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Your Tantra Newsletter: Do You Relate More To Upper Or Lower Chakras?
A Prescription For All-Chakra Love, Sex, And Relationship

A dear friend is gradually separating from his longtime live-in lover. He explained that she lives more in her upper chakras while he is more rooted in the lower ones. Now we find that he is very caring and highly heart-centered, while some might describe her as always having her head in the clouds. But really they’re both wonderful people in their own way whichever chakras they’re operating from. There’s no need to judge who’s better or worse since we love them both. Obviously, like all of us, they’re different people.

This got me thinking about how we use the chakras in Supreme Bliss Tantra to experience deeper love and stronger passion. But first let me review the Tantric chakra system which is way similar to how they're viewed in many ancient and indigenous practices.


"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 12/31/12
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2012 by
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This free ezine (scroll to the end if you want to stop them) offers practical sex tips derived from modern sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training. Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex

The seven chakras are energy centers arrayed along the spine from the base of the pelvis to the top of the head. They’re located at the perineum (base of the pelvis), stomach, solar plexus, heart, throat, third eye (forehead), and crown of the head. If you could see them -- and some highly energy-sensitive people can -- they would look like a cone of energy extending in front and behind the body at each level.

Using the terms "lower" and "higher" misrepresent the Tantric view that all energies - whether closer to the earth or closer to the sky - are divine. Of course the energies of sex and heart and spirit feel different. An orgasm triggered by your jewels (genitals) isn't less ecstatic than one stimulated by falling in love by communing with God.

I remember my formative relationships before I knew much about sex. I was striving so strongly to be loved that I learned how to be a good listener. When a woman would confide her deepest secrets in me, we would both share an emotional high from being understood and accepted. Now I recognize this was the result of sharing heart and voice/throat chakra energies.

You can get high from experiencing deep love at any of the seven levels. The old adage “different strokes for different folks” applies here. But our aim in Supreme Bliss Tantra is an All-Ckakra connection. When you can fully exchange energy at all seven chakras, both beloveds are connecting body, mind, and spirit for a truly spiritual experience. As much as we love and promote all kinds of sex, All-Chakra ecstasy makes a little jewel friction seem slightly dull.

Speaking of old adages, there’s the one about the difference between men and women that sometimes works today. It says that women want a heart-connection before trusting and opening to sex while men are just the opposite. If both partners arrive at a heart plus jewel connection, who’s to say which route is best? Fortunately, Tantric lovers aren’t in any big hurry to arrive at a love or sex goal so they’re willing to go slow and meet their partner at different points as they’re unique chemistry dictates.

Any given person may prefer connecting with any given chakra at any given time, and that’s great if they’re both willing to go with the flow. Maybe that’s why relationships are so often challenging and satisfying, trying to figure this all out and connect with your beloved at his/her desired level without giving yourself away.

So how can you reach All-Chakra Tantric Sex? All too often we’re unconsciously seeking some kind of unrealized relationship or sex or love that lives within us. Start by dropping your expectations of who the other person is or what’s going to happen. Many of us have an unexamined standard of what’s desirable or who’s beautiful or who we want to spend the rest of our lives with. Look inside and find your Hidden Standards and lot them go. Accept your lover totally how they show up in each moment, not expecting them to act a certain way.

Then you can go slow, find where your energy harmonizes, and meet your partner where they’re at in the moment. Now I realize we all have strong drives to make love and feel love. The All-Chakra approach can be a problem if one or both of you have a strong need that conflicts with your partner’s. She wants to talk while he wants to get it on. She wants to get off while he’s so tired he can’t keep it up long enough. But these are only temporary timing problems if you both have the intention of eventually connecting fully at all levels.

One of our favorite modern spiritual teachers who goes by the biblical name Abraham gives some helpful advice. If your lover has ten qualities and you don’t match on nine of them, you can still create a wonderful relationship by focusing on the one that works for both of you. By concentrating on energy exchange where it uplifts and turns you both on, then you can gradually extend your respect and compassion and understanding to another, and then another.

Or you could say it lots more simply, focus on the positive and have fun.

You know, we all take this stuff too seriously. Lighten up and find what we feels good and put your energy there. That’s why we’re so sex-positive in Supreme Bliss Tantra. It’s something that feels good to both of you. Of course, our basic 6-step ritual for mind-blowing ecstatic spiritual sex does include connection at many chakras before making love.

For the complete program to practice and create your own style of All-Chakra lovemaking, check out our ebook Supreme Bliss Tantra Guide To The Ecstasy Of Spiritual Sex at

Reading and doing the exercises together makes a tremendous New Year’s resolution and gift.

Whatever you do, we wish you a prosperous, fun-filled, loving, and orgasmic New Year.

Love, Somraj and Jeffre


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