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Let Go Of The False Beliefs That Limit Your Sexual Potential


"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 4/13/05


Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees

  ISSN 1540-8825   (c) Copyright 2005 by Tantra At Tahoe (530) 587-1317


This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra & the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy & reach astounding heights of

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Dear Tantra Friend:



In our March 16 issue we began debunking many of the sexual myths, especially those about men, that hold us all back from our full sexual potential. In this issue, Jeffre, with the help of an avid reader, looks specifically at feminine issues. (Thanks for your help, Linda, and we'll sign you up for our new Tantric Sex Muscle Ecourse when it's finished shortly.)


Before you dismiss this topic as not relating to you, consider that there is most likely a difference between what you think, what you believe and what your unconscious has to say about it all.


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           - Sexual Myths That Hold Women Back -

- Let Go Of The False Beliefs That Limit Your Sexual Potential -



For those of you born after 1965, you probably take the so-called women's movement for granted. That is, you just assume that the way it is, that's the way it should be, end of subject. Like it or not, you are a product of your society as well as your parents and there are some beliefs that are so pervasive and so insidious that you might not even recognize them in yourself.


For example, how many of you women have deeply looked at your yoni (Tantric for vagina and vulva) really close up in a mirror? Have you thought of her as beautiful and desireable? Or as disgusting and undesireable? Or somewhere in between? Where does that reaction come from?


How many of you women have fallen in love with the strong silent type of man even when your head tells you that you need a more gentle and verbal man?


Have you ever self-pleasured in front of your lover? Have your or your lover searched for your famed secret orgasmic trigger, your G-Spot? Have you ever hesitated to ask your lover for what you want because you didn't want him (or her) to think you were a slut? Or perhaps because you didn't want him to think that you thought he was doing something wrong?


Beliefs Our Minds Accept

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These are just some of the beliefs that our minds don't accept because we consider them of a different era, not modern or not politically correct. Yet, our unconscious mind can believe them, play tricks on us, and consequently keep us from getting all we want and need sexually.


Take notice, men! Have you ever had your woman say one thing and then act in the totally opposite direction? This inner conflict described above may be going on right before your eyes. Men, have you ever felt that you were in the dark about pleasing a woman? Why do you think that might be?

Could it be that both you and she have succumbed to a myth about sex?


There are dozens of myths that hold us back as Tantric lovers. One of our avid newsletter readers, Linda S. Smith, graciously shared some she's experienced. Are any of these floating around in your unconscious or preconscious mind? She shared these myths:


Linda's View Of Women's Sexual Myths

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"#1Women who enjoy sex 'too much' or have 'too many lovers' are sluts and this is bad (naughty, sinful, disgusting, etc).

"#2 All women are naturally monogamous and all men are, given the chance, naturally non-monogamous.


"#3 If you fantasize about or desire sex involving bondage, kidnapping, 'gang-rape,' flogging, or other unusual forms of erotic stimulation, you are sick, bad, or there's something psychologically wrong with you."


How happy we are to know these are all common cultural lies, re-enforced by parents, school peers, friends, religion, the media, and other inhibited, sexually ignorant or unhappy people. These beliefs are based in shame, guilt, fear, ignorance, past sexual abuse, or religious guilt. Linda continues:


"God (in whatever form you think of All That Is) does not inhibit our sexuality.  Gays, lesbians, bi-sexuals, transgenders, BDSM- and kink-lovers, and all others in-between, as well as the straight-hetero-monogamous crowd, are all loved equally by God.  It is God's will that everybody who wishes, experience an abundance of healthy, consensual, safe sexual pleasure."


"I don't think that being sexually abundant is an excuse to lapse into loveless sex, using sex as an escape from our pain, our divinity, or responsibility.  I believe that if you love yourself, God, and other people, you won't have sex which uses the other person's body as an object without regard to the soul inside."


But Wait, That's Not All, Folks

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Thank you Linda for your concise and candid contribution. We couldn't have said it more clearly. We'd like to add a few more common myths which often results in folks walking into our office for consultation:


#4. Couples lose their sexual juice after a few months. This goes along with marital sex is always boring after awhile.


#5. Women aren't supposed to initiate sex or ask for what they want because it might hurt the guy's ego.


#6. Men are supposed to know what a woman wants, all the time.

#7. The man is responsible for "giving" a woman an orgasm.


#8. The only real orgasm is a vaginal orgasm. (Whatever that means).


#9. Women don't ejaculate.


Don't Settle, Ask Yourself These Questions

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These and the myriad of other myths you might be deluded by are limiting options that you truly desire underneath. So we encourage to ask yourself questions like:

  - Are you getting everything you want in bed?

  - What about oral sex. Do you like? Love it? Or find it distasteful?

  -What about anal sex. Do you like it? Love it? Or don't even want to go there?


We aren't trying to say that you have to try everything. Well, maybe we are trying to say that you should try everything you're the least bit curious or titillated about. For sure, we are trying to get you to look at your belief system and specifically at what might be holding you back from an intensely ecstatic sex life.


Guys, this is as much about you as it is about her. If you want her to be open sexually, then you want her to understand who she is and you want to understand who she is also. The Tantric reality is that women are profoundly sexual when they are in touch with their real nature.


There's So Much More Awaiting You

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Our reality is that each of us is 100% responsibility for our turn-on, our playfulness and our orgasms. It's magical to have a knowledgeable partner, but you'll both be shortchanged if you, the woman, doesn't take the responsibility to look at yourself, mentally, psychologically, and sexually.


Any kind of fear and guilt is limiting when it comes to sexual pleasure. We urge you to get clear about who you are, what pleases you and what you need to do to get exactly what you want in bed and in life. You may be a liberated woman at work, but are you a liberated woman in the sack?


Men are often confused about their role in a sexual encounter, but are reluctant to share their confusion. They often have bought into the idea that they are supposed to know everything about sex. Trust us, they don't. But what fun it is to learn together: reading, exploring, experimenting, communicating and playing.


The Best Kind Of Adult Play - If You Want It

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Sex is truly the maximum in adult play. All That Is gave us the tools for ecstatic sex. It's our job to figure out the best way to use them.


Examine your beliefs, ask yourself where they came from and then proceed to let them go by taking small steps on the edge of your comfort zone. As you look at each anxiety, each apprehension, each no, you will gain greater and greater choice as to who you are, now.


We believe you have complete freedom to take full advantage of your life's purpose: to create, to play and above all, laugh and love. We all take everything a little too seriously, wouldn't you agree?


                Love, Jeffre



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          - The First Affair -


There was a middle-aged couple who had two stunningly beautiful teen-aged daughters. They decided to try one last time for the son they always wanted. After months of trying, the Wife became pregnant and sure enough, nine months later delivered a healthy baby boy.


The joyful father rushed to the nursery to see his new son. He took one look and was horrified to see the ugliest child he had ever seen.


He went to his wife and said that there was no way that he could be the father of that child. "Look at the two beautiful daughters I fathered."


Then he gave her a stern look and asked, "Have you been fooling around on me?"


The wife just smiled sweetly and said, "Not this time."



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