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"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 5/27/03
Published by Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees & Dhyan Somraj Pokras
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2003 by Tantra At Tahoe
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sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
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Dear Reader

It's Memorial Day in the U.S. We think the history of this
holiday might have something to do with war. So we're
dedicating this issue to the battle cry of the 1960s..."Make Love,
Not War."

We're still celebrating, but we forget what. It's a Tantric thing,
we just like to party and enjoy life.

In honor of whatever the occasion is, we're still offering
newsletter subscribers a 10% discount on Somraj's best-selling
ebook, "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery." See instructions at the
end of the article about his great Tantric program for men.

We still expect to announce the publication of our new ebook
about the G-Spot and Female Ejaculation in our next newsletter.
We have to admit it's really great. The editing has been slower
than planned because we get so turned on going through it we
just have to stop and jump in bed.

Oh sorry, we mean we've been working the bugs out of the
powerful sacred sexual practices. Whatever, you're gonna love it!

This issue contains...
* Tantric Quote: "Newer World"
* Juicy Joke: "What Are You In For?"
* Friend's Feedback: "Lots Of Improvement"
* Featured Article: "The Ultimate Tantric Solution to
Premature Ejaculation"
* Interesting Pubic Findings: "Sexless Marriages"
* Juicy Joke: "The Circumcised Boy In Class"
* Tantric Quote: "Ecstasy"
* Friend's Feedback: "Easy Into Uncharted Waters"
* FREE Stuff : "You Could Be Our Next Winner Like Kim!"

Love from Tantra At Tahoe who is...
Dhyan Jeffre & Dhyan Somraj

Tantric Quote

-- Newer World --

"Come my friends, 'tis not too late to seek a newer world."
---- Alfred Lord Tennyson

Juicy Joke

-- What Are You In For? --

Two little boys are in a hospital, lying on stretchers next to each
other, outside the operating room. The first kid leans over and
asks, "What are you in here for?"

The second kid says, "I'm in here to get my tonsils out and I'm a
little nervous."

The first kid says, "You've got nothing to worry about. I had that
done when I was four. They put you to sleep, and when you wake
up they give you lots of Jell-O and ice cream. It's a breeze."

The second kid then asks, "What are you here for?"

The first kid says, "A Circumcision."

And the second kid says, "Whoa, Good luck buddy, I had that
done when I was born. Couldn't walk for a year."

Friend's Feedback About "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery"

-- Lots Of Improvement --

"I have begun reading the ebook and I am up to page 61. I have
been consistently working on my ejaculation control about 3
times a week. I am seeing a lot of improvement as far as pleasure
I feel and length of the session."

----- J.D. from West Lafayette

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Featured Article

-- The Ultimate Tantric Solution to Premature Ejaculation --

The Ecstatic Approach to Making Love For As Long As You Want,
While You Experience More Ecstasy Than You Ever Imagined

By Somraj Pokras of Tantra At Tahoe

In our last issue we introduced you to the first two letters of the
RAMPER formula for Tantric Orgasm Mastery. R for relaxation,
and A for awareness. The article continues...
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Chapter 2 explains:

"RAMPER requires you to tune in to your senses and sensations.
So what do you do with this sharpened awareness? The M in
RAMPER means to monitor and measure your level of arousal. If
you know where your excitement level is, then you can play with
it while stretching out your enjoyment and your partners'. The
forces that turn us on aren't always obvious, and change from
time to time. M is all about learning to read yourself so you know
where you're at precisely. As you practice, you'll learn to measure
your level of arousal as it climbs towards the point of no return.

"P stands for Pacing yourself. It also stands for Pleasure. If your
focus is on pleasure not orgasm, then you won't be rushing
headlong towards a destination. You won't be in a race towards
the finish line. You won't have a schedule to meet. You'll just slow
down and enjoy. That's a big part of pacing."

The key to pacing is peaking. Peaking means adjusting the
stimuli that give you sudden surges of arousal so you come back
down without going over the top. If you graphed peaking, it
would look like a steep ascent and then a steep descent. Which
is where it got its name.

Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery is all about learning to ride the
edge of the cliff, that fine line between absorbing all the pleasure
you can take, and taking too much all at once and cuming.

