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How Tantra Makes Your Life Better

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 7/11/03
Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2003 by Tantra At Tahoe
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This is free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
--- Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "Flesh & Bone"
* Juicy Joke: "Glad I Came"
* Featured Product: "Reach New Heights With The Crystal Wand"
* Friend's Feedback: "Stretched To 20 Minutes"
* Featured Article: "How Does Tantra Make Your Sex Life Better"
* Featured Service: "New Learn Tantra Program For $200 OFF!"
* Interesting Findings: "Sodomy Now Legal"
* Juicy Joke: "Five Penises"
* Tantric Quote: "See With The Heart"
* Friend's Feedback: "Make Love More Often"
* FREE Stuff : "You Could Be Our Next Winner Like Ruben!"

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Tantric Quote

-- Flesh & Bone --

“We're flesh and bone, together and alone, and we're looking for
a home.” ----- from Underwater by DELERIUM

Juicy Joke

-- Glad I Came --

"A woman and a baby were in the doctor's examining room,
waiting for the doctor to come in. The doctor arrived, examined
the baby, checked his weight, found it somewhat below normal,
and asked if the baby was breast fed or bottle fed.

"Breast fed," she replied.

"Well, strip down to your waist," the doctor ordered.

She did. He pressed, kneaded, rolled, cupped, and pinched both
breasts for a while in a detailed, rigorously thorough
examination. Motioning to her to get dressed, he said, "No
wonder this baby is underweight. You don't have any milk."

"I know," she said, "I'm his Grandma, but I'm glad I came.

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"I am pleased to tell you, although I have only had your book just
over a week, an instant change in myself. The changes have been
just the way I think and feel about it now, a lot more positive,
and due to that, during the self pleasuring exercises I have
stretched it out to nearly 20 minutes, each time without fail an
unbelievable experience when I cum. It helps when you say it's
not a bad thing. I think understanding that point was the turning
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Featured Article

"Sex & Spirit, Spirit & Sex"
"How Does Tantra Make Your Sex Life Better?"

Visitors come to Tantra At Tahoe for two primary reasons...
* To learn Supreme Bliss Tantra and
* To create a Better Sex Life.
Both are great pursuits that improve every one of your days and
every one of your nights. In this article we'll explain how either
path can transform your life in glorious ways. To be sure you
know how to get what you want, we'll show you the advantages of
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In contrast to the viewpoint of most organized religions and the
modern technological world, Tantra doesn't divide sex and
spirit. As you read on, you'll understand better why our two
programs arrive at the same point of an integrated, blissful
material and spiritual life with mind-altering orgasms and an
expanding sense of inner peace.

Tantra, the ancient Eastern spiritual path, is often referred to as
sacred sexuality because it uses sexual energy to fuel the
transformation of your consciousness. Instead of imposing beliefs
of right and wrong stored in your mind, Tantric practice is a way
for you to discover what's your own truth, what makes you feel
better, and what works for your life, love, relationships, and
community. Tantra teaches you to welcome all the forces of life
and celebrate them as divine gifts.

Tantra believes you are basically good, and your birthright is
perpetual ecstasy. You just need to learn how to navigate the
world to get your mind, body, emotions, and spirit in alignment
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We want to share with you five major ways that Tantra has
transformed our lives into more than we've ever dreamed
* Seek Pleasure
* Self-Acceptance
* Know Who You Are
* Say Yes, Not No
* Better Relationship.
This is far from a complete list, but a good beginning to
understand why more and more people are guiding their lives
with Tantric principles proven thousands of years ago.

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First of all, let's understand the role of pleasure in a Tantric life.

Why do you do anything, anything at all? To hurt yourself and
others? Come on, when you really look at the choices you've
made, it's because at some level you believe they'll make you feel
better. Sure, you might be making your choices based on what
think you're "supposed to do." But in the long run, don't you do
what you've been taught because then others will approve of you,
which will make you feel good? Or because if you don't you'll end
up feeling bad?

Instead of being motivated to avoid discomfort, embarrassment,
or pain in life, Tantra guides us to directly and actively seek
what makes us feel good. Cut out the middle man and go right
for the gusto.

Which is why one of Tantra's basic principles is...

"Nothing is more important than that you feel good right now."

To do this you need to learn to heighten your experience of the
moment, get in touch with your feelings, and judge what brings
you pleasure. Then, according to the Tantric sages, your life will
expand and evolve just the way you want it to.

Since many of us are programmed with a strong injunction
against selfishness, this first Tantric guideline is hard for many
to swallow. We're raised believing that thinking only of ourselves
is a big sin. So we don't think of our own mental health and
physical well-being enough. As a result, we feel guilty when we
look after ourselves or we do things that don't bring us joy.
Which makes us stressed, moody, grumpy, and resentful.

