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Your Tantra Newsletter: The NEW Sexual Politics

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 9/10/03
Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2003 by Tantra At Tahoe
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This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
--- Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex
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Dear Reader:

This newsletter is directed to all women and those who love
them and only want the best and most pleasure for them. Read
Jeffre's no-holds-barred look at how we got into the sexual
predicament our society corners us into.

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This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "Free Yourself"
* Juicy Joke: "Female Prayer"
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* Friend's Feedback: "Best Feeling Sexual Experience"
* Featured Article: "The NEW Sexual Politics"
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* Juicy Joke: "Family Vote"
* Tantric Quote: "Your Grandest Vision"
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Tantric Quote

-- Free Yourself --

"One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life. That word is
love."-- Sophocles

Juicy Joke

-- Female Prayer --

Before I lay me down to sleep,
I pray for a man, who's not a creep.
One who's handsome, smart and strong,
One who's loves to listen long.

One who thinks before he speaks,
When he says he'll call, he won't wait weeks.

I pray that he is gainfully employed,
When I spend his cash, he won't be annoyed,
Pulls out my chair and opens my door,
Massages my back and begs to do more.

Oh! Send me a man who'll make love to my mind,
Knows what to answer to "How big is my behind?"
I pray that this man will love me to no end,
And never attempt to hit on my friend.


-- Male Prayer --

I pray for a deaf-mute nymphomaniac with huge boobs
who owns a liquor store.


(P.S. OK, the male praying isn't yet a Tantric expert, but we
thought his out-there sentiment cute as well as sad. -- Editor)

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Featured Article

"The NEW Sexual Politics"

Bet you thought the sexual revolution was 30 years ago. We're all
liberated. Right?

Guess again. The sexual revolution is just beginning. Tradition
and sociologists tell us it takes from three to seven generations
(depending on who you believe) to change fundamental beliefs in
a culture.

It is my conviction that sexual values are one of those
fundamental beliefs, because they direct our thoughts, our
feelings and our behaviors in a big way.

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Do You Get Enough Respect
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Every woman deserves respect as a person, as a divine being.
You, every woman, deserves pleasure of all sorts, but we'll focus
on sensual and sexual pleasure in this article. Shakti (Tantric for
woman) deserves orgasms on a regular basis just as she (you)
deserve(s) to be loved.

Goddess, what keeps you from having all this? And how does this
affect your love life and your sex life? What you need to know as a
21st century woman and what you can do to have the most
complete and fulfilling life is the topic of this and future

What forces are working against Your Pleasure?

The first is yourself and the second is your partner or your
potential partner. Within each of us are distortions, unconscious
inhibitions and fears about our sex, our genitals, our excretions
and our right to pleasure. The level of sexual ignorance in this
country is appalling. You, the regular reader of this newsletter
may well be the exception.

However, ignorance always feeds the fear regardless of the
content of the specific fear. It may be the fear of doing wrong,
being wrong, being saved, or just being loved. We are driven by
fear. Ironic, isn't it, how our love for our self, including our
sexual desires, is so affected by what we imagine others might
think. Regardless of your level of perception of your freedom
from these fears, they eat away at each of us in insidious ways,
usually below our awareness.

Duped By Advanced Education
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A real life example. Jeffre, that's me, has always been a highly
sexual woman. I have a B.S. in nursing and a Ph.D. in Psychology.
I thought I knew it all, about sex and human behavior. I've been a
sex therapist for 20 years. I have come to find out I have not only
been duped, I have been far too trusting of sexologists of the past
30 years. I too, once believed the sexual revolution was

While in graduate school, I learned how biased psychological
scientific research was. Not only were most of the researchers
male, the vast majority, like over 95% of the subjects of the
research were male. The results were then extrapolated as being
applicable to females. Although I was appalled then I believed it
was changing.

Now with my own current research into the G-Spot and Female
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Science Is Not God
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Contributing to these distortions is the ongoing, pervasive,
distorted, anti-ecstatic, male-oriented messages from the media,
the churches, the establishment and science.

Yes, I said science. Sound like a Jeffre rant? You're right.

So many of us have come to believe that science is god and
science has all the answers. Science is only a process of
discovery. It is reliant on the men and women who ask the
questions. It is subjective in most ways. In the next newsletter I
will go into detail about the ways women (and men) have been
duped about their bodies and their pleasure.

A very important part of why I'm in the education-counseling
business and a Tantric practitioner is my desire to open people's
eyes and their minds to the joy of life. Life doesn't have to be
guilt-ridden and struggle after struggle. If you aren't waking up
every morning with a song in your heart and a smile on your lips,
perhaps you could benefit from looking at new ways of being-in-

If you are reading this newsletter, you probably having an inkling
of the essential role joy and pleasure has in life. I know I may be
preaching to the choir, but even if this touches one of you, I will
feel gratified.

Immersing myself into Tantra almost 10 years ago changed my
view of sex, sexuality and my pleasure specifically. As a wise
woman who has lived many decades, I can honestly say I am
more sexual, more orgasmic and more desirous of sexual
pleasure than ever.

If you want to open your energy channels to the divine ecstasy of
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If you want to go deeper into your femaleness, the Shakti
Energy, the core of universal energy, then look forward to our
next issue. In my next article, I'll address the new view of a
woman's body. Please join me and your sex life will never be the
same again.

Wishing you love and lots of long ecstatic lovemaking,

Dhyan Jeffre

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Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D., cofounder of Supreme Bliss
Tantra, is an author, speaker, workshop leader, and licensed
SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical
experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-
author of "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love."

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-- Family Vote --

One day, after a man had his annual physical, the doctor came
out and said, "You had a great checkup. Is there anything that
you'd like to talk about or ask me?"

"Well," he said, "I was thinking about getting a vasectomy."

"That's a pretty big decision. Have you talked it over with your

"Yeah, and they're in favor 15 to 2."

Tantric Quote

-- Your Grandest Vision --

“You have drawn the people, events, and circumstances of your
life to you as tools with which to fashion the Grandest Version of
the Greatest Vision you ever had about yourself.” ---
Conversations With God, Book 2

Friend's Feedback

-- Profound Influence In My Life --

"From my viewpoint, please be assured that the purpose to
which you have dedicated your work and your lives is being one
of the most profound, positive influences in my life. And as you
know, that is saying quite a bit because I have sampled quite a bit
of life's experiential buffet, and I only shower compliments to
those who choose to take on the offer of the universe to be
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"Even more than anything that you teach or write, I believe that
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