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Your Tantra Newsletter: How To Become An Aficionado Of LoveMaking Styles - Part 3 - Spiritual Sex Is A Sexual Style Where Anything Goes With Consciousness, Communication, And Consent

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 5/16/07

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Published by Somraj Pokras and Jeffre TallTrees

ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2007 by TantraAtTahoe.com

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This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.

Our Motto: Deeper Into The Heart Of Sex

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Dear Tantra Subscriber:

We're going to wrap up our titillating journey through the foreign lands of kinky sexual styles. You can read the previous installments in our April 18 and May 2 issues here: http://www.tantraattahoe.com/resource/news.htm. In Supreme Bliss Tantra  you know, that's a good thing, getting turned on while you're writing articles. Plus when you're reading, too. So enjoy!

And do let us know what sexual styles are your favorites at http://www.tantraattahoe.com/connect/feedback.htm.

Love, Somraj, Jeffre, and John

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* Featured Article: "How To Become An Aficionado Of Sexual Styles 3"

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Juicy Joke: "Happy and Sad"

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A husband and wife were sharing a bottle of wine when the husband said, "I'll bet you can't tell me something which will make me happy and sad at the same time."

The wife thought for a few moments, then said, "How much you're willing to bet?"

"One hundred dollars!" said the boisterous husband.

"That's all?" inquired the wife.

"OK, two hundred."

"Not too sure of yourself, are you?" teased the wife.

Felling pretty good, the hubby announced, "Five hundred!"

The wife twinkled her nose and calmly said, "Your pecker is bigger than your brother's."

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Featured Article: "Supreme Bliss Tantra Urges You To Become An Aficionado Of LoveMaking Styles - Part 3"
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Spiritual Sex Is A Sexual Style Where Anything Goes

With Consciousness, Communication, And Consent

In our last issue, I explored many more sexual styles. In the last installment of this series, we're going to really go for it and look at some further extremes. This article ends with a listing -- only partial at this point -- of all the styles I've discussed. Still hoping you can add to that list and win some free products by emailing me here: http://www.tantraattahoe.com/connect/feedback.htm.

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How Adventurous Are You?

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Some years ago we attended a Native American sacred sexuality workshop and learned about the triangle of the totally natural lover. The three healthy corners of healthy expression they advised us to play with were:

1) adventurer,

2) voyeur, and

3) exhibitionist.

Here, I've been bugging you to be more of an adventurer than a stick in the mud. (Now that really brings some vulgar possibilities to mind, doesn't it?.) Of course, always with the consent of your bed partner.

But the other two, voyeur and exhibitionist, need each other to work in a consensual environment. In its mildest form, experimenting with voyeurism would mean watching porn. If you want to push the envelope further, you could go to strip club together to get turned on. The wilder amongst you could go to a sex club or swinger party and just watch.

The exhibitionists there will love it, I promise.

And maybe some day you'll want to cross over to the other side and make love in front of others. You don't have to have an open relationship or become a swinger to do this. Just push hard on the edges of your comfort zone.

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How To Experiment

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If I've freaked out one of you and ignited the prevent in the other, I'm sorry. I'm not trying to talk you into losing the sacred intimacy of your spiritual connection and imposing any of these wild ideas on your reluctant partner. No, these are just examples of the rainbow variety of sexual styles that tens of thousands of lovers just like you have tried on for size. And millions more haven't.

Did you know that over 50% of lovers have experimented with anal sex? That doesn't mean you have to love being fucked back there because the out-there types do. But maybe after the above forays into public exposure a little lubricated riming with a rubber glove doesn't seem such an outrageous style experiment after all.

I'm just trying to get you to look at any ruts you've gotten stuck in so you can find some new hot, joyous, juicy pathways to get the energy flowing big time again. Which means sexual styles that work for you, not make you run for cover.

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“My schoolmates would make love to anything that moved, but I never saw any reason to limit myself.” -- Emo Phillips

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If you want to accept the challenge and get more creative with your sex life, let me give you some guidelines from Supreme Bliss Tantra. Spiritual Sex is a conscious, consensual practice where you talk more about what you like, what you want to try, and what you're willing to do for each other. Because we believe any kind of physical pleasure is a divine gift and seeking more satisfaction is a sacred journey for each of us, we drop society's judgments about what's OK and what's taboo.

So your honey wants to bring a vibrator into bed with. Well, go for it and see what it does for each of you.

