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Subject: How To Reach The Orgasm Zone, That Altered State Of Sexual & Spiritual Consciousness That Only Tantra Offers
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"S A C R E D S E X U A L S E C R E T S" Newsletter 1/15/03
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Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2002 by Tantra At Tahoe
<http://www.TantraAtTahoe.com> (530) 587-1317
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This is a free ezine distributed twice a month offering practical sex tips derived from modern sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is dedicated to helping you deepen your relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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H A P P Y N E W Y E A R
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Dear Subscriber:
We're deliriously happy. We celebrated a wedding anniversary, partied with our Tantric family, and been skiing our parkas off since the beginning of the month. Oh yes, and we've been having ecstatic sex throughout.
The bad news is that we're having trouble staying on our twice a month newsletter schedule. We'll do our best until spring.
This issue introduces you to the most powerful spiritual sexual experience we've ever had. It's the one that keeps us learning, growing, and coming back for more. We call it the Orgasm Zone, or O-Zone for short. It's like nothing you've ever read in a sex manual.
Our feature article about the O-Zone is made up of excerpts from our upcoming new ebook "Awakening The Sacred Gate Of Supreme Sexual Bliss: The Tantric Method to G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation." Our new ebook, and this article, delves deeply into all the different kinds of climaxes both men and women have, not just the wet ones from the G-Spot.
And just to show you that we practice what we preach, we've thrown in some great quotes, great jokes, and free giveaways. Not to mention one of the most powerful spiritual book we've ever come across.
Read on, it will be worth it.
Love from Tantra At Tahoe who is...
Dhyan Jeffre & Dhyan Somraj
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T A N T R I C Q U O T E
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"Slow down. Remember that this is not a race, and you are not in a hurry. This is also not the Olympics, you have nothing to prove -- you and your new friend are setting out to do things that feel good with your bodies. Touch feels good. Stroking feels good. Taking time feels good. Slow down enough so that you can truly feel what you are doing. Worrying about the future will not help you get there: focus on what you are feeling in the present. Erections and orgasms might come, might go, but you can never go wrong by doing what feels good."
--- Dossie Easton & Catherine A. Liszt in "The Ethical Slut"
(One of our favorite sex positive books, available in our resources section at...<http://www.tantraattahoe.com/resources.htm>.)
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J U I C Y J O K E
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"French Definition Of Happiness"
When Charles de Gaulle decided to retire from public life, the British ambassador and his wife threw a gala dinner party in his honor.
At the dinner table the Ambassador's wife was talking with Madame de Gaulle. "Your husband has been such a prominent public figure, such a presence on the French and international scene for so many years! How quiet retirement will seem in comparison. What are you most looking forward to in these retirement years?"
"A penis," replied Madame de Gaulle.
A huge hush fell over the table. Everyone heard her answer... and no one knew what to say next.
Le Grand Charles leaned over to his wife and said, "Ma cherie, I believe ze English pronounce zat word, 'appiness!'"
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F R I E N D ' S F E E D B A C K
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"I have been doing some of your exercises. I find that I can now have a orgasm ( or many) without ejaculating. I do not need to be highly stimulated at all for this to happen."
----- Maurice from Australia
"Ever since I heard about Tantra, I have been really interested in what it has to offer me. I read everything that is sent to me, and I see so much of my self in your words, but am not sure about how to release the true "me". I desire to experience everything my soul yearns for all I need is some guidance. Thank you for the newsletter. They have truly hit home with me."
----- Christine from Lockport, N.Y.
"My experience with the practice is continuing to progress. I am now able to saturate my awareness with and expand the ecstatic bliss of sexual energy throughout my body without ejaculating."
----- Warren from Washington, D.C.
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F E A T U R E D A R T I C L E
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"How To Reach The Orgasm Zone, That Altered State Of"
"Sexual & Spiritual Consciousness That Tantra Offers"
(This article is taken from the first draft of our upcoming new
ebook "Awakening The Sacred Gate Of Supreme Sexual Bliss:
The Tantric Method to G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation.")
The purpose of Supreme Bliss Tantra and the thrust of this ebook is to offer you more options for sensational ecstasy. If you've read this ebook in order, you've learned some new things and hopefully experimented with intimacy, spiritual connection, foreplay, openness, sexual healing, sensual touch, and erotic massage, clio play (Tantric for clitoris), G-spot excitement, and whole body turn-on.
When we started on this path during the mid-90s, neither of us were multi-orgasmic. Like many other women, Jeffre's orgasms required lots of effort. She was never aware of ejaculating. Like most men, Somraj couldn't separate orgasm from ejaculation. So he usually came pretty quickly.
