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Your Tantra Newsletter: Sex, Society, And You
Take A Good Hard Look At How You Really Feel About Sex Being Healthy And Spiritual

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 8/19/08
Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2008 by
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Dear Reader:

Sexual messages are all around us. Advertising, clothing, movies, the horny guy next door. Even more, you're getting sexual messages from the inside every few minutes. Some studies estimate guys think about sex every eight seconds.

And yet this natural part of life, the part that created us and just won't go away no matter how hard we suppress it, isn't in balance in the modern world. So we want to start a dialogue with you about your ideas, feelings, and beliefs about what's healthy. That's the point of this issue's featured article.

And to make it easy for you to get involved and give your opinions, we've launched our new blog at where you can post your comments, ask your questions, and see what the tens of thousands of others on this email list think about it.

This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "I Gave You The Toys"
* Juicy Joke: "Monica's Future"
* Featured Ebook: "Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation"
* Featured Article: "Sex, Society, And You"
* Tantric Quote: "Only The Explorer Frees Sexual Vision"
* Juicy Joke: "Sex-Positive Golf"
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Tantric Quote: "I Gave You The Toys"

"Of course sex is ‘okay.’ Again, if I didn’t want you to play certain games, I wouldn’t have given you the toys. Play with sex. Play with it! It’s wonderful fun. Why, it’s just about the most you can have with your body." -- Conversations With God, Book 1

Juicy Joke: "Monica's Future"

Dan Rather was interviewing Monica and said,
"Monica, this trouble will pass and you are still
young and have a future in front of you. What
would you like to do with the rest of your life?"

Monica said, "Well, Dan, I have thought of going
back to school."

Dan said, "That is a great idea. What would you
like to be?"

Monica said, "I would like to be a doctor."

Dan laughed and said, "You can never be a
doctor. You sucked as an intern."

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Featured Article: "Sex, Society, And You"

Take A Good Hard Look At How You Really Feel
About Sex Being Healthy And Spiritual

- Did Clinton lie?

- Should priests who molest little boys be castrated?

- What’s the best way to deal with the oldest profession in the world (prostitution)?

- Should teenagers be given condoms and taught what to do with them?

These are just a few of the questions that the faltering sexual revolution hasn’t fully answered. Of course, the only true answers are your own honest ones. So I want to start a dialogue with you on our new blog, and see if we can get clearer about what it means to lead a Tantric Sex Life in modern society.

The Sex-Positive Spectrum
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To help put some order into this mess, imagine a spectrum of sexual attitudes that extends to totally negative on the far right end, completely positive on the left, and neutral in the middle, something like this...

Positive Neutral Negative

People with a totally sex-negative attitude on the right side disapprove of, denounce, and avoid any thought, words, or action that might be construed as the least bit sexual. Sounds like the far-right political conservatives, right? Exactly, except for how many of them are found in bed with mistresses or even other guys. It’s pretty hard to totally suppress a natural force of life.

People who embrace a totally sex-positive attitude, on the other hand, applaud, celebrate, and thoroughly enjoy all forms of sexual play. That means value, honor, and appreciate the healthy role sex should play in a full, rich life. Not unconscious, immature behaviors like inappropriate dirty jokes, sexual abuse, or violence. The healthy, conscious approach is the one we take and encourage in Supreme Bliss Tantra. If you really believe that sex and spirit are one and that making love is a form of prayer, then your mental attitude resides far left on the scale. That explains why we call this form of lovemaking Spiritual Sex or Sacred Sex.

What Does Sex Positive Really Mean?
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Now sex positive doesn’t mean lewd and lascivious behavior in public. Because our view of a sex positive lifestyle is spiritual, walking around in public with a hard-on or hitting on everyone you meet doesn’t fit that mold. But if you’ve read any of our ebooks here...

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then you know where we believe modern society in general belongs -- far to the right with a decidedly negative set of beliefs around sex.

In today’s world, sex is sensationalized, sex offenders are denounced, and girls who sleep around are looked down. But not always the guys! For the most part our parents, teachers, and religious leaders drummed into us that playing with yourself or having sex out of wedlock is a sin. So we’ve all grown up programmed with guilt, shame, and embarrassment on the most natural of instincts.

So much so that it makes it difficult to find our true-to-ourselves answers to questions that confront all sexual beings like…

- Is recreational sex OK?
- Is sex without love OK?
- Is sex without commitment OK?
- Is sex outside of marriage OK?
- Is sex with someone outside of your primary relationship OK?

The sex-positive answers to these questions aren’t always obvious. And they’re not the same for everyone. And they change as our life changes. So what are your knee-jerk answers? And then what are your more considered beliefs as you look into your attitudes and values more consciously?

To start the dialogue on our blog, please post your responses on our new blog at.. . And then we’d all love to hear your experience growing up that formed these opinions. Was your budding sexual drive honored? Were you guided maturely and openly? Did you have a healthy way to explore and develop your sexuality? Or was it ignored and hidden? Were you judged, criticized, and punished for your sexual feelings?

The Universal Practice Of Playing With Yourself Should Be Celebrated
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Right here and now I will come out in favor of masturbation. Playing with yourself no matter how young you are is a good thing especially if it’s done consciously to learn about your body and give yourself pleasure. That’s why we call it self-pleasuring, which can and should be a sacred ritual. Even if it’s not, the river of sexual energy flows and sometimes it needs to be released.

