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Some Final Out-There Ways To Look At How Sex Positive You Really Are

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 11/6/08
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2008 by
This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
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Dear Reader:

In this article we finish our series of articles about our outmoded attitudes and beliefs about sexual practices. If you missed the earlier parts, go to our extensive newsletter archives here… and begin with the series of four articles that start on August 19.

We hope this in-depth survey of how repressed we are about the spiritual and healthy aspects of sex has helped liberate parts of yourself that don't serve you. We'd love to hear about that on our new blog here or maybe you'd just like to post different opinions. Everything is welcome.

This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "When The Sun Arises"
* Juicy Joke: "When Truth Finally Dawns"
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* Featured Article: "Do Porn Stars Enjoy Sex? Can You With An Average Body?"
* Tantric Quote: "Does Sex Cure Depression?"
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* Juicy Joke: "What is Politics?"
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Tantric Quote: "When The Sun Arises"

"When the sun comes up, I have morals again." -- Elizabeth Taylor

Juicy Joke: "When Truth Finally Dawns"

"How'd it happen?" the doctor asked the
middle-aged farmhand as he set the man's
broken leg.

"Well, doc, 25 years ago ..."

"Never mind the past. Tell me how you broke
your leg this morning."

"Like I was saying...25 years ago, when I first
started working on the farm, that night, right
after I'd gone to bed, the farmer's beautiful
daughter came into my room. She asked me
if there was anything I wanted.  I said, "No,
everything is fine."

"Are you sure?" she asked.

"I'm sure," I said.

"Isn't there anything I can do for you?" she
wanted to know.

"I reckon not," I replied.

"Excuse me," said the doctor, "What does this
story have to do with your leg?"

"Well, this morning," the farmhand explained,
"When it dawned on me what she meant, I
fell off the roof!"

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Featured Article: "Do Porn Stars Enjoy Sex? Can You With An Average Body?"

Some Final Out-There Ways To Look At How Sex Positive You Really Are

In our previous issue, the fifth episode of how to be sex-positive in our sex-negative society, we directly confronted teachers doing it with students and all of us letting our family jewels hang out in public. Here, in the final episode of this six-article journey outside the box, we're going to check out how you feel about your instrument of sexual pleasure, your body, and ways to strengthen your sexual abilities.

How Do You Feel About Your Body?
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Certainly comfort with nudity makes it easier to settle on the left side of the sex-positive spectrum. If you’re not OK with revealing your body, you’ll have some fears and anxieties about cavorting openly and freely with a lover with the lights on. On the whole, sex-positive people feel good about their bodies whatever the size and shape. They don’t necessarily buy into the Madison Avenue driven image of a slender look with perky breasts and flat stomach.

Is the shape of your body what makes you sexy? Can you only get turned on, wet, and hard with a certain shape tummy? I bet you can guess our answer in Supreme Bliss Tantra. No way! Anyway, body standards change from time to time. During one era, big boobs are in. Turn your head and suddenly small ones are hip. Remember the Italian Renaissance artist Botticelli known for his nudes? Back then big and round and soft female bodies had top billing.

If you watch women walking down the street or at the mall, you can learn a lot about body comfort. Why is it that so many hotties dress to kill, showing lots of skin, and then seem insulted if you admire them too closely? I’d agree that a toothy shit-eating-grin demonstrates a low sexual consciousness. But what about a respectful “Wow, are you gorgeous!”

Frequently I see large women who don’t fit the svelte media standard who are obviously sexy and proud to demonstrate it. They stand out in a crowd of people ashamed of their bodies if you notice that they’re wearing attractive, tight but well-fitting clothes that show off lots of their large-proportioned assets and walk confidently. I don’t think it’s too kinky to enjoy sex whatever your size, shape, color, age, or sexual preferences. Do you? Big people can have big pleasure and wild orgasms just like anyone smaller -- if they accept their sexual nature and expand it to it’s Goddess-given limits.

Do You Dream Of Doing It Like A Porn-Star?
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That reminds me of one of our favorite porn flicks of all time, “Behind The Green Door” starring Marilyn Chambers, the rather flat-chested total bombshell famous for her other movie, “Deep Throat.” In “Behind The Green Door,” Marilyn is the main attraction at a private club’s monthly meeting. While she is getting everything done to her on stage in every orifice imaginable, the audience gradually begins to play with each other. One very popular attendee was a woman probably weighing over 300 pounds. Maybe big-people sex was included because it’s kind of kinky to many. But she was the hit of the event, hit on frequently, because she was so passionate and free and fun-loving.

That brings up the whole question of porn, doesn’t it? Porn stars who do any sort of out-there extreme sucking and fucking must certainly be sex-positive. Do you think they enjoy it after hours going at it under hot lights with ogling bystanders? Is watching adult flicks sex-negative or sex-positive? Probably could be either. If it’s an addiction in the place of any real love and affection with live people, not so great. If it’s a visual booster that brings you pleasure and turns you on so you’re hotter with your honey, than why not?

