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"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 12/21/05


Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras and Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees

  ISSN 1540-8825   (c) Copyright 2005 by


This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.       Our Motto:  Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex


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Dear Tantra Friend:


This is our last chance to wish you a Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukah, and Ecstatic Winter Solstice. Actually, we're in Guatemala celebrating the first of seven Mayan rituals in preparation for the end of their calendar. We don't believe the world will end in 2012 like some do. But we still make love oh so frequently to squeeze every last drop of pleasure out of life, just in case.

Or just because it feels good. We're so Tantric!

We hope you're enjoying the holidays with lots of fun, lots of togetherness, lots of joy, and lots of orgasms. Which is why our featured article this week completes our odyssey into how you can learn to extend your sexual stamina and make love for hours.

If you still need presents for your favorite squeeze, or yourself, don't miss our Tantric Holiday Gifts page with many more ideas here: That page also offers an easy way to give your loved ones gift certificates to our incredibly well-stocked Adult Store. Yes, we believe whatever you share sexual pleasure, it's all good.



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* Friend's Feedback: "5 Orgasms Without Ejaculating"

* Featured Article: "8 Lessons To Overcome Premature Ejaculation - 2"

* Tantric Quote: "The Essence Of Man And Woman"

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Don't you want to be the kind of lover women crave to have sex with?

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"I've started reading your book 'Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery' some weeks ago and have been practicing since then. While pleasuring myself (and after delaying the orgasm and ejaculation for a while) I decided to let myself go over the point of no return and then I realized that I didn't ejaculate! At that time it felt great as I had found that it really was possible to avoid ejaculation. Since that day, I kept exercising on a daily basis and some days I tried to avoid ejaculation and have actually managed to get 4 or 5 orgasms with no ejaculation each time and have chosen not to ejaculate at the very end of the session as I already felt satisfied. Thanks so much." -- G.C from Amarante, Portugal



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  - The Ultimate Ecstatic Solution To Unlimited Sexual Stamina -

         - By Learning To Separate Orgasm From Ejaculation -

In our last issue which introduced our new "Solo Premature Ejaculation Mastery Ecourse," we delved into some of the common causes of premature ejaculation, namely tension, excitability, and conditioning to go too fast. Here I want to address what you can do about the causes so you'll understand the Supreme Bliss Tantra approach to making love for as long as you want.

Or more to the point of how I define premature ejaculation, for as long as your partner wants.

We call this the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution because it's not about being less sensitive and avoiding getting turned on. Instead it's about feeling more and filling your body with the most delicious pleasure for hours.

If it sounds like I'm describing a woman's experience of sexual ecstasy, good. Because I am. But it's something the best male lovers know how to do, too. I'm talking about how a guy can learn to love sex the way a passionate woman does.

In my experience, and I'm happy to report this isn't limited, most women prefer a sensitive, passionate, sweet guy. You know, one who's tuned into what's going on inside of her. This is one of the ancient Tantric secrets to finding and consummating the love of your life. Someday we'll write a book about Supreme Bliss Tantric relationships.

So you're probably thinking, does Somraj want me to talk in a high squeaky voice and wear a skirt? No, dude, but I do want you to learn a new kind of chemical reaction in your body, the amalgamation of male and female energies.


Tantric Quote: "The Essence Of Man And Woman"

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“The man holds the essence of woman in him, and the woman holds the essence of man in her.  What is outside male is inside female.  What is outside female is inside male.” -- MARGOT ANAND in "The Art of Sexual Ecstasy"


To learn to merger male and female energies, I need to explain about the last cause of premature ejaculation as promised in our previous issue. That cause is making orgasm the goal of your lovemaking. Having sex with the goal of orgasm means that whatever you do beforehand is designed to get her turned on enough so that you can make her wild and crazy and go over the top.

Now, of course, this is a good thing when it happens of its own accord. I wouldn't want to try to convince you otherwise, because I'd probably fail, right? But when orgasm is your total focus, your prime agenda, your M. O. (modus operandi), it can distort your experience.

And more to the point, it can make you squirt sooner than you'd like.

As I explained last week, your most powerful sex organ is in your big head, not attached to your little head. Your mind regulates your turn-on and your pleasure. Your brain triggers the hormones which trigger the chemicals that drive the sexual responses in your body. So if your mind is focused on the wrong things, or out of control, the wrongs may happen at the wrong time in the wrong place.

Like making a big wet spot right after vajra (penis) finds his way inside.

The mind's influence over the body, especially when it comes to the subtle energies of sex, could be described in the simple rule: energy flows where attention goes. Think about not cuming, think about holding off, think about your cock being too sensitive, and you will blow. This even operates when you're thinking about, hoping, wishing that you can make your honey have a big one real soon. It just may make you overly excited before she's ready.

To be blunt, if you think about not cuming you've got your mind focused on very thing you want to avoid.


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That's why the goal of Tantric Sex is not orgasm, it's pleasure. Because we play with sexual energy more intensely and for longer periods, our eventual climaxes are mind-boggling and earth-shattering. But not because we're doing the guy thing of pushing for them. Instead, we do the gal thing of letting them come to us.