Here’s what Mae West. a famous decidedly sex-positive gal from an earlier era, said… “Good sex is like good Bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.”

I’m sure nearly all of us did it (and do it) and few of us told our parents. I bet far too many kids got traumatized about sex at an early age by being punished for what comes naturally. My son really got a kick out of getting a rise from his nanny when he was a few months old when he poked a hole in is diaper and played with himself in front of her. She insisted we switch from paper to fabric diapers.

How about you? Do you talk openly with your beloved about pleasuring yourself? Do you ever do it in front of each other with the lights on? We do sometimes and we dig it.

Don’t for a second think I’m going to endorse child sexual abuse, sexual slavery of young girls, or rape. No, these aren’t the least bit sex-positive practices. But it’s interesting to think about why these conditions can exist in the world. There are far too many ill-adjusted adults who can’t find a positive outlet for their sexual tides. If a healthy, open, conscious attitude about having sex was prevalent they might, making these kinds of sexual exploitation and violence less likely.

But what about twentieth century marriage? If she’s the property of her husband and letting him have his way with her to get off is his right with no concern for her pleasure, is that fair? Many studies estimate over half of the married people today have had affairs. Is sneaking behind your mate’s back to get laid a sex-positive act? Well, it’s better personally than being celibate I guess but not particularly loving or evolved.

And what do you think about the traditional French practice of keeping a mistress outside of wedlock? I don’t know if that’s still commonplace as some novels I’ve read seem to indicate, but if everyone is getting some on the side and no one gets hurt, isn’t that sex-positive to some degree?

Essential If You Want To Reap (no, not rape) These Benefits
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Shifting your mind and heart towards a sex-positive attitude is essential if you want to reap the magnificent benefits of Supreme Bliss Tantra. These include…

Enjoying hours of Spiritual Sex to reach amazing pinnacles of sexual ecstasy,

Learning to generate vast amounts of kundalini life-force to bask in the O-Zone at will,

Exchanging sexual energy with your beloved to create deeper levels of intimacy,

Channelling orgasmic energy to higher chakras to awaken your divine connection.

If your mind is in the gutter -- meaning that you believe that sex is dirty, sinful, and immoral, putting you on the far right of the scale -- you’ll never be able to develop the mastery of the subtle energies that link sex and spirit. It’s one thing to tell yourself or others that you are pro-sex, but quite another to find yourself hearing others talk openly about how they kiss each others jewels or witnessing them making love.

So, as honestly as you can, take a look at what your attitude about sex really is. How sex positive are you? In which situations do you find yourself anti-sex? Can you recall your specific thoughts and feelings in situations in the past when you chose to be sexually free and open? How did you feel when you were grossed out or simply refused to be sexual?

A good place to start -- that I bet you have opinions about -- if asking yourself if Bill Clinton really did have sex with his intern? Whatever it was, do you think it was OK? Was it OK for Monica to give the most powerful politician in the world blow jobs? Teenagers have related to us that since it’s now common knowledge thanks to Bill and his lawyers that oral sex isn’t really sex, it’s become much more commonplace in high schools.

Since oral sex is safer than intercourse and prevents unwanted pregnancies, sounds OK to me. Do you agree? Do you feel it’s a good thing that kinds are licking and sucking at an earlier age these days?

I know that there aren’t any right answers to these questions, but my point is simply how did you react and what do you believe now?

Check-In About How You Really Feel About Sex
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To help you assess your own place on the scale, in future articles and blog entries I’m going to relate some of my own past sexual experiences so you can check in about your attitude regarding these scenarios. They won’t all be stellar examples of conscious Spiritual Sex, but what the hell, we’ve all been there.

To start, please post your thoughts and reactions on our new blog at . Here’s hoping that you’ll read what others relate and give your reactions to their comments, too.

Until next time, I’m your Supreme Bliss Tantra mentor…


Juicy Joke: "Sex-Positive Golf"

Two women were playing golf. One teed off and watched
in horror as her ball headed directly toward a foursome of
men playing the next hole.
The ball hit one of the men.
He immediately clasped his hands together at his groin,
fell to the ground and proceeded to roll around in agony.

The woman rushed down to the man, and immediately
began to apologize. 'Please allow me to help. I'm a physical
therapist and I know I could relieve your pain if you'd allow
me,' she told him.
'Oh, no, I'll be all right. I'll be fine in a few minutes,' the man
replied. He was in obvious agony, lying in the fetal position,
still clasping his hands there at his groin.
At her persistence, however, he finally allowed her to help.

She gently took his hands away and laid them to the side,
loosened his pants and put her hands inside.  
She administered tender and artful massage for several long
moments and asked, 'How does that feel?'
He replied: 'It feels great, but I think my thumb's still broken!

Tantric Quote: "Only The Explorer Frees Sexual Vision"

"Never repress sex. Never be against it. Rather go deeply into it with great clarity...with great love. Go like an explorer. Search all the nooks and crannies of your sexuality and you will stumble upon your spirituality. Then you will become free. The future will have a totally different vision of sex for you. It will be more fun, more joy, more friendship, more play than a serious affair, as it has been in the past. Sex is just the beginning, not the end. But if you miss the beginning, you will miss the end also." --- OSHO

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