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"S A C R E D S E X U A L S E C R E T S" Newsletter 9/10/02
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Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2002 by Tantra At Tahoe
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This is a free ezine distributed twice a month offering practical sex tips derived from modern sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra. Tantra At Tahoe is dedicated to helping you deepen your relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
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S O M E T I M E S W E G O F O R I T T O O !
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Dear Subscriber:

This issue features a really graphic article about how to achieve male multiple orgasm. Which is often the key for his partner to achieve multiple orgasms, too. If you've read anything about Tantra, you know this is the key to our unique approach to sacred sexual play.

But we revere any kind of play that makes you feel good. In Tantra, we specialize in just going with the flow. If we ever decide to start a spiritual movement, we might just call it "The Church Of Feeling Good."

A case in point. Last week our busy client and travel schedules interfered with the most important aspect of existence: our sex life. No sex for a week was rare and nearly unbearable.

When we finally reunited for a long afternoon and evening of Tantric sexual meditation, our built-up passion took us by surprise. After just a few minutes of honoring and sensual touch, we couldn't resist penetration. One slow in, one slow out, and bam. The tidal wave swept us away, rocking and rolling with a huge and powerful simultaneous explosion.

The funniest part was that our big male Golden Retriever, Shiva, ran right over to us and started howling right along with us. Best laughing orgasm we've ever had!

But don't feel sorry for us. We carried on with many many more ecstatic orgasms until late in the night. How? You've got to read our feature article below for the story.

Love from Tantra At Tahoe who is...
Dhyan Jeffre & Dhyan Somraj


P.S. If you have close friends you're willing to talk to about sex, please forward this newsletter to them. You never know who can benefit from Tantric sexual healing.

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J U I C Y J O K E
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"The RIGHT and WRONG Things to Say to a Man After Sex"

RIGHT: You're the one
WRONG: Next.

RIGHT: You really know how to satisfy a woman.
WRONG: What the hell was that? Do you have a plane to catch or
something?

RIGHT: You're the best I've ever had.
WRONG: You're almost as good as my cousin Earl.

RIGHT: What color are your eyes?
WRONG: What color do you want to paint the baby's room?

RIGHT: You make me forget my problems.
WRONG: You make me forget I'm just 15.

RIGHT: I think we should go away for the weekend.
WRONG: I think we should go to the clinic.

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T A N T R I C Q U O T E O F T H E M O N T H
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"Tantra has a tremendous potential to bring the experience of the Supreme Self. The Supreme Self which is not cold or dry or intellectual. The Self is warm and euphoric; it exists within as an inner smile. Our experience of "fun", "amusement", "humor", and "enjoyment" all arise from the Supreme Self. The Self is ultimate contentment, supreme fulfillment. It is embodied in laughter, and its sensation is love. The Self is our true and eternal nature."

----- Gurumayi Chidvilasananda

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"MALE MULTIPLE ORGASM"
"MYTH OR REALITY FOR THE COMMON MAN"

What Is Male Multiple Orgasm And How Can
The Average Guy Learn It?


Can you get it up again and again each night after orgasm? For many, recovering following ejaculation isn't easy. The older you get the harder it is. Or the softer it is.

For some of us, quick recovery is an impossible dream. The delay in getting turned on enough to do it again, technically called the refractory period, is a natural part of physiology. Is getting or staying hard after ejaculating what multi-orgasmic men learn?

No. Male Multiple Orgasm means learning to have a series of phenomenal climaxes without ejaculating. Yes, you can learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Multi-orgasmic men experience many "dry climaxes" before they choose the wet kind.

Can only vegetarians do this? Do you need drugs? Special world-class DNA? Years of yoga and deprivation?

No, definitely not. Any willing guy, like you, can learn to time his ejaculation with a little practice. And to give and receive as many orgasms as he and his partner wants.

Interested in learning how? Read on to find out exactly what a dry orgasm is, to take a closer look at the difference between orgasm and ejaculation, and to discover how you can become multi-orgasmic.

LESS THAN A DAY IN THE LIFE

An orgasm is defined as a sexual climax, a few seconds of the most intense pleasure during sexual intercourse, usually accompanied with explosive release.

