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Open Your Fifth Chakra For Deeper Intimacy And More Soulful Sex

Conscious communication is an essential bedrock of Supreme Bliss Tantra. You've got to tell it like it is to release what you don't want and go after what you do. That certainly applies in the bedroom with Spiritual Sex, but even more so in your relationships.

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 11/23/13
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2013 by
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Friends are honest with each other. We can even be more forthcoming with those we've known for a long time and with whom we've shared experiences good and bad. Whether we always want it or not, family members know too many of our dirty little secrets (and maybe some big ones, too). Regardless, the transparency is a bond that connects us.

Though owning up may initially be a challenge, knowing the authentic truth about each other makes us closer. Having lived through the same joys and traumas creates a lasting togetherness that some commercials label as priceless.

We know each other's stories because we were there or we've heard them more than once.

With lovers, authenticity is even more critical to create the kind of intimacy that sharing sexual and spiritual energy requires. Listening to your beloved's words and feelings is essential, seeking to understand the real being inside. If you don't reveal what you're feeling, your partner can't respond and get in sync with you. And once you're connected energetically, you can't hide. You might as well be completely open since they'll know if you're not.

So we're all for telling our stories in Supreme Bliss Tantra. But how does this actually happen?

The Tantric version is governed by the fifth chakra, centered in the base of the throat. The chakras are distinct energy centers, vortices actually, that spin in front of and behind the body in seven different positions from the base of the pelvis to the top of the head. In both Tantric and shamanic healing practices, we work to cleanse and energize the chakras to help empower people who want more in life, both in and out of bed.

The fifth chakra influences your voice, your truthfulness, and how you communicate and express yourself creatively. It controls your wisdom, judgement, and beliefs. Since it's the link between the head and the heart, the fifth chakra serves as the linkage between what you think and feel.

When it's spinning healthily, you'll exercise good judgment and believe in yourself. You'll find it easier to get centered, connect with higher guidance, and resonate with truth. You'll speak honestly and clearly in a way that makes people listen. Others will trust you due to your evident loyalty, tact, and calmness.

When the fifth chakra is out (not spinning, spinning backwards, or energetically clogged), a person will have trouble communicating openly and honestly about their authenticity and their emotions. They may feel threatened telling what they know and what they feel. They may not be able to connect with the truth inside which results in them having little of substance to say. More of what they talk about comes from fixed beliefs and stuck values. And so they play old empty stories over and over.

When we're working with lovers to free their sexual energy channels, we refer to this type of person's energetic situation as being limited by unwanted programming. It's as if the software in their mind was designed for a different culture that's long dead.

So we're all for keeping your fifth chakra healthy and sharing our stories as deeply as we' can. Getting to know each other better is good for trust and friendship and intimacy. Sometimes reliving stressful or traumatic experiences is therapeutic, releasing energy that's stuck in the memory. But I bet you've heard a bunch of the stories, good and bad, from others close to you too many times. Now is that really authenticity and transparency?

This raises the key question: Is telling your story really communicating openly and honestly?

If you're familiar with the music of Tracy Chapman, you might have heard her sing about this in her track from her named "Telling Stories" ...

You write the words to get respect and compassion
And for posterity
You write the words and make believe
There is truth in the space between

You write the words of your stories to get something, she says. Many of us have found that you have to be careful believing everything you've learned in history. The victors always write the story that best serves their posterity, sometimes far from what actually happened. You also have to be careful believing everything you think about yourself and the past. That's what Tracy's telling us here.

You write the words and make believe they're true after many retellings. Pretty soon you might begin to believe that your rehearsed rendition is actually true. All too often, your pre-recorded story is far from the truth. Look in the space between for that, she says.

Somebody asks you about a subject close to your heart or intertwined with your identity or about a sensitive issue. You access the recordings stored in your fifth chakra and play one that seems relevant. Often the story is drained of emotion and personal responsibility even though it's designed to appear frank and candid. Or it may be a pat apology tied to a fixed belief about a personal shortcoming that elicits sympathy. This may well be the fiction that you tell yourself when it comes up inside so you don't have to re-experience the pain again and again.

These are just a few examples of the myriad ways we write and relate our stories for effect, rather than to communicate for real.

When you ask a new lover about a recent call with their ex, what do you get? An evasive headline followed by a superficial blurb that you've heard before? Or the true conflicting thoughts and emotions that were churned up? The first keeps you at a distance outside your lover's personal space. The second creates energy accessibility and spiritual intimacy. But that doesn't mean it's easy or comfortable, especially at first.

To aim for the sexual and spiritual ecstasy of Supreme Bliss, it's paramount to get past your fixed stories and be aware of your personal truth in every moment. What are you feeling? What sensations are percolating in your body? What is your energy doing? How open are your chakras and your inner flute, the channel that connects them? And what spirit is flowing through you?

All of this, of course, is a lifelong work in progress. But you can't be very conscious of it or get close to sharing authentically if you're just playing pre-recorded tapes.

Some might believe that it's better to hear to an old story than nothing at all. But after decades of this kind of personal transformation work, we hold to a higher standard. We want every answer to be from the heart and guided by spirit. So how do you evolve from telling dead stories to revealing the real truth of the moment? That's the question we'll answer in our next newsletter.

Love, Somraj & Jeffre

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