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Your Tantra Newsletter: Tuning Your ESP To Make You A World-Class Tantric Lover - 11 Communication Skills To Help You Dance Together In Bed And Get Everything You Want Sexually Every Time

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 9/14/05

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Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras and Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees

  ISSN 1540-8825   (c) Copyright 2005 by TantraAtTahoe.com

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This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.       Our Motto:  Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex

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* Tantric Quote: "To Dance Speaks To The Innermost Depths"

* Featured Article: "Tune Your ESP To Become A World-Class Lover"

* Friend's Feedback: "Fully Engulfed In Learning This Art"

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Featured Article: "Tune Your ESP, Become A World-Class Tantric Lover"

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- 11 Communication Skills To Help You Dance Together In Bed –

             - And Get Everything You Want Sexually -

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Tantric Quote: "To dance is first and foremost to communicate, to unite, to join, to speak to the innermost depths of the other person's being. The spoken word belongs to the realm of illusion." -- MAURICE BÉJART in L'homme et la Danse

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We wish you all could have joined us for the intensive two-day Private Tantric Workshop we just completed. Well, actually it was awfully private because we were so open about practicing Tantric Sex in front of each other.

You see, this was our fourth session in six months with this particular couple who are really learning to generate sexual energy to transform their lovemaking and their spiritual lives. But at least we can share some of their discoveries with you while protecting their privacy.

Our focus for the weekend was Tantric ESP.

You probably know that ESP, or extra sensory perception, refers to psychic phenomena. Scientists today may not give ESP much credence, but if you look deeply into your intimate relationships present and past, we bet you have lots of valid, down-to-earth examples of ESP.

For example, don't:

- wives often know what's on their husbands' minds?

- some guys sense when their girlfriend wants it, or is about to feign a headache?

- couples who've lived together for years often think and voice what their partner is thinking?

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Tuning in to what's happening inside your loved ones is more commonplace than many recognize. And with a little Tantric practice, you can tune in even better. We don't even need to go off the deep end into the occult to suggest how you can refine your natural Tantric ESP and make your lovemaking sweeter, hotter, and more satisfying.

Tantric ESP means Extra Sexual Perception. It means tuning your radio receiver to the signals your sweetheart broadcasts when you're playing with each other's body.

Of course, Tantric ESP begins with the everyday art of two-way communication. That's why a major aspect of our Private Tantric Workshops include training in sexual communication. We spend lots of time demonstrating how to exchange words to get more of what you want and how to give more pleasure in bed.

In fact, 10 of the 11 techniques we teach use verbal communication.

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Verbal communication is essential, especially with a new lover or when you're exploring new territory with a long-time one. We just don't always know exactly what our bed partners want each moment, what's too much, what's too little, and what they need to go over the top when they want to. As you're learning why that smile or grimace just swept across your honey's face, or what that growl or moan means, or what caused that shudder a moment ago, or what you should do when their breathing changes like that, you need to talk to better understand each other's sexual responses.

The good news is that, if you can tell what you're feeling in your body and you know how to formulate sentences and speak your mind, you've got the basic skills to help your lover understand what you want and what your body needs. Unfortunately, for too many Tantric beginners, this isn't as easy at it sounds. We've all be so conditioned to mentally process our feelings that many of us are cut off from the physical senses that feed us sensations, emotions, and pleasure signals.

Even worse, the bad news is that too many people are conditioned to feel embarrassment, shame, and guilt about sex which makes them reluctant to be open, frank, and honest about sex. We wrote a two-part article about how to overcome this pervasive shyness about sex that begins in our January 26, 2005 newsletter entitled "Intimacy, Truth, & Communication." You can find this and all our other past articles and free how-tos here: http://www.tantraattahoe.com/resource/news.htm <a href="http://www.tantraattahoe.com/resource/news.htm">AOL click here</a>

Developing mutual ESP begins with exchanging thoughts and feelings verbally  The more openly you talk about what you want, what you're feeling, and what you want to try, the easier it will be for your lover to develop the Tantric ESP to give you everything you want.

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Speaking from the experience of our own relationship, the longer we're together, the more we realize how over-rated talking is as a form of communication. And we just celebrated nine years of living, working, and playing together.

We use words differently, we say different things than we actually mean, and we hear different things than our partner thought they just said. Like everybody does. We're not trying to talk you out of being forthcoming about sex. On the contrary, we're encouraging you to talk lots, lots more since you can't expect that you'll always be easily understood, especially with something so often charged and volatile as sex.

Before we're done here, we want to give you some specific how-tos you can put into practice tonight. Let's start with timing. When should you use your sexual communication skills? The easy answer is all the time at first. We use them before we make love, while we're making love, and after we make love.

If you haven't realized it yet, Tantric Sex doesn't primarily mean learning to "do" your baby better. It isn't just designed to teach you to be totally aggressive, take over, and give your passive, helpless partner the most amazing pleasure. Sure, sometimes this is a fantasy we love to play out which can be real hot. But our MO, our modus operandi, our typical style is to play as partners, to flow, share, exchange, and co-create higher and higher levels of ecstasy by being in sync with what we each want in each moment.

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Maybe the most dramatic shift new Tantric lovers experience is by discussing three simple topics that we call the Partnering Questions each time they make love.

Do you still operate under the myth that when that imagined Don Juan or Goddess Incarnate seduces you, they're going to be so all-knowing that communication isn't necessary? We hope you're getting over that. In the real world, we always advocate that you discuss your desires, concerns, and boundaries for each encounter right before you get into it.

If you know much about the inner emotional, psychic, and spiritual life of women, you realize that making assumptions about their wanting the same things every time is a big mistake. The Goddess in every women is as changeable as the weather, and we simply have to learn to appreciate that their spontaneity is a big part of what makes them so desirable.

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By discussing the Partnering Questions whenever we make love, or anytime we change what we're doing, we both stay empowered as equal partners should be. He may have a big, hard outie and she may have a hot, wet innie, but we're both 100% responsible for asking for what we want and giving everything we can.

We've got lots more to share about developing Tantric ESP in our next issue.

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