Think of how much trouble we all go to for these occasional few seconds. If you orgasm for 10 seconds, three times a week (the high end of national estimates), for 50 years, were only talking about 21 hours. That's less than one day of pleasure for an entire life of average sex.

But what if you could orgasm multiple times every night? What if you could go on continuously for hours? Is that possible?

Tantric gurus of the East have been studying all aspects of pleasure and human existence for thousands of years. Through Tantra, the ancient science of sacred sexuality, it is very possible to learn to extend your sexual stamina and virtually go all night.

Here's what Patrick from North Carolina wrote us: "Before I took up Tantra, I couldn't last for more than 4 seconds. Now that you have enlightened me about Tantra, I can go for hours. After 4 months of practicing Tantra, I can now go for 7 hours! I just can't believe that it is just that powerful."

Men, aren't you just a little curious? Women, don't you want to help your lover go on and on? The pay-off of longer-lasting ecstasy is definitely worth it.

ORGASM TO THE WESTERN SCIENTIFIC MIND

Masters and Johnson broke sex down into four stages: arousal, excitement, explosion, and resolution. The explosion phase, ejaculatory orgasm, is a two-step process. First, after reaching the point of no return, the muscles around your prostate gland contract and empty semen into the urethral canal. Second, the smooth muscles around your pelvic floor rhythmically pump the released fluids out the end of your pleasure stick.

If you're interested in teaching yourself multiple orgasm, a great way to start is to become more aware of these processes with this enjoyable exercise...

1) Self pleasure up to the point of no return. (Nothing to feel guilty about, doctor's orders!)

2) Relax completely.

3) Pay close attention to what happens as you ejaculate.

4) Can you feel the involuntary spasms around your prostate and the contractions that propel your semen outward?

With a little practice, you'll notice each distinct change and sensation as they happen. Some students repeat this exercise over and over in the interests of scientific inquiry. We applaud them for their dedication!

TANTRIC ORGASM, A DIFFERENT BREED OF ECSTASY

Tantric adepts view ejaculatory orgasm as building energy in the erogenous zones, getting swept away by passion, and exploding with ejaculation. When the excitement climbs higher than you can contain, all your juice finds the path of least resistance out through the genitals, releasing built-up energy and the inevitable wet spot.

What could be better than the rush of that fantastic 10-second expulsion? The Tantric Orgasm is a long series of slow, intensely pleasurable, full-body vibrations accompanied by surge after surge of orgasmic energy. If they continue without ejaculation, the waves of ecstasy climb to unheard of heights. By conserving energy instead of throwing it away by ejaculating, you get higher and hotter all over your body.

To experience Tantric Orgasm, you just pump built-up sexual energy away from your genitals. When you recirculate intense arousal without explosive release, you can still feel those exquisite smooth muscle contractions around your pelvic floor. The slang for these inner energy climaxes is "dry orgasms." Actually, they feel more like implosions, the inner explosion of unrestrained sexual power inside your body.

Temporarily after a dry orgasm during intercourse, excitation typically decreases enough so that you can enjoy more vigorous stroking without ejaculating. Tantric lovemaking rises slowly to a peak, stops to savor the pleasure, pumps fast for a bit, reaches another ecstatic peak, and then repeats over and over. Sound like fun?

I'M CONVINCE, WHERE DO I SIGN UP?

There are many ways for men to interrupt ejaculation just before the point of inevitability. For example, if you press on your prostate gland through the perineum (the soft spot between your testicles and anus), or squeeze the base of your penis, you can prevent the fluid explosion. You can learn this kind of control, but Tantric methods are by far more pleasurable.

To learn multiple Tantric Orgasm, first, learn to relax completely while you're highly aroused. This is the opposite of most guy's programming, which is to tense up when excited. After relaxing, sensitize yourself to sexual energy, you know, that inner vibration like electricity that stimulates your nerves, warms your body, and titillates your erogenous zones.

Instead of focusing on the Big O, the next time you make love, try this...

1) Start slowly without a goal or agenda about what's going to happen.

