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How Tantra Makes Your Life Better Part 2

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 7/25/03
Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras
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More about learning Tantra in this issue. In fact, we've added over 40 web pages on the subject too. We just completed adding beautiful and sometimes quite passionate graphics to our two new guided tours...

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This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "Turn-On"
* Juicy Joke: "Happy Butt"
* Featured Product: "Men Can Enjoy Tantric G-Spot Orgasms"
* Friend's Feedback: "Ecstatic Bliss Without Ejaculating"
* Featured Article: "Tantra Makes Your Sex Life Better - Part 2"
* Featured Service: "New Learn Tantra Program For $200 OFF!"
* Interesting Findings: "Women Like It"
* Juicy Joke: "The Old Cowboy & The Lesbian"
* Tantric Quote: "Decorate Erotically"
* Friend's Feedback: "Within The Scope Of Tantra"
* FREE Stuff : "You Could Be Our Next Winner Like Ruben!"

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Tantric Quote

-- Turn-On --

"Turn-on is the direct experience of the current of life."
----- Patti Taylor, Expanded Orgasm

Juicy Joke

-- Happy Butt --

It was this little girl's first day of school, and the teacher asked her what her name was. She replied, "Happy Butt."

The teacher said, "Honey I don't think that's your name. You need to go to the principal's office and get this straightened out."

So she went to the principal's office, and he asked, "What's your name?"

And the little girl said, "Happy Butt."

The principal called the girl's mother to get this straightened out once and for all. After getting off the phone, he looked at the little girl and said, "Honey, your name is Gladys, not Happy Butt."

The girl then exclaimed, "Glad Ass, Happy Butt, what's the difference?

Featured Product

-- Men Can Enjoy Tantric G-Spot Orgasms, Too --

We felt a little bad that our new ebook, Awakening The Sacred Gate to Supreme Bliss: Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation, was all about improving women's sexual experience. Of course, we felt great about all the pleasure this kind of loveplay creates.

But we wanted to be fair. So we included another ebook at the end dedicated exclusively to men's pleasure. Our new ebook comes with a lengthy bonus chapter about the Male G-Spot.

Yes, guys have one too. Once again we've equalized the playing field so men and women can share the joys of Tantric G-Spot Orgasm. Women report these are deeper, stronger, longer, and more likely to lead to extended visits to the lofty Orgasm Zone. If you know how.

If you have any experience pleasuring G-Spots, you've probably realized that they're a bit elusive. Largely this is because deeper sexual stimulation is an acquired taste. Women who aren't comfortable with it and knowledgeable about it, often don't feel much or don't even like it at all. Oh, my, what they're missing!

We're trying to focus on men here, sorry. As we said, the good news is that men have a G-Spot, their prostate gland, and it triggers awesome climaxes, too. Massaging the male G-Spot helps men feel more pleasure and develop orgasm mastery. In fact, medical authorities believe it's the perfect way to improve the health of that little walnut-sized gland that so many men are concerned about. We hope you don't mind that prostate massage also feels great.

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-- Ecstatic Bliss Without Ejaculating --

Thanks for your continuing interest and encouragement. While I am not practicing as often as would be ideal, I am experiencing growing awareness of my arousal process as well as the flows of energy in my body. I obtained the Chakra Breathing CD and find that to be very helpful in culturing an awareness of my energetic presence.

My experience with the practice is continuing to progress. I am now able to saturate my awareness with and expand the ecstatic bliss of sexual energy throughout my body without ejaculating.

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Featured Article

"Sex & Spirit, Spirit & Sex - Part 2"
"How Does Tantra Make Your Sex Life Better?"

In our last issue, we began to show you how learning Tantra can improve your life. We covered the first two of the five major ways that Tantra has transformed our lives into more than we've ever dreamed possible...
* Seek Pleasure
* Self-Acceptance
* Know Who You Are
* Say Yes, Not No
* Better Relationship.
Now we're going to go into the final three. We'll explain a quick way to begin developing all five of these essential Tantric qualities with our two new introductory programs: Learn Tantra and Better Sex. And how to SAVE $200.00 while you're doing it!