So your lover comes home with a Kama Sutra Sex Positions picture book and wants to try a new one every time you make love. As long as you don't strain yourself, what's the harm?

So your main squeeze wants to try a threesome at least once. Can you express your anxieties and establish some firm boundaries so you can try it?

Just make sure you talk about it beforehand and agree on the borders of your new playground for now. You might get really turned on using phone brainstorming as real hot foreplay. And don't forget to discuss how it felt and what you'd be willing to do again afterwards. Because you agree to experiment, that doesn't mean you're committed to doing anything the next time.

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Use a device that's common amongst BDSM (bondage, domination, sadism and masochism) players, a safe word that means absolutely and immediately "STOP!". Be sure to choose a word (pomegranate, Madagascar, etc.) that's totally unlikely to come up during your fun and games.

Establishing a safe word before you start is highly comforting to squeamish players. At least they know if they get in over their head, they can pull the plug at any time. (Sorry, there I go again with the double meanings.)

And while we're on the subject, what about considering a little bondage or mild pain where it does the most good?

In the eyes of Supreme Bliss Tantra, both John's and Margie's desires for different kinds of experiences are perfectly fine. They just have to be conscious, talk about them, and know what's going to happen. Being upfront about all this means they can choose rough-housing sometimes with negotiated limits, and sweet gentle play at others.

Or any other of the styles I've suggested or the thousands I haven't that you probably have already started to invent.

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"Do what your nature wants to do, do what your intrinsic qualities hanker to do. Listen to your own heart...very consciously." -- OSHO

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If it hasn't happened yet, I bet some of you are resisting the whole idea of everything always being consensual. Any chance you're thinking "What about the excitement of not knowing what's going to happen, of being taken against my will?"

Well, friends, that's just another style you better negotiate beforehand, especially if you want to avoid arrests and lawsuits. Frankly, you can agree at times to completely surprise and ravish your partner. See, you're already creatively pushing the limits of your comfort zone.

Here's a partial list of the sexual styles I've referred to so far. Looking forward to your contributions:

Experimental

Conservative

Inhibited

Responsive

Animal lust

Leading

Following

Domination

Submission

Blindfolded

Pain

Hard

Gentle

Fast

Slow

Quickie

Longie

Maximize and lengthen pleasure

Push for bigger and quicker orgasms

Spiritual Sex to raise your kundalini energy

Push for simultaneous orgasm

One at a time

Frigid

Sensual sweet loving

Animal lust

Passionate

Noisy

Quiet

Lots of variety

Same old consistent rut

Only the missionary position

Lots of Kama Sutra Tantra sex positions

Talking about sex

Talk dirty

Do it in bed

Do it in public

Lights on

Lights off in the dark

Do it in other rooms

Do it in nature

Sexy clothing

With or without toys

With or without porn

Partner sex

Self-pleasuring to raise your energy

Solo sex

Masturbation to get off

Monogamous sex with the same one

Open relationship for sex with others

Focus on giving

Focus on receiving

Focus on intercourse

Focus on multiple orgasms

Focus on simultaneous orgasms

Oral sex

Digital sex

Focus on clitoris

Focus on her G-Spot

Focus on penis

Focus on his G-Spot

Anal sex

Fantasy

Being yourself

Role Playing

Romantic love of the Knights Of The Round Table

Celibacy

Enjoy your explorations and let us know about them here: http://www.tantraattahoe.com/connect/feedback.htm. Remember, if we publish your story about your sexual styles we'll give you a free ebook or ecourse.

I look forward to meeting you on the other side.

Love, Somraj

Your Supreme Bliss Tantra Mentor

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Juicy Joke: "Shot Three Times In The Stomach"

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A pregnant woman walks into a bank, and lines up at the first

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As time goes on the woman has three children. Two girls and a boy.

Twelve years later, one of the girls comes up to her mother and says

"Mommy, I've done a very weird thing!" Her mother asks her what

happened and her daughter replies "I passed a bullet into the

toilet". The woman comforts her and explains all about the accident

at the bank.

A few weeks later, her other daughter comes up to her with tears

streaming from her eyes. "Mommy, I've done a very bad thing!", the

mother says "Let me guess. You passed a bullet into the toilet,

right?". The daughter looks up from her teary eyes and says "Yes.

How did you know?". The mother comforts her child and explains

about the incident at the bank.

A month later the boy comes up and says "Mommy, I've done a very bad

thing!". "You passed a bullet into the toilet, right?" "No, I was

masturbating and I shot the dog."

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