2) At each moment, concentrate on what you're feeling and where.

3) As the energy collects strongly in your genitals, slow down, breathe deeply, and relax.

4) Visualize your sexual fire streaming up your body away from your genitals.

5) When the excitement surges intensely, stop all movement and enjoy it. You might feel hot waves of ecstasy all over, or you might ejaculate strongly, or you might just orgasm without ejaculating.

Through dedicated practice, which is loads of fun, you can learn to monitor your level of arousal, relax when you're too excited, interrupt ejaculation, and spread sexual energy for full-body orgasms. Fortunately, these exercises, when done regularly, are proven to be 95% effective.

THE BOTTOM LINE

Remember...
* Orgasm does not have to equal ejaculation.
* Relax your sexual muscles at the right time.
* Go higher and higher by conserving energy, not exploding.
* Circulate sexual energy inside for implosive orgasm after
orgasm.

You see, it's not a myth. You can orgasm again and again while you last and last. When your female lover learns to savor this same pace, you can ride the wave of bliss together to unimaginable peaks.

Love and Goddess Speed Your Journey
Dhyan Jeffre and Dhyan Somraj

P.S. There are actually 12 techniques to interrupt ejaculation. For free access, click here...

<http://www.tantraattahoe.com/uem>.

For the complete story and all 50 multiple orgasm exercises, get your copy of Somraj's "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery" by clicking here...

<http://www.tantraattahoe.com/uem/5.htm>.

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Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D. is a licensed SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-author "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love."
Dhyan Somraj is the author of countless articles about Tantra, over 50 workshops, and 4 books including Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery. During his 30 year career as a counselor, group facilitator, and trainer, Somraj has guided more that 20,000 people to lead more effective lives.

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T A N T R I C Q U O T E O F T H E M O N T H
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"Desire...it is a spiritual force within you."

----- Abraham

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CLONE YOUR BONE - NO KIDDING!

You know that Tantra says "yes" to whatever conscious sex practices get your motor running, right? So it should come as no surprise that Tantrikas often experiment with sex toys.

Dildos have always been the most popular adult sex toy. Wouldn't you like to have one in your own unique shape and size? Wouldn't it be great to have an exact replica of your male lover's erect vajra (that's Tantric for penis) for those times when he's away?

So we were intrigued when our friend Jeff Laurie who runs our favorite newsletter, SexNewsDaily.com, ran an article about Clone Your Bone. When we contacted Steve Turner from Maui who's offered this personal Penis Casting Kit since 1996, he sent us a free sample to try out for you.

Well, we did and it was great fun. It's definitely a two-person job, requiring simultaneous vajra stimulation and casting material mixing. Though it's a little messy, it's completely safe so we recommend it. And now an important part of Somraj is immortalized.

We think we'll put his cloned bone on our Tantric altar. What do you think?

If you're interested in having a wax or silicone copy of that very special piece of yourself or your partner, visit Steve's CLONE YOUR BONE site at...

<http://www.cloneyourbone.com>.

Who knows, if you mention you heard about him from Tantra At Tahoe, maybe he'll give you a break.

And watch for more interesting news. Jeffre's hot to try out Steve's "Match Your Snatch" kit for making a mold of her labia. We'll let you know how it goes.

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"MOST THOROUGH STUDY OF FEMALE ORGASM"

"The main studies of human sexuality Kinsey (1948 and 1953) and Masters and Johnson (1966) - drew conclusions largely from statistical and physiological research. A recent publication - "The Female Orgasm" by Seymour Fisher - aims at adding the psychological component to the earlier studies. In addition to giving the most comprehensive review of earlier sexological work in this area, "The Female Orgasm" includes a detailed presentation of Fisher's own research findings. A major positive finding is that the greater a woman's feeling that love objects are easily lost or may disappear the less likely she is to attain orgasm and that this anxiety may frequently be traced to the dominant socialization practices for women in our society."

----- From The Illustrated Book of Sexual Records.

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W I N B Y B Y T A K I N G O U R S E X P O L L
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"You know "that look" women get when they want sex?
"Me neither."

----- Steve Martin

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