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Your Tantra Newsletter: The Intimacy Pay-Off Of Learning To Surrender

The Truth About This Much Maligned Spiritual Element Of Good Sex


"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 3/2/05


Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees

  ISSN 1540-8825   (c) Copyright 2004 by Tantra At Tahoe (530) 587-1317


This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom

of Tantra & the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We

teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you

deepen relationship intimacy & reach astounding heights of sexual

ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.

       -- Our Motto:  Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex


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       - Don't Compromise -


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A man is seated at a restaurant. All the waitresses are gorgeous. A

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Featured Article


             - The Intimacy Pay-Off Of Learning To Surrender -

- The Truth About This Much Maligned Spiritual Element Of Good Sex -


One of the things that enables mystical highs from spiritual sex is

surrendering. How much you let go determines how high you fly.


Surrendering is one of those new age terms bandied about profusely

these days. Too bad it's so maligned and misunderstood, especially by

those who don't believe in turning the other cheek. No, surrender

doesn't mean to give in, give up, or give away your power. It doesn't

mean to defer, acquiesce, or knuckle under to another's whim or

preference. And it certainly doesn't mean to let someone stronger win.


More than anything, surrender means to allow things to happen

without your continual interference. It's about learning to go with the

flow and let things unfold naturally without your obsessive

micromanagement. It's about getting out of your own way.


Yet, surrender doesn't mean discarding all of your beliefs, values, and

opinions. The clearer your identity and the more secure you are in who

you are, the more easily you'll be able to surrender. Desiring,

intending, and creating are vital elements in having a joyful life. We're

simply talking about not fighting how your creations play out.


Here's what Chapter 15, Good Sex Is Letting Go, of our ebook

"Hotter Sex, Deeper Love," says

about this: "Good sex is about letting go, surrendering to the moment,

to your partner and to yourself. People who have a hard time letting go

of control, or who are critical of themselves and have low self-esteem,

tend to have more sexual problems. For men, this can mean erection or

ejaculation problems. Women may find it hard to have orgasms,

especially in the presence of their partner. Sex is about surrender. If

we don't feel emotionally 'safe' with our partner, we won't be able to

totally let go."


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How Can You Use Surrender To Get The Licks You Deserve

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Let's take an example to demonstrate how this works. Let's say you

want more oral sex. You surf the web and try to experiment with your

lover. Unfortunately, your partner isn't so willing walk on your wild



  - Do you retreat temporarily, get devious, and spring some well-placed

licks without your honey's agreement?

  - Do you give in and forget all about the sucking scenarios that have

been fueling your fire for so long?

  - Do you get mad, throw a tantrum, and issue ultimatums to get your

sweetie to loosen up or find someone who will?


No, these don't quality as surrendering. On the contrary, surrender

means accepting your lover's resistance but not giving up on what you

want. It's about continuing to enjoy the fantasies in your head, sharing

them when appropriate, and never feeling guilty or ashamed for what

you want. If you're mad because you don't get to enjoy giving or

receiving the kind of mouth action you're craving, you're not

surrendering. Remember, you chose this partner and part of that is

accepting the whole package. If you can't accept your beloved's truth

without blame, then you haven't surrendered to your own decision.


How many unsatisfied lovers never confront their own desires honestly

and end up with a sexless relationship that includes secretive porn

videos, sex shows, or even an outside partner? We'd rather you look at

yourself, accept what you want, and take action openly.


Surrender here means negotiating for what you want, seeing how far

your honey will go now, and living with that. By making the best of the

kind of loveplay you agree on in the present moment, you might well

get what you want step by step. One thing is sure, fighting the current

condition will pretty well guarantee that you'll never get what you want.


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Micromanagers Don't Do Well With Surrendering

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Surrendering is all about believing in yourself and your power. It's

based on knowing you can have what you want and that you deserve it.

In other words, it's about approaching life with a positive Tantric

Attitude. That includes being in the present moment, trusting yourself,

accepting your feelings, and indulging in all the pleasure you can



A major element in surrender is accepting what's happening in the

now. As "Intimacy" explains: "It is important to stay in present time to

be fully sexual. Being in present time means taking the maximum

amount of pleasure and enjoyment out of what you're experiencing in

the moment.


Surrender might look like letting your sweetheart choose how to make

love to you. You might spend the whole evening only receiving, or

spend the whole time giving the lightest of sensual massages. Or if

you're really lucky and really brave, you might get blindfolded, tied up,

and titillated for hours, hovering on the precipice of that glorious

explosion that's just out of reach.


You can't explore and enjoy these kinds of scenarios if you're so

insecure that you have to control everything that happens. If have to

manage every little interaction, you won't enjoy letting another lead. If

you're ruled by fear, surrendering won't be comfortable. If your natural

tendency is to say no, surrendering just won't come easy.


When you resist what's happening outside, you create internal

tension. Pulling away, denying, or fighting what you're feeling is a

surefire way to stop the flow of orgasmic energy that can catapult you

to the higher reaches of ecstasy. Surrendering to spiritual sex requires

that you're fully present, fully open to what your senses report, and

fully welcoming the feelings you experience. 


Playing on the edge of your comfort zone can be a great exercise in

personal growth, confronting your demons and taking a stand for what

you really want. An all-too-common example of how not surrendering

gets in the way is men's performance anxiety over their erections.

Chapter 15 of "Intimacy" tells this story about that:


"Aaron came in for counseling because he was having trouble

maintaining his erection. With each episode of 'failure,' Aaron became

more anxious and more focused on what his penis was doing and not

doing. After learning some relaxation exercises and some new coping

skills, Aaron was able to leave much of the stress and anxiety of his

day outside the bedroom. In addition, Aaron began to more easily

receive sexual attention from Vicki, which was very hard for him to do

in the past. To his surprise, Aaron found a whole new source of

erections and sexual satisfaction by being in a relaxed receiving,

feeling, present-time mode."


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Micromanagers Don't Do Well With Surrendering

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Aaron's story is just the tip of the iceberg of how you can transform

your sex life with the kind of intimacy we teach in Supreme Bliss

Tantra. You can learn to tap into the universal source of well-being

that surrounds and pervades us only if you tune your receiver properly.

If you surrender to your own senses, honor your own feelings, and let

the energy you experience flow through you, you'll feel so much more.


Well, what do you think? Do you want to argue? Do you want to fight

these new age metaphysics? Or wouldn't you rather let go, go with the

flow, and feel the native joy and sexual pleasure you were born with

surging through you?


Our choice is very clear. We lead a Tantric life. Come and join us. The

air is clean, the water's warm, and the sun always shines into every

nook and cranny of our beings


         Wishing you all the ecstasy you deserve,

                     Love, Somraj and Jeffre



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