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Of course, you can't accept yourself if you don't know who you really are. Seeking pleasure and accepting yourself puts you right in the middle of the game of discovering your true nature.

Tantra doesn't tell you what to seek for your joy. It says yes to whatever you choose, as long as you do it with consciousness, not blind reaction.

When you decide to feel good, love yourself, and let your heart be your guide, suddenly you can't depend on any higher authority to define right and wrong any more. You can't automatically and unconsciously adhere to rules, honor taboos, and behave morally according to values handed down from other struggling mortals like yourself. You've got to figure out your own answers.

You have to use your intrinsic guidance system: your feelings. New Tantra students, especially of the male persuasion, find themselves struggling to tune in to sensations, moods, and emotions more than ever before. They often discover that they've been conditioned to use the mind in place of their emotional guidance system.

With this kind of journey, every step becomes a step of self definition. Which is the central message of the early books in the "Conversations With God" series of books. God says (if you believe that's who's talking) that the whole purpose of life is to find out who you really are.

So what is your own true nature? Every day do you define yourself better? Do you create new options? Do you grow and develop the way you're seeking? Do you take you in choosing what brings you pleasure and leaving the rest alone without guilt or remorse?

Wasn't it the Bible that said "Know thyself and the truth shall set you free"? A real Tantric book no doubt.

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How do you seek pleasure, accept yourself, and find out who you really are?

Tantra says your basic tool is to say yes. Let things be, allow them to be, go with the flow.

We live in a culture that's predicated on saying no. We pass laws to define what we're not supposed to do. We go to court when we have a dispute with our neighbors. We have police to catch criminals who break the law. We fight against all sorts of things from drugs to diseases to droughts. We may have outlawed things like discrimination but that doesn't mean they've stopped.

All of this seeps in to our inner space. Not a day goes by that you don't feel something, have something, or realize you're stuck with something you'd rather not have. Tantra teaches you to accept what is, not only about yourself, but in every way that the world impacts you.

Otherwise you'll live with continuous stress. If you don't say yes to what comes up inside and out, your only other conscious choice is resistance. Then you lead your life by pushing against walls that you create inside. Talk about sentencing yourself to life in a prison of your own creation.

This isn't restful and it ain't no good for your body either. Sure, you can go to a stress-management seminar and learn how to relax after the fact. But what about going after the root cause?

Why not discover what you're judging, disapproving of, and disliking in the first place? Tantra doesn't force you to love those things that bug you, just let them be. Then, even when there are people or conditions around you that you'd just as soon be without, they don't eat away at your insides.

In other words, why bring the worries of the world into your inner space? Keep your mental hygiene as clean as possible. Keep your emotional space as harmonious as you can. Keep your spiritual energy flowing smoothly in the direction you choose.

The Tantric path is all about learning to look inside for your own answers yourself.

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If you embrace the previous four Tantric guidelines, you'll be much more lovable and capable of loving.

It's a Tantric truth that one who seeks love with a mate, family, community, or world, must first be in a joyous place. Then you're more whole, more complete, more present. If you're only 10% present, there's only a little part of you to love. And it may well be the most tarnished part.

Compassion from a dejected soul brings down the recipient. Buddha was renown for the compassion he felt for all living things. That compassion sprang from his heart when he became enlightened and wholly himself.

We're all conditioned with the expectation that loving someone means to think of them first, which is of course in stark contrast to the Tantra ideals we've explained. Are you the primary one who's responsible for your beloved's feelings, reactions, and happiness? Most relationships, after the initial honeymoon, settle in to a parade of resentments focused on the other person...
-- "What you said hurt me."
-- "If you loved me you would have done it."
-- "I don't know if I can forgive you for felling that way."

All of these are based on unexpressed expectations. Tantra teaches us to approach each new moment without expectation. Certainly we have desires and intentions, especially of the ones we love. But walking into any situation with the requirement that it follow certain rules or end with defined outcomes is a surefire prescription for frustration. Which we blame our beloved for.