Care For Your Sacred Temple, Your Body, Like You Would A Young Child
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If you look after your body, care for it like you would a young child, stay healthy, eat well, and exercise regularly, you can train yourself to enjoy mountains more pleasure than is commonplace. In my view, that’s a major outcome of this whole dialogue about sexual attitudes and beliefs. Being raised in a sex-negative environment means that most of us are sadly uneducated, unskilled, and unenlightened about lovemaking. Spiritual Sex isn’t automatic, especially if you’ve subscribed to your elders' inhibitions and taboos.

There are classes of all sorts designed to help you meditate, pray, worship God, honor the Goddess, as well, of course, to exercise and look after your body. So why not to teach you how to create unlimited floods of sexual ecstasy in a sacred space that raises your consciousness and connects you with the divine? Though practicing Supreme Bliss Tantra is a lot more than stretching and strengthening your muscles, some do compare Tantric training to yoga. It is a discipline that requires regular practice. But it deals more with the subtle energies inside than getting into pretzel positions.

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Start Building Your Sexual Muscles Now
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If you watch your diet or exercise to keep in shape, then you obviously value your physical health. The same applies to your sexual health. We recommend daily exercise of your sexual muscles to keep your jewels and pelvis fit. This is an easy, inexpensive, powerful way to have stronger sensations, better orgasms, and circulate orgasmic energy. Strong pelvic muscles helps guys have harder erections, healthier prostate glands, and longer-lasting sex without premature ejaculation. Which is why these exercises are a vital part of our Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery Ebook and Longer Lasting LoveMaking Ecourses which you can learn about here... . They help women maintain vibrant yoni tissues, cleansing the whole jewel area, which can ease monthly cycles.

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Good sex isn’t natural. Or maybe it’s more accurate to say good sex is natural, it’s just not common because all of us suffer from stunted sexual growth. You have to commit to becoming sex positive to learn about anatomy, techniques, communication, orgasmic pathways, and responses. These are a few of the things we demonstrate and practice in our Private Tantra Workshops here... . This is exciting territory to explore fully when you’re open to it. But it’s not for the faint-of-heart sex-resistant reluctant bystander.

Definitely Try This At Home Tonight, Or Today If You Like Afternoon Delights
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If you strive to be more sex-positive, than start stretching. Create a sacred ritual for self-pleasuring and see how long you can make it last. Tell your sweetheart what you did and what you learned about pleasuring your body. Do it in front of each other.

When you glimpse a fantasy in a dream or daydream, grab onto it and expand it. Make it as juicy and kinky and exciting as you can in your mind. Then tell your main squeeze about it. Try any parts of it you want to on for size. Dress up, get tied down, play a role.

What kinds of sexual play would you like to explore more? Jewel massage, oral sex, anal sex? Lovely, go for it! We have ebooks about both male and female G-Spots to help you discover this undeveloped country inside most lovers. Our newsletter archives here... and free Online Guided Tours here... offer lots of options to stretch your mind so you can stretch your bodies in bed.

If you're really adventurous, explore whatever aspects of open sexuality you're drawn to. Nudist camps and gatherings are an easier place to start. Sacred sex workshops are a safe place to experiment. Swapping and swing clubs aren't always upscale and aren't for everyone. That's why we've organized and offered to help others set up Sensual Dinner Parties like we do here in Lake Tahoe, California. If you're interested, check out our secret Tahoe Players page here . If you're far away and want to start your own group, let us know and we'll do what we can.

I'm fresh out of outrageous things to say to convince repressed people to look at the sensual side of life in a fresh and spiritual way. I hope you've gotten clear about what's right for you in response to the buttons I've pushed. In Supreme Bliss Tantra, there is not standard of right or wrong. There's only what serves your spirit and fulfills your true desires. I hope you enjoy the journey to discover and realize what's true for you.

Who was it who said you have to first change your mind if you want to change your life? Remember, when I was a kid I thought people over 30 never had sex. Now at twice that age I’m having the best sex far beyond what I could ever have imagined.

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Juicy Joke: "What is Politics?"

A little boy goes to his dad and asks, 'What is Politics?'

Dad says, 'Well son, let me try to explain it this way: I am the head of the family, so call me The President. Your mother is the administrator of the money, so! we call her the
Government. We are here to take care of your needs, so we will call you the People. The nanny, we will consider her the Working Class. And your baby brother, we will call him the Future. Now think about that and see if it makes sense.'

So the little boy goes off to bed thinking about what Dad has said. Later that night, he hears his baby brother crying, so he gets up to check on him. He finds that the baby has severely soiled his diaper.

So the little boy goes to his parents' room and finds his mother asleep. Not wanting to wake her, he goes to the nanny's room. Finding the door locked, he peeks in the keyhole and sees his father in bed with the nanny. He gives up and goes back to bed.

The next morning, the little boy says to his father, 'Dad, I think I understand the concept of politics now. '

The father says, 'Good, son, tell me in your own words what you think politics is all about.'

The little boy replies, 'The President is screwing the Working Class while the Government is sound asleep. The People are being ignored and the Future is in deep shit."

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