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"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 10/19/05


Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras and Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees

  ISSN 1540-8825   (c) Copyright 2005 by


This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.       Our Motto:  Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex


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Dear Tantra Friend:


We're dedicating this edition to one of our favorite subjects, longer lovemaking. Once a guy masters the ancient art of ejaculation mastery and his partner learns to make love Tantrically, the sky's the limit. We're talking multiple, extended, cosmic orgasms for both. In our featured article we share four specific techniques and the overall mindset and approach that can help you transform quickies into longies.

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Featured Article: "Is It Hard To Learn Longer LoveMaking With Tantra?"


- 4 Sexual Stamina Tips For Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery -

Is it hard to learn to make love for hours using Supreme Bliss Tantra? No, not really. Sure, you can't just snap your fingers and instantly eliminate a lifetime pattern like premature ejaculation. But it is easy to learn if you're willing to practice.

When you're practicing with sex, remember, it's not really an onerous chore. It's super great fun with the Tantric Attitude.

We figure our "Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery" ebook is our best-seller because it IS easy and it DOES work. The testimonials we regularly receive prove it.


Friend's Feedback: "Over Two Months Of Not Cuming And Going Strong"

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"I just wanted to say I am using your techniques along with some Taoist methods of not cuming and I haven't cum yet.  It has been over two months and still going strong!  I love it and will keep going at it. My plan is to not ever cum. Just wanted to let you know that a man can go without shooting his wad if he chooses to and still be sexually satisfied. Thanks again!"  Love, Collin from Durango, Colorado


If you're new to the whole idea of Spiritual Sex like we teach in our ebooks, ecourses, and trainings, we thought you'd appreciate an explanation about how you can use Supreme Bliss Tantra to transform and extend your lovemaking, not to mention your whole relationship.

Let's start at the beginning. That was thousands of years ago, maybe 5000 B.C., when the original practices of Tantra were developed. The driving force in ancient India, long before the Kama Sutra was ever written, was to help common people develop spiritually. That meant to find out who you really are and learn to commune with the divine. Today, we'd describe that as reducing stress, being healthier at all levels, and leading a more fulfilled life.

Even back then, religious types separated sex and spirit. But the early Tantrists believed that sex is a integral part of life, a gift from the higher powers of the universe (God or Goddess if you prefer), and shouldn't be shunned. In fact, they found that the strong drives that so many of us feel around sex contained huge amounts of energy that could be harnessed to help people grow and develop.

Harnessing sexual energy is not something many of us learn in the modern world. In fact, it didn't take long for Tantra to go underground in ancient India as well. Because sexual exercises were an essential element of the early practices, religious leaders persecuted the early Tantrists.

So the exercises and rites created for common people were documented with obscure language, vague references, and strange concepts. They were hidden and kept secret from all but the in-crowd. Even if someone got hold of them, these ancient texts made little sense without the code. To learn anything of the ancient wisdom, one had to be accepted by a spiritual master who would only pass on the tradition orally after years of study and devotion.


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Here's one later example, a story told about the fifth Dalai Lama in the seventeenth century. Reportedly, he was a notorious womanizer. When confronted by his advisers on the upper terrace of his palace for such un-Lama-like behavior, he admitted that he had relations with women but claimed they were of a different nature than they believed. To quell their protests, he walked to the edge of terrace, peed over the side, and watched the stream flow from terrace to terrace until it hit the ground. Then miraculously his urine re-ascended each terrace in turn and re-entered his bladder. Turning to his advisers, he explained that this demonstrated how his sexual relations were different from theirs.

Taken literally, it's easy to scoff at such a crazy tale. But underneath the story is really an allegory alluding to the Tantric skill of re-absorbing semen before it's expelled. "Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery" teaches several simple ways to doing the same kind of thing. If you squeeze vajra (Tantric for penis) hard enough in the right place at the right time, you can interrupt ejaculation.

Fortunately, some twentieth-centuries gurus have translated these kinds of puzzling and complex stories for modern folks like us. And our job is to turn these powerful techniques into practical, understandable, step-by-step directions that you can use in your life, in your life, and in your bed. Which brings us back to the subject at hand, making love longer.

As we mentioned, overcoming premature ejaculation, like so many of the other amazing changes your sex life can undergo with Supreme Bliss Tantra, depends on mastering your sexual energy. We're talking about the nervous excitation and physical forces that your body feels when you're turned on. Some call it electricity, or magnetism, or chemistry. The ancients called it kundalini.

Whatever words you use, it's something very real. Unfortunately, without training, few modern lovers ever tune in enough to harness its awesome power.