As a result of surviving lots of struggles and guiding lots of successes, Somraj has at last understood the primary Tantric rule of relationships...

"Look at yourself and things get better, look at the other and they get worse."

As we said before, looking after yourself isn't selfish. It's the most giving thing you can do to maintain your aware, vibrant, loving center.

This is how Tantric personal responsibility becomes the springboard for honest communication, deeper intimacy, and the hottest sex of your life. Instead of being dependent on your mate's struggles, successes, and swings of mood, you become more and more stable yourself. Then there's more of you to love, be loving, and uplift the one you care the most about.

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Now you've been introduced to the five ways Tantra can transform your life overall. Seeking pleasure, self-acceptance, knowing who you are, saying yes, and bettering your relationship taken together are a valuable ticket to the better sex ride.

We have lots more to say about improving your sex life and the sex angle of Tantra in our next issue. But you don't have to wait for the rest of story to start having the most fun you could ever imagine.

Our new Learn Tantra Program is designed to launch singles and couples into learning Tantra as quickly as possible in the privacy of their own home. Look for the details about how to start and save $200 following this article.

We started on this track to answer the vital question: What does Tantra have to do with making your sex life better? That's what's coming next (was there a pun there?).

Same time, same station, same stars. Oh, sorry, it's not a TV program. It's our next "Sacred Sexual Secrets" email newsletter in a couple weeks.

Wishing you love and lots of long ecstatic lovemaking,

Dhyan Jeffre & Somraj

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Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D., cofounder of Supreme Bliss
Tantra, is an author, speaker, workshop leader, and licensed
SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical
experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-
author of Hotter Sex, Deeper Love.

Dhyan Somraj Pokras, cofounder of Supreme Bliss Tantra, is the
author of countless articles about Tantra, over 50 workshops,
and 4 books including "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery." During his
30 year career as a masseur, speaker, counselor, personal coach, group facilitator, and workshop trainer, Somraj has guided more that 20,000 people to lead more ecstatic and effective lives.

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Interesting Pubic Findings

-- Women Like It --

Women are enjoying sex much more than researchers have led us to believe.

4 years ago, sex researcher Edward Lauman came out with a study claiming that 43% of all women suffer from Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD), such as "lack of desire".

However, in a recent survey of 853 women conducted by the Kinsey Institute, only a quarter of the women were found to experience marked distress in their sex-lives.

The difference between the two results may be attributed to how we define sexual issues and "problems". Traditional polls have measured sexual success on physiological responses only but when emotional factors are also taken into consideration, the results actually indicate that women are mostly healthily lustful and loving their sex-lives.

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Juicy Joke

-- The Old Cowboy & The Lesbian --

An old cowboy went to a bar and ordered a drink. As he sat sipping his whiskey, a young lady sat down next to him.

She turned to the cowboy and asked, "Are you a real cowboy?"

He replied, "Well, ma'am, I've spent my whole life on the ranch, herding horses, mending fences, and branding cattle, so I guess I am."

She said, "I'm a lesbian. I spend my whole day thinking about women. As soon as I get up in the morning, I think about women. When I shower, I think about women. As I watch TV, or even eat, I think about women. Everything seems to make me think about women."

The two sat sipping in silence. A short time later, a man sat down on the other side of the old cowboy and asked, "Are you a real cowboy?"

He replied, "I always thought I was, but I just found out I'm a lesbian."

Tantric Quote

-- Decorate Erotically --

"Decorate the walls of the room where you make love with paintings and other objects that you can look at with pleasure. Spread around some musical instruments, fruit and drinks, rose water, essences, pillows and books with erotic content and pictures. There will be splendid lights reflecting in the mirrors on the walls while the man and the woman will not be embarrassed and will let them go naked in their erotic game on the bed. The sheets will perfume with different flower essences and nice smelling oils and there will be burnt incense in the air. In such an ambiance the man should touch the throne of love in his luxurious and comfortable game with the woman. He will make all her and his wishes come true." ---- The Ananga Ranga

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