Or cum to us, if you prefer.

If you put all your attention on how you're feeling all over your body, you spread the excitement around. And you feel good all over. How do you think women learn to enjoy full-body orgasms? How do you think they learn to be multiply orgasmic? And while we're on the subject, how do you think men learn how to have multiple full-body orgasms, too?

Right, by learning the core Supreme Bliss Tantra skill of spreading sexual energy away from vajra and all around your body.

This speaks right to the heart of the shift that a guy with a very sensitive vajra needs to make. He needs to learn to relax into pleasure, to take smaller steps and enjoy them more, to savor every last drop of sensation. He needs to slow down and let her pleasure mount at its own rate without trying to make her cum.

He needs to drop the myth that he knows what he's doing when he's making love to her.

OK, that last was a bit of a strong statement and maybe it's not entirely true. But the point is an important one for a guy who too often cums sooner than he wants. He needs to move with the natural ebb and flow of his own and his partner's internal combustion engines without revving past red line.

Or to say sum it up simply, slow down and enjoy. This is inherently how most women experience life. It's how the hotties we've all known and loved experience sex. And it's how you can please them and yourself for longer. Which is why I talk about finding a balance between yin and yang, the masculine and the feminine approach to lovemaking.


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My favorite example of what all lovers need to learn, especially those who carry a super sensitive magic wand between their legs, I call the Pleasure Balloon. Imagine that there's a flexible rubber bag inside your crotch. When you're not turned on, your Pleasure Balloon is small and collapsed. The more excited you get, the more energy gets pumped into your bubble, making it expand.

Premature ejaculation simply means you pumped up your Pleasure Balloon too fast and it popped. Tantric Sex fills your Pleasure Balloon slowly enough that you don't blow a seam. When you learn the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution, you regulate your ascent by concentrating on feeling each little morsel of sensation to the max.

When your Pleasure Balloon has sufficient time to expand wide, it fills your entire body and you feel that delicious energy everywhere. With enough charge in your Pleasure Balloon, it feels like every cell in your body is cuming.

That's how you experience orgasm without ejaculation.

Plus, this is one of the principal roads to learning male multiple orgasm. Yes, a whole spectrum of orgasms will be available to you when you learn how to fill your bubble and float away with the delightful feelings that creates.

We call the ultimate the O-Zone where O stands for orgasm, of course. If you can relate to Michael Jordan or Joe Montana or any other sports hero being in the zone, then you know what I'm talking about. For more info about the four different kinds of male orgasms and the O-Zone, check out our June 29, 2005 article in our free archives here:


Tantric Quote: "Orgasm And Ejaculation Are Not The Same"

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"The ancient Taoist physicians, taught that male orgasm and ejaculation were not one and the same thing." -- JOLAN CHANG in "The Tao Of Love & Sex"


There's another vital factor in overcoming premature ejaculation which relates to the above analogy. It's the muscles in your pelvis, the ones that control squirting and regulate your feelings of pleasure when pumping. We call them your Tantric Sex Muscles because they're so vital in learning this different approach to amassing all the pleasure you can muster.

When you exercise your Tantric Sex Muscles, you strengthen the walls of your Pleasure Balloon. Then you can squeeze harder and enjoy sex more. Plus, a stronger balloon means it's much harder to pop by getting too turned on too quickly. In other words, well-toned Tantric Sex Muscles help you reach high peaks of pleasure without cuming inadvertently too soon.

Both my "Solo Premature Ejaculation Mastery Ecourse" and "Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery Ebook" introduce you to the basics of building strong Tantric Sex Muscles. But the best and fastest way to get there is by going through the six lessons in our "Tantric Sex Muscle Ecourse.


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There's one more major difference between Tantric Sex and the way untrained lovers do it. I've alluded to it already, the whole idea of a macho man "doing" his babe. Sure, knowing about her body and how to tweak her just right comes in handy during lovemaking. But because Tantric Sex is first and foremost about interweaving, swirling back and forth, and dancing with each other's subtle energies, you can't do this on your own.

Tantric Sex is decidedly a partnership, a co-creation, a joint work of art. Both artists need to be creative and skilled to brew up an alchemical potion that will transport them to other dimensions. In different terms, you need to communicate, coordinate, and coordinate your loveplay.

So now you understand why our Couples Premature Ejaculation Mastery Ecourse addresses much more than technique, things like asking for what you want, synchronization, and performance anxiety. Hopefully, by the time you're ready for it, I'll be done writing it.

Regardless, you need to start at the beginning and make yourself ready, whether you've got a partner or not. My solo ecourse is the ideal way to get prepared to make love for hours. Click here for more details and to start right away:

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Here's wishing that you make love all night long waiting for Santa to cum down the chimney. Or if you celebrate Hanukah which conveniently starts on Christmas this year, here's wishing you make love for all eight days of candle lighting.

                  Love, Somraj

                             Your Supreme Bliss Tantra Sex Stamina Mentor


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