The E of RAMPER stands for energy and circulating it away from
your genitals. Chapter 2 continues:

"So here's a vital part of your initiation, you lucky stiff. Instead of
shooting for the Big O, as your arousal builds, redirect your
energy up, around, and throughout your body, allowing it to carry
you to higher and higher levels of pleasure. Some say it will fuel
your brain with cosmic energy and give you psychedelic visions.
Whatever. Not only will it feel ecstatic, but since you won't be
depleting your energy, you'll be able to last and last and last."

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The last R of RAMPER is about Riding the wave of ecstasy. As
Chapter 2 explains:

"That's why the acronym RAMPER is so apt, describing how your
pleasure ramps up. Most of us who cum quick never experience
these escalating plateaus. We never develop our capacity to
absorb more and more pleasure. When you do, it feels like
ecstatic waves surging inside."

Once you've experienced a non-stop whole-body inner orgasm,
you can understand how the typical male's fascination with
squirting a big load pales by comparison. This is why we call
Tantric lovemaking sexual meditation.

I hope this brief overview of the Tantric approach to orgasm
mastery helps. Unfortunately, in my experience, just reading
about RAMPER won't change your life forever. Tantra requires
practice to change your habits and energy patterns. That's why
Chapters 3 through 7 of Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery are
primarily made up of exercises that you do in the privacy of your
own bed. There's no room to include them all here, but a sample

Chapters 3 and 4 are about solo practices you can do to learn
about your own energy, arousal, and sexual patterns. The second
half of the ebook, beginning with Chapter 5 relies on a partner
to develop orgasm mastery. After all, it takes two to Tantra,
right? I've included one of the exercises from Chapter 5 where
you begin applying these joint skills. This exercise is based on a
fundamental Tantric practice, sexual breathing. This is slow
rhythmic deep belly breathing accompanied by the sounds and
movement you experience during orgasm. Learn this and you'll
understand why the breath is such a dominant force in running
sexual energy.

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Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery culminates in you mastering the
ability to ride the wave of Tantric lovemaking. As Chapter 7

"It's a wave of orgasmic energy, of love bliss, of ecstatic delirium,
of spiritual rapture. Once you experience it fully, it will
transform your life. Let me warn you, you won't be satisfied with
pure animal lust anymore. When you taste your connection to the
divine, you will want to stay home in bed, basking in the
mindless serenity.

"The moment of orgasm is the closest most people come to
communion with their inner being and God. Tantra teaches that
this experience is a brief glimpse into our true divine nature:
ecstatic in the body, compassionate in the heart, empty in the
mind, blissful in the spirit. To get a taste of this exalted
condition, just imagine the powerful experience of prolonged
and multiple orgasms.

"Tantric Love Play is more like sensuously sipping an expensive
Cabernet than chugging a six-pack of brew. It more resembles
sampling the delicacies at a gourmet buffet than inhaling a
pepperoni pizza during Monday Night Football. It's certainly
more like a twilight stroll through a perfumed garden during
Spring with your beloved on your arm than running a hundred-
yard dash.

"Tantric Love Play is leisurely, savoring every delicious morsel of
pleasure, instead of rushing headlong towards maximum turn-on
now. Tantric lovers move so slowly, stopping frequently to settle
deeply into the rising tide of pleasure, stretching the experience
out as long as possible. Releasing tension and giving in to the
urge to cum gets replaced with continuous streaming vibrations
of ecstatic energy. When we enter the altered state of
consciousness that comes with repeated implosive orgasms, we
simply want to float in a cloud of bliss together."

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By reading Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery, you'll master...
• modern & ancient proven secrets of prolonged lovemaking,
• how to have S.E.X. (that's Subtle Energy eXchange),
• a smorgasbord of techniques to stop you from coming when you
don't want to,
• how to direct that powerful urge to orgasm inward instead of
outward, channeling ecstatic energy to your pleasure centers,
• the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution to premature ejaculation.

The heart of Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery is proven to be 95%
successful if you're willing to practice with your sex energy. And
hey, that's lots of fun, right? It contains...
• A complete summary of best techniques from all over the
• A 200 page personal training program containing 50 exercises
and a way to choose the right ones for your situation.
• A fun way to learn to have different kinds of orgasms than
you're used to.
• A gradual step-by-step teaching method for sexual muscle
• Multiple answers to every possible question in a pragmatic way.
• The Tantric path of love on multiple levels, including sex,
heart, and spirit,
• How to be the kind of lover that women crave.

Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery includes...
• the causes, solutions, mechanics, and anatomy of orgasm,
• graphic stories of erotic play,
• 30 solo exercises that help you prepare for partner work,
• surefire ways to learn pacing, peaking, and plateauing,
• a smorgasbord of physical techniques to interrupt ejaculation,
• 18 partner exercises based on everything you learned solo.,
• 33 sexual positions and how they affect arousal,
• methods to recruit and brief sexual partners, and
• actual advice from Tantric Goddesses experienced in
teaching orgasm mastery.

Since it's an electronic book, your purchase and participation
remains confidential, though of course you can print a copy for
your own private use.

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Well, that's my story and I'm sticking to it. My sex life is
certainly transformed, and I hope yours will become too. Now
that you've read my introduction to Ultimate Ejaculation
Mastery, you understand its promise. You know what you need.
It's time to make your move and invest a little in your ecstatic
sexual future.

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Wishing you love and lots of long ecstatic lovemaking,

Dhyan Jeffre & Somraj

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Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees, Ph.D., cofounder of Supreme Bliss
Tantra, is an author, speaker, workshop leader, and licensed
SkyDancing Tantra Teacher with over 30 years of clinical
experience in relationships and human sexuality. Jeffre is co-
author of "Hotter Sex, Deeper Love."

Dhyan Somraj Pokras, cofounder of Supreme Bliss Tantra, is the
author of countless articles about Tantra, over 50 workshops,
and 4 books including "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery." During his
30 year career as a speaker, counselor, personal coach, group
facilitator, and workshop trainer, Somraj has guided more that
20,000 people to lead more ecstatic and effective lives.

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Interesting Pubic Findings

-- Sexless Marriages, Low Libido, The Silent Suffering Of Men --

"Have you read about men's decreased desire for sex and
intimacy? According to USA Today, more than 40 million
Americans are in low-sex or no-sex marriages, and it's
increasingly the men who are shying away from sex -- and
increasingly their wives who are becoming outspoken in their
frustration. Here's a look at the false promises of Viagra (and
how it can set men up to fail), how men can't talk about low
libido because their identities are tied up in virility and
"performance-on-demand," the effect of naturally decreasing
testosterone in men in their 40s, and how sexual anger and
frustration damages relationships." To read the article, click

---- Thanks to SexNewsDaily at <>.

(ED: Sure makes it clear why people, especially men, need
Tantra, doesn't it?)

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-- You Could Be Our Next Winner Like Kim! --

Congratulation to Kim Hayden who won our April CONTEST by
entering our on-line poll and will receive a free copy of our new
in progress ebook, "Awakening The Sacred Gate To Supreme
Bliss: Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation" when it's
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Juicy Joke

-- The Circumcised Boy In Class --

A teacher notices that a little boy at the back of the class is
squirming around, scratching his crotch and not paying
attention. She goes back to find out what's up.

He's quite embarrassed and whispers that he has just recently
been circumcised and he's quite itchy. The teacher tells him to
go down to the principal's office, to phone his mum, and ask her
what he should do about it.

He does this and returns to the class, sits down in his seat and
suddenly, there's a general commotion at the back of the room.
Back down she goes, only to find him sitting at his desk with his
penis hanging out.

"I thought I told you to call your mom" she says. "

I did" he says. "She told me that if I could stick it out till noon,
she'd come and pick me up from school.

Tantric Quote

-- Ecstasy --

"First, find out what you love most in the world, and make it a
priority in your life. Second, breathe. Your breath is the bridge
between you and spirit, and a key to ecstasy. Nourish yourself
with breath - not just now and then, but always. Third, find a
community of people who share your hunger for ecstasy and
support your soul work.  Don't try to do it alone; it doesn't work."
----- Jalaja Bonheim

Friend's Feedback

-- Easy Into Uncharted Waters --

"We want to thank you both for a truly wonderful weekend and a
very enlightening experience. We both were somewhat
apprehensive not knowing who you were or how you ran your
program. In no time at all your gentle ways and easy manner
made us feel comfortable and relaxed. You provided an
atmosphere that made it easy for us to move forward into new
and, in some ways, uncharted waters. Both of you are wonderful
guides and teachers." ------ H & M from New Mexico

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