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Let Your Sex Life And Sexual Healing Help You Find Health, Wealth, And Happiness

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 4/23/08
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2008 by
This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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Dear Reader:

We’ve been having lots of fun and hope you have, too. Skiing was great here in Lake Tahoe this season but now pretty much over. So we’re looking forward to great hiking and biking. Maybe if you visit you can also enjoy great golf and boating.

We’re actively working on the Tantric Goddess Awakening Journey which you’ll hear about soon in this newsletter. It’s a way for women to reclaim the divine power of their sacred feminine life force. Our featured article this week focuses on an essential element of empowerment, namely letting your erotic drive guide you to health and happiness.

This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: " A Gateway To Expansion"
* Juicy Joke: "The Spoon"
Featured Ebook: "Supreme Bliss Tantra Guide To Spiritual Sex"
* Featured Article: “Your Erotic Drive Helps You Find Health, Wealth, Happiness”
* Juicy Joke: Juicy Joke: "How to Tell if Your Viagra is Working"
* Tantric Quote: “Enlarge The Erotic Repertory”
* How To Save Over $45 On Our Ebooks

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Love from Tantra At Tahoe who is...

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Tantric Quote: " A Gateway To Expansion"

"Tantra is the much misunderstood practice of using the sexual energy as a way of exploring spirituality -- using sex as a gateway to a richer and deeper spiritual experience, and using spirituality as a means of expanding the sex act into one of erotic symbolism and meditation." -- Richard Craze in "A Beginner’s Guide To Tantric Sexuality"

Juicy Joke: "The Spoon"

A man entered a restaurant and sat at the only
open table. As he sat down, he knocked the
spoon off the table with his elbow.

A nearby waiter reached into his shirt pocket,
pulled out a clean spoon and set it on the table.
The diner was impressed. "Do all the waiters
carry spoons in their pockets?"

The waiter replied, "Yes. Ever since we had that
efficiency expert out, he determined that 17.8%
of our diners knock the spoon off the table. By
carrying clean spoons with us, we save trips
to the kitchen."

The diner ate his meal. As he was paying the
waiter, he commented, "Forgive the intrusion,
but do you know that you have a string hanging
from your fly?"

The waiter replied, "Yes, we all do. Seems that
the same efficiency expert determined that we
spend too much time washing our hands after
using the men's room.  So, the other end of
that string is tied to my penis.  When I need to
go, I simply pull the string to get my unit out,
go, and return to work.  Since I don't actually
touch myself, there's no need to wash my hands.
Saves a lot of time."

"Wait a minute," said the diner. "How do you get your unit back in your

"Well, I don't know about the other guys, but I use the spoon!"

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Featured Article: “Erotic Drive”

Let Your Sex Life And Sexual Healing Help You Find Health, Wealth, And Happiness

Just as your body needs air and water, your spirit needs a steady diet of fulfilling sexual pleasure.

If you stopped breathing, your body would die within a few minutes, right? How about eating and drinking? We probably all could use a few days of dieting and live to tell about it. But without water, our bodies would dry up and blow away before too long.

What about sex? Sure, there are lots of folks who don’t get it regularly -- or don’t know how to enjoy it when they do -- whose bodies continue living. Yet, if we looked closely enough, we bet that we’d find that their innate nature, their inner spirit, is drying up.

Because none of us wants that to happen, here we’re going to explain and show you why and how you can stay vibrant and alive at any age, and as you age, by exercising your erotic drive.

Sex Is Natural And Healthy
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"Passion is really our life energy, it is what propels us, or compels us, to act on something.” -- Author Wilbert Alix in San Diego’s Vision Magazine

Your erotic drive for sex is natural and healthy. I’m sure you’ve heard the rap that the urge to continue the species is ingrained in all of us. So procreation must be natural, right? What we can say beyond a shadow of a doubt is that your sex drive is always there. Maybe you can learn to sublimate the underlying life force into working or parenting, hobbies or God, art or exercise.

As sure as you’re breathing, your erotic drive will fuel your desire to experience, create, and love. In other words, to live.

