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SUBJECT: Explicit Tantric Tips To Supercharge Spiritual Love
Focusing On Sexual Pleasure By Avoiding Distractions

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"Tantric Sex Tips from Sacred Sexual Secrets Newsletter" 8/4/04
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Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2004 by Tantra At Tahoe

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Dear Tantric Reader:

Our newsletters and free guided tours continually tout the stellar
advantages of Tantric Sex. Yes, you can turn your sex life into a cosmic
merger of mind, body, and spirit. Which is the purpose of these
explicit Tantric Sex Tips, to give you a taste of how to make this
transformation a reality in your bedroom. Or couch, or living room
floor, or kitchen table.

This Tantric Sex Tip is all about maximizing your passion, even if
you've been together long enough for your fires to cool. Don't miss our
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Love, Somraj & Jeffre

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Focusing On Sexual Pleasure By Avoiding Distractions
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Remember when you were first smitten and all you could think about
was ripping each other's clothes off and going at it? Your pent-up
passion made you totally focused on sex, didn't it? We sure hope that
this still happens to you frequently, as it does for us after eight years
together.

It's just a too-common experience of many couples that the early
explosive fire dies down as time together wears on. Your passion fades,
sex becomes routine, and you have less drive to jump in the sack
together.

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Reigniting The Fires Of Passionate Love & Unbridled Lust
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Maybe this doesn't apply to you. But to those of us who're aging, we
just can't take the basic realities of sexual turn-on for granted
anymore. Erections aren't as reliable, lubrication doesn't always come
naturally, turn-on and orgasms can't be depended on like they used to.

The standard rap from sex therapists and manuals is that you just need
more foreplay. To be sure, in Tantra we make all kinds of loveplay
more exciting. But you still have to want to play. And your motor has to
rev up when you do.

It's easier when your raging hormones dictate when you make love. As
the forces of lust subside inside, you need to make a conscious choice
to keep your sex life alive.

You realize that without the continuing coming together, you're
putting your entire relationship at risk, don't you?

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The Secret Of Combating Waning Desire
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Here's a powerful tip to combat waning desire: focus. That means,
when you choose, putting all your attention on your bodies, your
sensations, and your pleasure.

When lovers describe their heights of orgasm, they so often explain
that it seems that the rest of world disappears as they become totally
consumed with the pleasure surging between them. It's clear that such
intense concentration heightens the ecstasy. In fact, total focus may be
one the main reasons why orgasm feels so good.

You know that if your mind is elsewhere, you won't enjoy sex as much.

You may have seen our comments about the pinnacle of Tantric Sex
resembling sexual meditation. If you have a meditation practice, it can
greatly enhance your sexual experience if you bring that inner stillness
and mental quiet into your loveplay.

That's why you'll find various meditation techniques in each of our
ebooks. The simple version of meditation is sit still, don't try to think
or do anything, and watch your breath moving in and out. Or in the
case of sexual meditation, concentrate on the sensations coursing
through your body.

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How To Focus Your Focus On Passion
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How do you enhance and use focus to stimulate your passion? The two
suggestions we include here are to remove distractions and stimulate
your senses.

A vital part of Tantric Sex is to make your lovemaking arena beautiful,
sensual, and enticing. We call it a sacred space, because the location of
our lovemaking is something we hold dear to our hearts.

Creating a sacred space certainly means cleaning up your dirty laundry
and putting away things that are distracting. It means dimming the
lights, bringing in fresh flowers, lighting candles, changing the sheets,
spreading a beautiful sarong on the bed.

Don't we all have images of the exotic harem where the sultan's wives
live? Silks and satins, soft candlelight, erotic background music, subtle
incense. Why not use these images in your mind to decorate your
bedroom erotically? Of course, you can do this consciously anywhere
you choose. For a special afternoon or evening, we lay out futons in the
living room in front of our fireplace.

The act of decorating together is a wonderful way to focus your energy
together.

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Turn-Offs & Turn-Ons For Maximum Turn-On
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Certainly, turning off the phone and TV is a must. In fact, we don't
have either in our bedroom. It's our temple of love.

But we do have a high-quality stereo. Advocates of Tantric Sex like us
specialize in all sorts of different kinds of music. Sometimes we like
soft harmonies, sometimes strong primitive beats. But we rarely play
vocals while we're making love. Our job is to focus our minds on the
sensations in our bodies, not on thoughts and outside images.

With busy lives full of important activities, timing can be everything.
When can you best focus on what's important? Do you leave sex as the
last thing when you're already tired? Maybe that's not the best time for
you to devote your full attention to exchanging sensual pleasure.

We understand that creating a sacred space of sexual focus and sensual
concentration is more challenging when others are around. If you have
young children, you need to work extra hard to maintain your
commitment to the health of your relationship through regular
lovemaking.

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What Is Most Important In Your Life?
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Focus on what's most important is a discipline when your hormones
aren't raging routinely any more. Build on our suggestions here to
maximize attention to your beloved and removing distractions from
your loveplay.

If you have to schedule time for love in your already packed existence,
then show you mean it when you say your relationship is important.
Clear the slate before you begin. Lock the door. Don't answer the
phone. Put your eyes on the most beautiful thing in front of you. Put
your mind on what counts most to your life in the long run.

And, yes, guys, you have to say it. Say "I love you" and mean it. Put your
heart behind it. Gush with all the things you appreciate about each
other. Put your attention on gratitude. Focus on the chemistry -- the
mystical forces -- that brought you together. Celebrate the spark that
still jumps between you. And when you play with sexual energy, think
of nothing else except how great you're making each other feel.

Love, Somraj & Jeffre

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