adventuresome heterosexuals than most people realize. Heterosexual men become more sexual and more ecstatic by freeing their natural instincts.

If you're afraid that people will label you gay if they knew you enjoyed anal play, well, don't tell them!

Are you afraid that you'll lose your manhood by playing the woman's role when you're penetrated by a finger or more? Actually, many women love their lover’s vulnerability. This amazing experience can make you such a highly sensitive lover that you'll be every women's dream.

Remember, fears like these are stored in your tissues creating impenetrable armoring. If there are strong emotions inside, that's all the more reason to engage in anal healing like we’re recommending here and let them go once and for all.

How To Awaken To AH Pleasure
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To enjoy backdoor pleasure, you have to learn to relax, open yourself fully, and receive. This is completely contrary to our cultural programming. Most of our asses are shut tight. That’s why forcing your way in doesn’t work and can hurt. Instead, consider that awakening anal orgasms is better a healing journey. We’ll give you an introduction here to the four steps in learning to enjoy delightful anal sensations.

Relaxation is the first step. Tension is the enemy here. A large part of the tension comes from ingrained armoring. But fighting the new sensations as your AH is approached and penetrated makes it worse.

Learning to relax is a major avenue of reaching amazing heights of ecstasy through Supreme Bliss Tantra. It’s a skill you can learn. Breathing, yoga, meditation are often vital parts of the process. We use whatever it takes to teach students to instruct their body to let go and surrender to the sensations it’s receiving.

Release Armoring
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If you’re experienced in spiritual practice and lead a low stress life, maybe your AH will open easily when you to tell it to relax. But for most of us the issues buried in our tissues get in the way of good feelings flowing. If so, you need a slow and tender series of Pelvic Healing sessions, the second step of the program.

Pelvic Healing uses first soft and then deeper massage around your AH and your whole pelvis. When you’re ready and willing, we use a gloved (if you want) and highly lubricated finger to ever so slowly and gently massage around your orifice. If you’re not used to this, it can feel weird and uncomfortable. But loving touch is healing touch.

As you get accustomed to it, it’s common to find “hot spots.” A hot spot is a place that feels hot or warm or tense or solid or cold or electric. Sometimes it’s a numb spot, just not alive pliable tissue. The tension is a result of the armoring frozen in that part of the body. Fortunately, just holding the spot while you breathe releases the hardened energy. When the massage feels good again you move on elsewhere, shallow at first and then deeper and deeper.

Pelvic Healing often takes multiple sessions as the armored tension manifests in different places at different times. The good news is that it results in improved blood circulation and nerve impulses to flow naturally so you can feel sensations the way you should.

The Gradual Insertion Method
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If you were to force a two inch square object into a one inch round hole, it would hurt, even after repeated Pelvic Healing sessions. So the third step in awakening your AH is the Gradual Insertion Method.

When you enjoy being penetrated by one finger all the way, why not try two? Or more? Though some porn stars are undoubtedly proud of being fisted back there, outrageous stretching is not the goal. But teaching your sphincters to relax and welcome more than one finger can add to your ultimate pleasure.

Then there are a lot of great sex toys you can try in a wide variety of lengths and thicknesses. The Gradual Insertion Method obviously suggests your start small and work up. If you’re not comfortable walking into your local adult store and asking for advice, we have a well-stocked and more anonymous one online here... http://www.tantraattahoe.com/product/product.htm .

Butt plugs are designed so that after the larger bulb on the end goes in, your anus can grab a smaller diameter to keep it in place. To many this adds incredible sensations all by itself or when your yoni or vajra is being pleasured.

Soon you’ll be ready to try a dildo, often shaped like an actual vajra. They come in so many colors and textures. We sometimes prefer the vibrating kind. Now there’s a sensation deep inside your pelvis that moves your G-Spot like little else.

The Do-It-Yourself Approach
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Anal sex toys have another useful benefit. Much of this program is easier with a loving partner serving you and helping you to relax and open your back door. But it you don’t have one or want to proceed on your own, you can follow the program by yourself with an assortment of butt plugs, dildos, and vibrators. Our favorite line is called the Aneros which you read about and buy here... http://www.tantraattahoe.com/product/aneros.htm .

To many, the ultimate is anal sex per se. At this point in the program you might want to try a vajra in your AH. If you’ve proceeded slowly, enjoying each step along the way, you’ll be ready to enjoy it. Uninhibited guys like the tightness among other factors. Many women in the right mood love the feeling too. Anal sex also offers another option to two men.

Again, straight guys, we're not trying to convince you to turn gay or lose interest in your woman. But did you ever wonder why homosexual men enjoy sex so much? Many had the courage to discover the immense pleasure awaiting them through their AH. Those of you who've already majored in sexual exploration know what we're talking about. Because pleasure is a paramount principle of Supreme Bliss Tantra, we believe it's unfair to deprive staunch heterosexuals from enjoying this powerful inner orgasmic trigger.

Spread The Orgasmic Energy
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Whatever path you take on the AH journey, by this point play should be feeling really good back there. Once past the armored tension, sexual energy should start to flow more freely. A finger where the sun don’t shine is a great supercharger during other kinds of sexual play.

Spreading the orgasmic energy is the last and ultimate step of your AH program. You do this by fanning the subtle sparks tickling you inside and spreading the flames all throughout your body. That’s where full-body orgasms come from.

Frankly, nothing compares to using subtle sexual energy to reach Tantric Orgasm. If you missed it, let us remind you that Tantric Orgasm is an experience of prolonged peak pleasure in which your whole body vibrates with wave after wave of intense ardor. You shake all over, engulfed in surge after surge of pure liquid fire, that can go on for minutes, even longer.

You’ll find lots of info about spreading sexual energy and Tantric Orgasm throughout our site. You can do a search here... http://www.tantraattahoe.com/search.htm .

We hope to follow up these articles with an in-depth discussion of this fundamental skill in Supreme Bliss Tantra, expanding sexual energy in our next newsletter. Of course, the whole story with pictures and step-by-step instructions is in our ebook, Tantric Male Multiple G-Spot Orgasm, which you read about and download here... http://www.tantraattahoe.com/male-g-spot-e-book.htm .

Though this is written about penetrating men to reach their G-Spot, the do-it-yourself program we’ve introduced here completely applies to women interested in awakening their AH.

Love, Somraj and Jeffre

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