Tantra doesn't encourage us to exclude other's feelings, needs,
and happiness. It just teaches us that in order to help others,
give emotional support, and be there for them that we've got to
look after our own selves first.

In other words, wouldn't it be better to be happy so you're more
able to cheer up everyone around you? Would you rather have a
depressed lover who clings to you or an independent one who
bubbles over with their zest for life and drags you forward
instead of backwards? That's the spirit of Tantra at work in the
everyday world.

We've got lots more to say about how seeking pleasure is a good
thing for all of us when we talk about Tantric relationships soon.
Before we move on, though, let us just point out that seeking
pleasure yourself first is essential to healthy relationships,
families, communities, and the entire world itself.

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You won't be able to feel good for very long if you don't like
yourself. If you don't think you're good enough or deserve to
enjoy pleasure, the previous guideline won't do you much good,
will it?

So transforming your life with Tantra includes the primary step
of learning to love yourself. OK, we understand you don't look
enough like the starving models on glamour magazines or the
hunks in action flicks. We're sure that as proud as they are, all of
our parents would have liked us to turn out differently. Yes, we
know, your own behavior doesn't measure up to your goals and
standards for yourself.

First of all, driving yourself to compete with advertising images
is senseless. Care about your looks and your health, of course, but
accept what God gave you and make the best of it. Somraj
laments those early years when he made himself crazy trying to
have straight hair. When he finally accepted his natural curls, not
only was he happier, he became more popular. Then, people
even used to ask him where he got his perm. Good training for
the thinning that's currently advancing his hairline.

The modern world teaches us to set standards, create goals, and
strive to meet them. In other words, to perform. While that may
work in business, it creates in you a continuous state of tension.

At some age, you'll realize as much as you love your parents, that
you have to make your own choices and lead your own life. That's
when the real growth from Tantra begins: realizing that whether
you satisfy some manufactured set of values or achieve your latest
challenging goals or not, you made them up anyway.

Tantra is spiritual because it helps us realize that success isn't
determined by external measures or whether you win the races
you enter. The true measure of our success in life is how we feel.
And not when all is said and done. It's how we feel enroute.

If you believe in God or any other supreme power, then you must
accept that your life, your spirit, your body are divine gifts. As is
the free will to choose how to lead your life. Tantra teaches us
that life is about making choices to create joy for ourselves first
and then others. This has nothing to do satisfying a vengeful
creator who's set up a game that ends in heaven or hell. Tantra
believes you can create heaven on earth by knowing yourself and
seeking pleasure now.

So drop those outside values that don't work for you. Let go of
society's artificial standards. Release the false judgments and
criticisms you've accepted of how you lead your life. Accept all
aspects of yourself whether they match what others think or not.

Sure, if down deep you want to change some part of yourself, go
right ahead with Tantra's help. Just do it for the right reason,
because on the way and in the end you'll feel better about

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Are you interested in learning about Tantra quickly and

We have lots more to say about life, love, sex, and Tantra in our
next issue. But you don't have to wait for the rest of story to start
having the most fun you could ever imagine.

Our new Learn Tantra Program is designed to launch singles and
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save $200 following this article.

At least we've had room to introduce you to the first two of the
five ways Tantra can transform your life overall: seeking pleasure,
and accepting yourself. In our next issue, we'll continue with
knowing who you are, saying yes instead of no, and how to use
Tantra to better your relationship.

All this trouble just to answer the vital question: What does
Tantra have to do with making your sex life better? After
amazingly expanding our peace, harmony, and orgasmic power,
we're convinced it's more than worth it. Look for part 2 in a
couple weeks.

Wishing you love and lots of long ecstatic lovemaking,

Dhyan Jeffre & Somraj

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Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D., cofounder of Supreme Bliss
Tantra, is an author, speaker, workshop leader, and licensed
SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical
experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-
author of "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love."

Dhyan Somraj Pokras, cofounder of Supreme Bliss Tantra, is the
author of countless articles about Tantra, over 50 workshops,
and 4 books including "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery." During his
30 year career as a masseur, speaker, counselor, personal coach,
group facilitator, and workshop trainer, Somraj has guided more
that 20,000 people to lead more ecstatic and effective lives.

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-- Five Penises --

A man walks into doctor's office. "What seems to be the
problem?" asks the doc.

"It's... um...well... I have five penises" replies the man.

"Blimey!" says the doctor, "How do your trousers fit?"

"Like a glove."

Tantric Quote

-- See With The Heart --

“It is only with the heart that one can see rightly. What is
essential is invisible to the eye.” --- Antoine De Saint-Exupery

Friend's Feedback

-- Make Love More Often --

"Much much thanks for your new manual 'Awakening The Sacred
Gate to Supreme Bliss: Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female
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life. My only criticism is that it has too much information in it! I
think we will just have to make love more often to try out all the
exercises. ----- M. T. from Byron Bay Australia

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