"The healthy life has three main pillars - a balanced diet, mental hygiene and a healthy sex life." -- CHARAKA, author of ancient Indian ayurvedic healing texts

But is it healthy? Many believe that an active sex life can return you to a state of vibrant health. Over the years, we’ve read all sorts of studies about how good a round of passionate sex is for you physically: all the circulation that’s revved up, all the calories you burn, all the exercise your heart gets. After completing a study of 45 to 59 year old men who had sex twice week, Daniel Stern M.D. Found a 50% lower death rate over men who have sex once a month or less, he stated "Sex is just as health promoting as vitamins, exercise, and a balanced diet."

Get Your Energy Moving
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To continue our very apt analogy about breathing, consider that an essential part of your life is energetic respiration. In basic terms, energy is the electromagnetic vibration that activates your cells, nerves, organs. When you’re hungry and thirsty, you take in energy as air and food which your body converts into forms you can use. In its most dramatic form, you feel it when you exercise or get excited, and miss it when you’re tired.

In Supreme Bliss Tantra, we learn to harness life force energy in its subtlest form and convert it into great power. To the degree that you’re sensing, feeling, and experiencing life, you’re taking in and sending out little trickles of energy. Like the moon causing tides in our planet’s oceans, your spirit creates currents and surges of life force energy, sometimes little trickles and sometimes tidal waves.

What do you think would happen to your body if you didn’t get any physical exercise at all? If you stayed in bed and didn’t move, your muscles would atrophy, your lungs would fill with fluid, and your health would deteriorate quickly. Well, it’s the same with the ebb and flow of life force energy. Certain kinds of exercise are cleansing, healing, and revitalizing to your spirit as well as your body.

Of course, we’re referring here to sexual exercise. Without letting your erotic drive flow regularly, your sexual energy channels get congested and clog up. While you’re alive, you’re continuously generating some level of sexual energy. And without anywhere to go, it settles into your tissues, gets more solid, and cuts off future flows. Wilhelm Reich, one of Freud’s colleagues, called this “armoring,” which is especially damaging to your mental and spiritual health when settling in the pelvis.

What happens when the natural flows of life force energy are stagnant and congested? We call women like this “tumesced,” which literally means “filled with blood” like an erect sexual organ. But we use it to mean her erotic drive is dammed up. You’ve probably heard someone say that a touchy or cranky woman just needs to get laid. Maybe so. Isn’t it possible that she’s just hypersensitive because her sexual energy is all bottled up and congested, looking for any vent?

Guys, don’t get complacent, it happens to you, too. Hang out with the gals for a while and you’ll discover how they rate guys on the “sweet to predatory” scale. We all know what happens when men get so horny they could burst. Right, they get aggressive, pushy, and thoroughly inappropriate with sexual innuendos. As good an idea as sexual harassment legislation and training are, we just don’t think they can deal directly with the underlying problem, namely guys’ suppressed erotic drive.

So What’s A Civilized Person To Do About Suppressed Erotic Drives?
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We’re not saying you have to be promiscuous to be healthy. But if you find an ethical way of making love with multiple partners, we applaud your dedication to your sexual health. Yes, we’re serious about the “ethical” part. If you’re cheating on your spouse or enjoying a clandestine affair with someone who’s partner is unaware of the dalliance, you’ll discover emotional, psychological, and spiritual blocks to the unfettered flow of life force energy.

So where will playing around eventually get you then? Right, in some kind of uncomfortable hot water.

We are saying you may need to change your priorities, make time with your beloved, focus on exchanging pleasure when you’re together. Get a babysitter, delegate some work to your assistant, don’t answer your phone. Also, we are saying you should hook up with someone else who makes time and space in their busy life for sexual play.

What if you’re in a relationship where your initial passion has waned? It happens all the time and often leaves lovers at a loss about what to do if they don’t understand this perspective of stagnated erotic drive. If you realize that you both are pumping a steady stream of sexual energy with nowhere to go, negative emotions towards each other and other less-than-perfect outlets like cheating aren’t that surprising.

