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SUBJECT: Learn To Listen More Closely To Your Body: A Tantric Key To Relationship Growth And Amazingly Hot Sex
******************************************************************************** Tantric Sex Tips from Sacred Sexual Secrets Newsletter 4-6-05 ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras and Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2005 by Tantra At Tahoe P.S. Scroll to the bottom for addresses to click on or to unsubscribe. *********************************************************************************
Dear Tantric Friend:
We're excited to share with you one of the most critical secrets of Supreme Bliss Tantra, "body listening." And wait until your read RAy's story of how he and his wife put this erotic skill to ecstatic use. (We gave him a free ebook to thank him for his sharing.)
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Body listening is a fundamental skill in Supreme Bliss Tantra. It means to let your physical reactions, your emotional sensations, and your body's messages help guide you through the increasingly complex labyrinth of life choices.
Without being in constant touch with your own truth about love, sex, and life, how can you expect to reveal yourself honestly? Without revealing yourself authentically, how can you expect to create, deepen, and perpetuate true intimacy? Without true intimacy, how can you expect to enjoy the magnificent fruits of spiritual sex that Supreme Bliss Tantra offers?
We're continually bombarded with decisions. Someone suggests a movie. You have a new thought about what to focus on at work. Your sweetheart wants to make love to you right this minute on the kitchen table. In each case you have to decide what to do. Using body listening means to notice how each suggestion makes you feel.
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Lovemaking is just one element of a Tantric Relationship, the honoring of the divine in another being and choosing to share experiences, sensations, and pleasure together.
No matter how broadly you look at it -- dating, sex, living together, or a life commitment-- a healthy thriving relationship that serves all parties requires lots of clear and honest communication. Whether you're discussing what to have for dinner, where to live, what to do in bed, where to go on vacation, or how to bring your honey to an incredible peak of pleasure with spiritual sex, you need to exchange information, meaning, and intention.
How do we take in information? We hear words and decipher their meaning. We watch the speaker's body language, the meta-communication. We tune in to tone of voice, which you could call the emotional carrier wave. All of these useful skills help us to understand what your beloved is trying to get across.
These are all good listening devices, but not enough.
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Listening with your body adds another dimension, the dimension of noticing how you're feeling while your receiving. Is this listening with your body or to your body? Both, actually. Whatever words you use, it requires the ability and awareness to listen TO your body, an essential skill in Supreme Bliss Tantra. But since it's your body that's responding to outside input, we call it listening WITH your body.
Because it's an essential element of the Tantric Attitude, listening with your body is a bedrock skill in Supreme Bliss Tantra. The modern world conditions us to live so much in our heads, thinking, worrying, calculating, rehearsing. When a message comes in, we're used to comparing it to our beliefs, calculating how it fits within our value system, and judging its rightness or wrongness.
Now this mind-centered method certainly can help you master a profession, succeed in the business world, and run a household. It just doesn't so well in a Tantric bedroom.
There you need to get out of your head and into your body. You need to open your other senses, tune into your sensations, and feel your feelings. Supreme Bliss Tantra teaches you to accept everything about yourself, love your body, give it all the pleasure you can muster, and share it with those you love. This is the path to generating untold floods of kundalini energy that sweep you into the lofty cosmos of continuous orgasm and fuel spiritual transformation.
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Let's see how this works in some real examples. Your beloved suggests an oral sex practice you have little experience with, like deep throating or being showered with female ejaculation. You might have seen movies about these practices but never tried them. How do you know if this is something you want to explore?
Listen to the idea with your body! Do you get wet or hard when envisioning it? Are you tingling in special places or does your throat gag? Or is your reaction flat, empty, and non-existent. Since Supreme Bliss Tantra is the spiritual path of making yourself feel good, if the prospect of some new loveplay starts to turn you on, go for it! If you're neutral, you may want to put a couple toes in the water to see how it feels. If you experience negative sensations, going forward may not be the best choice.
Of course, instead of saying no, your body may be telling you that you're carrying around some old energy that you don't want. Looking inside at what comes up is why we say Supreme Bliss Tantra is a path of personal growth. So if you choose, do some healing, some self-examination, or some releasing until your kinky new prospect feels better. Then give it a try while staying in touch with your physical reactions. But don't blindly go forward without any attitude adjustment.
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That's the gift of listening with your body. It always gives you true readings on how well your outside thoughts and actions are aligned with your inner being, your inner desires, and your inner truth. One of our modern spiritual teachers, who goes by the old biblical name of Abraham, calls this your Guidance System.
Abraham has taught us that feeling good, our aim in life, results when what we're thinking and doing resonates with what we really want. When our emotions, which of course we become aware of by noticing the sensations in our body, make us feel otherwise, something's not jiving. By adjusting our beliefs or making different choices, we can guide ourselves into feeling more joy, experiencing more pleasure, and having more fun.