Realizing how much we were missing gave us strong motivation to learn about pleasure, ecstasy, and orgasm through Tantric practice. Much of what is written here is what we've learned from our juicy journey.
HOW MUCH PLEASURE CAN YOU TAKE?
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Our favorite Tantric motto is "more, More, MORE!!!"
One of the amazing discoveries every Tantric student makes is their ingrained limits to how much pleasure they allow themselves to experience. Somraj always wanted it all, and used to think he could take as much excitement as he and his lovers could muster. It was a sobering moment when he discovered that he had limits too. Through practice, he's expanded his capacity for pleasure to levels he could never have imagined before.
We use the analogy of a collapsed balloon inside your body. Can you imagine one of those little rubber toys that you blow up for kids' birthday parties? Except in this case, the imaginary balloon fills with sexual energy.
At rest, your pleasure balloon resides around your jewels (Tantric for genitals). As you get excited and create more energy, the balloon expands. If it's restricted to the small area of your jewels, it can fill up too rapidly and burst, creating an explosive orgasm. The momentary feeling is great, but you've released and lost your sexual life force, at least temporarily.
LEARN TO PLAY WITH YOUR PLEASURE BALLOON
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The path to the joys of Tantric Sex is to learn to actively play with your pleasure balloon, that imaginary inner bubble that limits and controls your capacity to feel. Instead of letting sexual arousal build quickly and blowup locally, you're going to pump your excitement into your pleasure balloon.
With training and practice, you can learn to fill your pleasure balloon gradually, expanding it to fill your whole body. Stretch it slowly and you can contain more and more energy without the wonderful but brief explosion that literally pops your bubble.
The more you do, the lighter you'll feel and the higher you'll float. The benefit of stretching your balloon to fill your whole body is that you can then feel the powerful vibrations of orgasm everywhere. And the more you practice, the bigger your bubble will stretch. In other words, you've be able to contain and experience more ecstasy. Literally, the sky's the limit.
THE PATH HIGHER AND HIGHER
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The path to higher states of sexual ecstasy and spiritual bliss is through channeling sexual energy throughout your body. You're going to learn to open your inner energy channels and spread your sexual juices without climaxing too soon.
Sure, you're going to use sexual friction. But at the same time you're going to learn to open your subtle energy system anchored by your chakras (the seven energy centers arrayed from head to pelvis near the spine) to these powerful physical life forces. In other words, you'll enliven your body, awaken your heart, calm your mind, free your emotions, and empower your spirit. In this way, you'll open to the divine energies of the earth and sky, and connect more deeply with your beloved.
How many lovers struggle with achieving just a single orgasm? Female lovers too often have to push themselves to have one. Jeffre discovered a vital solution when she wrote "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love." Click here for your copy...<http://www.tantraattahoe.com/int.htm>.
Many men work hard to control themselves and prevent orgasm from happening too soon. Somraj wrote the definitive self-practice guide in "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery." Click here for your copy...<http://www.tantraattahoe.com/uem.htm>.
AS MANY KINDS OF ORGASMS AS STARS IN THE SKY
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We know there is a myriad of kinds of orgasms. And we know different folks experience them in different ways. We want to explore different pathways to higher states of pleasure.
One great benefit of studying sexual climax is for both men and women to more easily experience orgasm and ejaculation, separate the two, and choose which they want to have when.
Yes, just as we know that playing with vajra (Tantric for penis) makes men climax, playing with clio (Tantric for clitoris) can help women climax. And it is good!
Yes, we know there are magic places inside men and women which are orgasmic triggers. We're talking about the mysterious G-spot, of course. And, wow, is that good!
Yes, we find blending G-spot excitement with that of clio, vajra, and other sensitive zones propels all of us to new heights.
And, yes, we regularly climax simply from circulating sexual energy all over our bodies: ecstatic vibrations and peak pleasure for minutes which sometimes extends to hours.
But no, we don't discriminate amongst erogenous zones. Tantric lovers use any and all kinds of sexual play to begin detonating these energy orgasms. Imagine having your most powerful physical triggers creatively loved while you're in the throes of extended peak pleasure.
EVER MET A CLIO ORGASM YOU DIDN'T LIKE?
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Though women can experience orgasm in many ways, clio (Tantric for clitoris) stimulation is typically the fast track to one or more releases. We agree with Kinsey and Masters & Johnson that this is the primary sexual arousal pathway for most women. During self-pleasuring, oral play, and even most intercourse, clio plays the major part.