A fundamental part of Supreme Bliss Tantra is first learning how to get your sexual energy flowing freely and naturally. You begin with learning to get out of your head and into your body. As your sensitivity to sexual energy increases, you learn to summon it, channel it, and enjoy it using simple tools like breath, movement, and sound.

We wrote our “Supreme Bliss Tantra Guide To The Ecstasy Of Spiritual Sex Ebook” so you could learn all this on your own. For details, click here .

Right, you can learn to feel good and heal the congestion of your innate erotic drives without sex. In fact, that’s the best way to learn Supreme Bliss Tantra. But when you combine getting turned on energetically along with physical stimulation, and you’ve got a truly powerful practice. Some, like P. J. O’Rourke call this common solo activity masturbation...

"Sophisticated persons masturbate without compunction. They do it for reasons of health, privacy, thrift and because of the remarkable perfection of invisible partners." -- P. J. O'Rourke

Though few like to talk about “doing myself,” why is masturbation so common? Isn’t it clear from what you’ve read so far that it’s because the continuous flow of life force energy gets dammed up and needs release? That’s just one of the reasons why we think playing with yourself is a good thing to be celebrated and enjoyed without guilt.

Actually, we prefer to call it self-pleasuring because giving yourself pleasure is sane and healthy.

It’s Even More Healthy With Another
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Naturally we think doing yourself is a good thing because it gets your sexual energy flowing. Which is why we think a robust sex life with another is even better. Together you have more ways to enjoy your erotic drive, more methods to stimulate sexual energy, and more places to channel your turn-on.

Of course, your feelings and experiences with another often get all wrapped up in the blocks to the flow of sexual energy. Or maybe it’s clearer to say the energy from your bad experiences can get in the way of your free flow of sexual energy, congest your channels, and armor your tissues. Which is why sexual healing - deep, often erotic, massage of armored tissues especially around the pelvis -- is an essential practice in Supreme Bliss Tantra.

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Because our society frowns on women exercising their erotic drives more than men, it’s even more important for them to find a healthy way to open their sexual energy channels and let go of the armoring that blocks the natural flow of life force. The most powerful method we know is to get in touch with their divine, sacred feminine and let the wisdom of the Goddess guide. To help, shortly we’ll launch our Tantric Goddess Awakening Journey and let you know all about it in a future newsletter.

Whatever way you find to routinely let your erotic drive flourish, it can only make you and your relationship more healthy. That is, if you find a safe and harmonious way to do it. When you do, you’ll find you can direct this unlimited source of life force energy towards...

Being more healthy
Bonding your relationship more tightly
Building intimacy
Attracting the perfect partner
Raising your consciousness
Healing stuck parts of your life
Increasing your abundance
Enjoying every minute to the fullest.

Or, as we’ve said, let your erotic drives propel you to vibrant health. Let us know how celebrating pleasure in all its forms makes your life better by writing us here .

May there be no limit to the joy you receive from your erotic drives.

Love, Somraj and Jeffre

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Juicy Joke: "How to Tell if Your Viagra is Working"

- At work, they call you a spiritualist because when you sit down at
  a meeting, the table floats.

- Your face is very pale due to lack of blood.

- When you walk into a sauna, everyone stands and applauds.  They
  begin to call you "the tripod."

- You begin to think your mother in law is pretty.

- Sunbathing nude outside standing: Birds perch on it.

- Sunbathing nude outside lying down: You look like a sundial.

- Everyone at the bank, grocery, etc...  lets you go to the front of
  the line...

- Compared to you, Pinocchio doesn't look like such a liar.

- You always lose limbo contests.

- Lewinsky wants you to be president someday.

- You can make drawings in the sand without having to find a stick.

- You like to sleep on your back, so you had to remove the ceiling

Tantric Quote: “Enlarge The Erotic Repertory”

"A man who understands the heart should enlarge his repertory of techniques for sexual ecstasy by this means and that, imitating the amorous movements of tame animals, wild animals, and birds. When these various erotic moods are evoked according to the particular nature of the woman and of her region, they inspire women's affection, passion, and respect." -- KAMASUTRA translated by Wendy Doniger & Sudhir Kakar

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