Now isn't that a Guidance System you can easily buy into? And ain't it great that it's completely free!
So how can you use body listening and your Guidance System to improve your relationship? When couples are in conflict, you can usually bet that sex is one of the issues. Our sexual lives, because there is so much emotion involved, are intimately related to how we are getting along. And how we are getting along with our partners is directly related to how good our sex lives are.
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So, as you can see, either way, sex and sexual satisfaction is essential in a loving relationship. Jeffre's ebook, "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love," was created to enhance love relationships by using sex as the cauldron, or the crucible in which to look at all aspects of the relationship and make the necessary shifts.
Unlike conventional relationship books, "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love" is a playbook full of exercises and discussions that can help you listen better to yourself and your beloved. The ebook starts with sex and intimacy and proceeds all the way through every major aspect of relationship including communication (the longest chapter), anger, emotional intimacy, passion and rescue. The practices are thoughtful and induce each of you to look at how you are feeling and what you are doing.
Learning to listen to your body's response to thoughts and actions is part of what the ebook, "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love," is all about. The chapter on our most powerful sex organ, our brain/mind, we look in depth at how our thoughts are not only a reflection of our choices, but in fact, help us choose what we want and don't want. Our beliefs (frequently repeated thoughts) steer us automatically in one direction or another.
If you want to thoroughly look at yourself and your relationship while you learn more about how to make your sex life fantastic, then you will love "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love."
Ecstatically yours,
Somraj and Jeffre
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We could help but pass on this actual juicy story about what Supreme Bliss Tantra can offer you:
"When my lover and I first met, we had independently already known about the virtues and importance of orgasmic timing; for if one was about to come, the other would sense it and say so out loud, "I'm ready, or I'm coming!" It was a mutual desire to pleasure each other sufficiently so that we would want to bridge the gap of immediate awareness joined in the rapture of sensual bliss!
"By the time we were finally engaged to marry, we had already accomplished what many are still waiting for after decades of partnership. We got so good at it that when one was lagging, the other would pause and carefully cultivate a sufficient response and then the concert would continue to a most pleasurable mutual climax. Time and space weren't an issue. Loss of sleep wasn't an issue. We often remarked how sleep after sex was sweeter, better quality, more relaxed than going to bed without it.
"Now the meat and potatoes. How was my lover prepared and readied? It was done with my cultivated attention to her "magic button" and surrounding areas. During our early times of dating, it was decided to enjoy a weekend camping out in a very remote wooded area. I had hunted and fished the area often in my youth and knew every inch of the secluded spot.
"The day arrived and we setup camp, then went exploring, our sexual juices already flowing. I didn't know when or where we would attempt to make love, but it was imminent; nature would let us know. I just knew that I wanted to make contact with her magic button once and for all. We had already made love numerous times in her apartment and mine, in the car on the interstate, and so on. But now, within the confines of natural surroundings, wild thoughts raised the bar commensurately!
"The beauty of the forest went without saying, but it was the beaver pond that became the focal point that day. The beaver had built their dam years before, but muskrats had undermined the impoundment preventing the every enlargement of the beaver community. Fine with us, we didn't care, as we had other thoughts in mind...
"We sat down on the soft ground to ponder the beauty of the pond with the hills of sticks marking the domiciles of the beaver. I mentioned to my honey that this was a beaver pond and made a quick reference to how a woman's external genitals are often referred to as her "beaver." She was interested in hearing more and became immediately kindled and wanting sex right there. It was what I had hoped for.
"We began to fondle each other and undressed from the waist down. Within moments, I saw what I was wanting and made it known what I wanted to do. With her permission, I circled her magic button with my fingers and carefully added my mouth and tongue. To my delight and hers, she was pushing her body upward towards me. I pressed on until my tongue found the sweet opening and buried my face in her nectar.
"Suddenly, she shuddered and let out a scream that silenced the forest! Her body convulsed and shook with pleasure. Her hands grasped my head and forced me to continue to dine on her most precious commodity.
"As her orgasms subsided, I was astounded by her reaction to my pleasuring her. In my not-so-innocent experiences, I had never witnessed such a beautiful display of natural wonder as this. I'd found "nirvana", the key to my own inner pleasure, which I had been dreaming about for so long.
"Within a few moments, I was invited to add a second chorus to her previous song, and we both came together on the mossy bank of the beaver pond! The forest was silenced once more.
"That day's power of sexual awakening has fueled our relationship many years. Just writing about it stirs my vajra to leaking in anticipation of when I can suck, taste and feel the sweet promise again.
"Now in midlife, the frequency isn't the same. Life's challenges are numerous and unrelenting. But it is our desire to once again join in the natural concert to enjoy each other's bodies as we rekindle and renew that day beside the pond." -- RAy
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