Some describe clio orgasms as intense while others don't. Many report they can be achieved quicker than through sexual union (intercourse). Though clio orgasms can be intense and spread throughout the body, women often experience them as more superficial than deeper G-spot climaxes.
After a single explosive orgasm, sexual excitement declines steadily to the rest state before arousal. The release of tension is relaxing. After ejaculation, men often fall asleep. Women sometimes are left emotionally unsatisfied just when their craving to connect intimately is most intense.
(to be continued in our next issue)
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Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D., cofounder of Supreme Bliss Tantra, is an author, speaker, workshop leader, and licensed SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-author of "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love."
Somraj Pokras, cofounder of Supreme Bliss Tantra, is the author of countless articles about Tantra, over 50 workshops, and 4 books including Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery. During his 30 year career as a speaker, counselor, personal coach, group facilitator, and workshop trainer, Somraj has guided more that 20,000 people to lead more ecstatic and effective lives.
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I N T E R E S T I N G P U B I C F I N D I N G S
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"Who Does What Most & How Often"
Americans had the most sex in 1999, according to a recent survey of 18,000 men and women between 16 and 25 years of age conducted by SSL International, the British manufacturer of Durex condoms.
The worldwide average was 96 times a year, but Americans claimed to have had sex 132 times a year, followed by the Russians (122), French (121) and Greeks (115). Young Japanese made love the least often (32 times a year), the survey says
Americans also seem to be getting a head start on people from other countries, reporting the earliest average age at which they started having sex. Americans lost their virginity at an average age of 16.4 years, followed by Brazilians at age 16.5 and the French at 16.8, the survey says.
The French had the most sexual partners, claiming an average of 16.7 each. Greeks were second with 15 partners each, followed by Brazilians with 12.5 and Americans with 11.8. Residents of India were the most faithful to their partners, with 82 percent saying they had sex with just one person.
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W I N B Y B Y T A K I N G O U R S E X P O L L
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"Win Our Ebook & Then Win Big In Bed"
Congratulations to Aleks Kalashnik who won our January CONTEST by entering our G-Spot Poll and received a free copy of our new in progress ebook, "Awakening The Sacred Gate Of Supreme Sexual Bliss: The Tantric Method to G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation" when it's done hopefully before spring.
May your and your partners' G-Spots be as happy as ours are. Thanks for contributing.
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F E A T U R E D P R O D U C T S
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"The Power Of Now"
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In one volume, Eckhart has compiled the essence of the Eastern meditative approach to peace, serenity, and the joy of living. Though what he writes and says is startlingly simply, his practical examples and suggestions really hit home.
If you think Tantra means great sex alone, at first glance, this won't seem like a Tantric work to you. But he's distilled the ultimate destination of Tantra - spiritual enlightenment - into a how-to guide. If you like the idea of feeling the power of orgasm while looking at a sunset or a flower, buy this book.
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J U I C Y J O K E
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"Census Twins"
A census taker in a rural area went up to a farmhouse and knocked. When a woman came to the door, he asked her how many children she had and their ages.
She said, "Les' see now, there's the twins, Sally and Billy, they're eighteen. And the twins, Seth & Beth, they're sixteen. And the twins, Penny and Jenny, they're fourteen."
"Hold on!" said the census taker, "Did you get twins every time?"
The woman answered, "Heck no, there were hundreds of times we didn't get nothin'."
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T A N T R I C Q U O T E
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“Spirituality is an ultimate state of bliss which, when it happens, makes a person enlightened like a Buddha. This is possible through orgasm, when the conscious and holistic observation of the sexual act leads to the disappearance of the participants. This orgasmic state persists even during the non sexual relationship. Every act we do becomes a sexual act leading to bliss. If everybody learns to remain sexually and orgasmic in every moment, then all envies, loneliness, boredom and wars would disappear from the world. The conclusion is that sexuality that leads to spirituality can be one of the ways to bring an order of PEACE to the world. Such spirituality will be without any particular obsession of religion.”
----- Dr. Ashok Gajwani, Deira, Dubai
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Supreme Bliss is the zenith of sexual ecstasy which transforms orgasmic energy into expanded consciousness.
Supreme Bliss Tantra is the modern system of personal transformation based on the ancient Eastern spiritual path which uses sexual energy practices to...
• deepen love and intimacy,
• extend lovemaking, and
• create continuous full-body mind-altering Tantric Orgasms.
By opening your senses of the present moment, embracing all of life and all of your being, and focusing on pleasure as a divine gift, Supreme Bliss Tantra...
• heals your mind, body, and spirit,
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an ecstatic journey in total communion with all that is.
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