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"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 7/25/16
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2016 by
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This free ezine (scroll to the end if you want to stop them) offers practical sex tips derived from modern sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training. Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex

The groundbreaking sex researchers Masters and Johnson did a great service to our sex lives with their 1950-60s' studies of people making love in the laboratory. They clearly defined the physical characteristics of orgasm with their four-stage model of the body's responses to physical stimulation:

• Excitement: heartbeat and breathing quicken, skin warms and flushes, nipples become erect, the jewels (genitals) swell and erect, the yoni (vagina) softens and gets wet

• Plateau: sensations and muscular tension intensifies, testicles enlarge and draw up, woman's breasts and uterus enlarge, her PC pulses

• Orgasm: climax of explosive physical release of sexual energy and tension accompanied by intense rhythmic PC contractions that may engulf and envelope the lovers in ecstatic union

• Resolution: heart rate and breathing slow, skin color fades, tension and engorgement relax; contentment, tranquility, intimacy and euphoria may result.

They observed that, after the initial excitement which can last several hours, the arousal of most lovers' levels out or plateaus. That causes them to push for more and more pleasure resulting in an explosive orgasm as soon as possible. In Tantric LoveMaking we extend this Plateau Stage by playing on the verge, building to multiple peaks, and relaxing without going over the top. This allows the orgasm to be more intense, spread to the whole body, and be repeated multiple times. This can be also true of men who learn to separate ejaculation from orgasm.

Tantric LoveMaking follows a similar sequence of five phases that we label...
• LovePlay
• Initial Entry
• The Valley
• Climbing
• Closing.
Except for the Initial Entry phase, we've just changed the names of Masters and Johnson's stages. To make Jewel Union last with soaring passion, our primary focus is to extend their Plateau Stage which we call The Valley.

This isn't an artificial construct. All kinds of lovemaking go through a version of these phases. There's going to be some sort of warm-up during LovePlay. For Jewel Union to happen, a man's vajra (penis) makes an appearance inside the woman’s yoni or either gender’s rosetta (anus) during Initial Entry. Most lovers at some point reach for orgasm during the Climbing Phase, and wrap up one way or another at Closing. That doesn't mean these phases are done well, but they always happen to some degree.

LoveMaking Phases

Tantric LoveMaking begins with the LovePlay Phase which creates arousal, excitement, and erections for both men and women. We've defined Initial Entry as its own distinct phase even though it might only require a couple testing strokes with really turned-on lovers. It needs its own phase to insure that women will get turned on enough to welcome and soar in ecstasy from penetration. The Valley Phase is where arousal levels out. But instead of pushing for the climb to orgasm, we're going to study how to stretch out the valley as long as you want and make its sensations incredible.

You can extend the Valley Phase if you both begin with a personal desire to make your lovemaking long and hot. You'll be in the best shape if you adopt the Tantric Attitude, drop your goals and expectations, and make an agreement with your partner. You need to agree to focus on generating and exchanging as much sexual energy as you can for as long as you can. If one of you is craving the Big O while the other is hoping to prolong your play time, you'll run into a problem. Tantric LoveMaking takes teamwork.

You need to fill, not pop, your Pleasure Balloon so it gets wide enough to fill the whole valley. That means you'll be able to embrace and experience more pleasure than ever before.

We visualize that your ability to absorb and enjoy sexual excitement looks like a Pleasure Balloon inside your body. It's an imaginary bubble that fills up with kundalini energy. At rest, the small balloon resides collapsed around your jewels. As you get excited and it fills with energy, it expands. Actually, what happens when you generate and absorb kundalini is that you're pumping it into your Bio-Field (the bioenergetic field that your body creates).

If your Pleasure Balloon is restricted to the small area of your jewels, it can fill up too rapidly and explode. If you go too fast, you just might pop it with an explosive climax. But if you learn to go slow and fill it gradually, you can stretch the elastic container in small steps, and contain more energy. When it's really full, your bubble expands out beyond your body. Containing so much energy can make your whole body vibrate in the powerful continuous ecstasy that we call Energy Orgasm.

The old maxim "use it or lose it" applies here. Without regular sexual practice, the walls of your Pleasure Balloon shrink and become stiff. Your energy channels that fill the bubble get clogged and closed. Thus, when you're out of lovemaking shape, you can't absorb and enjoy much pleasure. With exercise -- meaning lots of long hot sex -- you can learn to expand the limits of your bubble.

The only way to fill your Pleasure Balloon is to stay in your body, not in your head, and surrender to every little tickle and roar that feels good. Fortunately the essence of the Valley Phase is that everything feels great and you don't want it to end. You just want to keep playing with your toys in the sandbox. You want to see what fantastic sandcastles you can craft. You let your creative side out while you're giving each other with the most awesome feelings ever.

As teenagers, we didn't have a clue about the five phases during our first sexual experiences. Somraj usually came after a few first strokes. Jeffre fumbled around trying to orgasm. Sure we had fun, but we didn't know about using the LovePlay and Initial Entry Phases to reach the Valley Phase.

We call it The Valley because it's a safe warm place we want to stay and play in. Everything feels so good we don't want it to end. Pumping orgasmic energy into our Pleasure Balloons becomes our total focus. We're not going for the max yet, just finding that the high level of pleasure everywhere feels so damn good.

The surrounding mountains protect us and keep guiding us back to center. Somraj describes this as a kind of snowboarder's half-pipe, a rounded channel with high walls. When your little eruptions of pleasure propel you up the sides, you automatically slide you back down for more.

Of course, we're talking about cavorting in the streams of sexual energy from luscious Jewel Union.

How do you get there? Mostly by doing everything you've learned so far. Relax into the sensations, focus on being in your body not in your head, surrender to the intense electromagnetism that's making you squirm, squeal, shudder, and shout. There does seem to be some sort of transition process from Initial Entry to the Valley Phase. It happens after the yoni or the rosetta opens to your First Strokes.

The initial thrusts feel so good, like electrical jolts or little sonic booms. If you tense up and try to control these isolated eruptions, you can create blocking tension or get swept away and lose your center. If you want lots more, you pause and let the energy spread throughout your body. You breathe and feel, you relax and moan. Sometimes we'll just continue a medium-steady rhythm for multiple strokes. The stimulation builds gradually waiting for our tissues to get fully engorged and our energy channels to open and flow freely.

When the shaking subsides a bit, you test out some different kinds of strokes. Maybe a little deeper, a little longer, a little faster. All the while you're gauging your playmate's reaction and the effect it has on you. You haven't yet found a pattern that keeps filling you with scrumptious energy. So you try this and try that, trying to settle into a pleasure groove that works for both of you.

Love, Somraj & Jeffre


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