Now those highly-sensitive males among us, and Somraj is a perfect example, sure feel all that sexual energy. We feel it most strongly in the tip of vajra (penis) when we get turned on. Actually that's good news because it means this part of your life is alive and making you feel so good. Of course, the bad news is that those of us who don't know how to harness sexual energy may cum sooner than we want. Or sooner than our lover would like us to.


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So how does Supreme Bliss Tantra teach men and women to make love longer? Actually, you know most of the basic tools that we employ: how you breathe, how you move, what sounds you make, and where you focus your mind. These practices start out solo, getting you to feel different things in different ways than you're used to. Which is why the foundation of this dramatically new approach to lovemaking starts with the Tantric Attitude.

The mindset of Supreme Bliss Tantra is one of openness, of enjoying, of celebrating the new, different, and unique aspects of life. We become intrepid explorers learning about so many things, sex right up there near the top of the list. Tantrists believe that nothing is more important than feeling good. This attitude is essential to learn to harness the life-giving power of sexual energy.

Here's another simple skill that can explain the Tantric Attitude. We all tend to pant as we approach the brink of orgasm. Guess what would happen if you consciously knew how to slow and deepen your breathing when you were approaching the verge? Right, it would decrease your tendency to slip past the point of no return.

We much prefer to teach these simple tools based on common, everyday, physical and mental abilities. We'd rather you learned how to savor sexual energy and enjoy loveplay for hours rather than depend on stopping your body's natural reactions or  reabsorbing your semen.

Take the example of Vajroli, one of the most esoteric techniques to control ejaculation that remained secret for thousands of years. Dedicated Tantrist men, inserted gradually larger and longer tubes into their urethras, the canal that runs from their bladder out through vajra, so they could learn to control the muscles around their prostate gland and block the expulsion of semen.

Do we have to even warn you not to try this at home? Wouldn't you rather learn to refocus your mind, shift your breathing at vital junctures, and move differently to learn to spread your sexual energy without such bizarre measures?


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For many centuries and continuing today, society has taught us in so many ways that sex is bad. We learn to be embarrassed about the most natural of things like our feelings, our primal urges, and our bodies, especially our jewels (Tantric for genitals). We're loaded down with shame and guilt.

That's why simple, commonplace, and easy to learn stuff isn't readily accessible in our repressive sexual cultures. We hide our sexual selves growing up and when we finally get around to doing it, it's most often hurried, rushed, and fumbling. Most novice lovers get conditioned to go fast. It's not something we learn how to savor, cherish, and offer as a sacred gift to those we want to love.

In this kind of environment, how do we learn about sex? Well, we certainly don't talk about it much. We're discouraged from experimenting. We don't get complete, accurate information. We grow up in the dark about our sex organs and how to use them for pleasure. In fact, one student from Great Britain told us that growing up was so bad that he and his contemporaries didn't believe they had jewels! Private parts just didn't exist in anyone's mind there.


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"Once a man has acquired the ability to regulate his ejaculation, they can make love much more often and much longer. Partners benefit more fully from each other's essence: he from her Yin essence and she from his Yang essence. As a result they can achieve a unique degree of peace of mind. This tranquility, due to constant warm and joyful loving, was known to the ancient Chinese as 'the harmony of Yin (female) and Yang (male)." -- JOLAN CHANG in The Tao Of Love & Sex


Of course, guys have to learn how to be guys to compete in the world. So we try to act like studs and convince ourselves that we can completely satisfy a woman. Don't misunderstand. We're sure that you've learned a lot about yourself, your body, and how to make love. We're just pointing out that attitudes we've been indoctrinated with haven't prepared us well for learning the secret Tantric art of Spiritual Sex.

Learning to stop premature ejaculation begins with changing your mind about all this false programming. You start by accepting the simple fact that you get real excited and that's a good thing. You learn about your jewels, your turn-on, and your orgasms. You learn how to feel sexual energy and channel it. You learn how to communicate about these super intimate things. Not just your innie or your outie, but your fluids, your feelings, and your confidence, or lack thereof.


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"Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Mastery" teaches any lover how to bask in more intense sexual energy than they've every imagined. It's a doorway to totally new sensations and a completely new level of intimate connection with your beloved. It's a completely natural, instinctive, and healthy way to get super, super high without drugs.

But this path to multiple cosmic orgasms for both him and her doesn't come without its price. Yes, if your normal lovemaking is 10 or 15 minutes, you have to learn to make love for 30 or 60 or 90 minutes. Or several hours. What a steep price to pay!

So would you rather lose and then find yourself in the long-lasting, life-giving, luscious ecstasy of Spiritual Sex? Or do you want to continue using up your chances with those few-second blips that leave you drained and leave her unsatisfied?

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Wishing you hours and hours of continuous cosmic orgasms.

                    Love, Somraj and Jeffre


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