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The Ecstatic Tantric Solution To Premature Ejaculation

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 5/5/04
Published by Dhyan Somraj Pokras & Dhyan Jeffre TallTrees
ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2004 by Tantra At Tahoe (530) 587-1317
This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from modern
sex research and the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama
Sutra. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra to help you deepen
relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual
ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.
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Dear Reader:

We wish you a hearty and juicy Cinch De Mayo, one of the fun-filled Mexican holidays, known for margaritas, cerveza, and tequila. Though Tantra is sacred sexuality, we do applaud those who go for maximum gusto in life. We just don't depend on alcohol for our turn-ons.

But we do encourage you to lead your life Tantrically. Which means you follow Somraj's ex-wife's main motto: Whatever turns you on!

You see, in Tantra we want you to be totally ecstatic all the time, or at least for hours and hours of sex as often as you can squeeze it in. (Sorry, our double meanings really flow when we've just made love like we did this morning.) Which is why this issue's featured article gives away 12 ancient secrets every guy can use to prolong his lovemaking. Ladies, listen up, you have a hand in this critical exercise. Pun intended.

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Enjoy a sexy Cinch De Mayo and make every day as a holiday.

This issue contains...
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* Juicy Joke: "Sure Signs A Woman Needs More Action"
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* Featured Article: "12 Top Tips To Cure Coming Quickly"
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* Interesting Pubic Findings: "The Value Of A Good Sex Life"
* Juicy Joke: "The New Blonde At The Toy Factory"
* Tantric Quote: "Making Sex Grow"
* Friend's Feedback: "Singing Tantra Praises"
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Tantric Quote
- Who To Love -

"No government has the right to tell its citizens when or whom to love. The only queer people are those who don't love anybody." -- Rita Mae Brown

Juicy Joke
- Sure Signs A Woman Needs More Action -

Your fantasies have steadily descended from Brad Pitt's crotch and Antonio Banderas's butt to the knobby knees of your ancient mailman.

In the grocery store, you find yourself lingering too long near the cucumbers.

Even though your house is cleaner than it ever was, you have time to clean it again.

You wonder if Jared from those Subway TV commercials has a girlfriend.

You're developing carpal tunnel syndrome, and it ain't from typing.

Your handy box of condoms by your bedside has not only expired, but the company that made them has gone out of business.

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Featured Article
"12 Top Tips To Cure Coming Quickly"
"The Ecstatic Tantric Solution To Premature Ejaculation"

Studies show that there are at least 30 million men in the United States alone who suffer from premature ejaculation. As do their partners who want more when they finish too soon.

Experts estimate coming quickly affects 30% of male lovers at one time or another. How many hundreds of millions across the world is that?

So we're hereby declaring that's enough! Tantra provides the ultimate solution. Our crusade starts now to help every lover anywhere in the world who wants to stop premature ejaculation permanently.

What Exactly Is PE?
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What exactly is premature ejaculation? It's not a matter of minutes or seconds. In Tantra, premature means before you and your partner have had enough. If you've read any of our recent newsletters, you realize that the ancient art of sacred sexuality is all about maximizing pleasure and turning each moment of lovemaking into a supreme delight that's more intense than any quick squirt.

So we prefer to call this situation simply a timing problem that's easily overcome with training. How do you change an ingrained sexual timing pattern? As I wrote in my best-selling ebook "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery: The Ecstatic Tantric Solution To Premature Ejaculation"...

"The Eastern cultures that developed Tantra and the Kama Sutra didn't have drugs or other foreign instruments to help provide a premature ejaculation remedy, maintain orgasm control, have longer sex, and extend ecstatic lovemaking. Instead, the early Tantra adepts experimented, learned, and practiced until they figured out a premature ejaculation remedy that provided ways to enjoy multiple orgasms without stopping natural flows or losing energy. With the power of their minds, they developed sexual techniques that refined their physical skills to levels unheard of in the modern world. In fact, they learned how to heighten their senses, raise consciousness, and maximize energy from their sexual techniques and practices."

The Four Phases Of Sex
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Masters and Johnson, who did the ground-breaking sex research in the 60s, decided that sex happens in phases - arousal, plateau, orgasm, resolution. The secret to ejaculation mastery is to simply learn to extend the plateau phase indefinitely.

If my use of the term "simply" puts you off, I'm sorry. Before I learned to spread out my pleasure nearly indefinitely, I would have scoffed at that, too. I needed to experience something different and change my consciousness about lovemaking, which Tantra did for me and can do for you.

But does it really work? Well, I give a 100% money-back guarantee to prove that it does. And here's what Patrick from Asheville in North Carolina reported...

"Before I took up Tantra, I couldn't last longer in bed than 4 seconds. Now that you have enlightened me about Tantra, I can go for hours. After 4 months of practicing Tantra, I can now go for 7 hours! I just can't believe that it is just that powerful and I would like to thank you for your teachings."

To be honest, this shift in consciousness and mastery over the powerful forces surging through your body isn't instant for most guys. It takes practice.

What To Do With That Irresistible Urge
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Maybe the biggest challenge for me was to overcome what I call the "urge to cum." You know what happens when you get turned on? It seems like something inside takes over and convinces you to just let go.

As I wrote... "For a microsecond I don't want to give you the idea that there's anything wrong with this urge. Desire isn't the problem. Premature male ejaculation is. We just want to stop PE in its tracks so that delightful urge, that throbbing desire, and longer sex goes on and on for hours, right?"

That's where a lot of the products on the market try to take advantage of what you don't know about sexuality. Don't we all get barraged with spam about pills and creams to make you less sensitive? Maybe they work for some (at great monthly expense), but I haven't heard great reports myself.

Of course, many use alcohol to deaden their sexual nerves too. But is that what you want... to feel less?

As "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery" in says Chapter 1...
"Please believe me that being sensitive is a good thing. Would you rather be numb and not feel those delicious sensations? Would you like to learn how to feel less and block your potential for ecstasy? Well, that's not what the Ultimate Tantric Solution is about. It's about creating more pleasure and mastering its ups and downs so you can make your cock stay up forever."

Do You Want What I Did?
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I bet you want what I wanted when I started on this path of learning and self-discovery. You want a natural, permanent way to master your body's processes without being addicted to drugs that cost you money every month.

Now I'm going to let you in on a big secret that the ancients knew and a fair portion of modern men have stumbled on: ejaculation and orgasm are different things. And you can learn to separate them by doing the exercises in my ebook. It's actually quite easy if you practice regularly.

I'm sorry that I can't give you all the 50 exercises in "Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery" here. But what I can do is share with you one practice that you can put into action right away.

In my research and studies, I've run across 12 different way to interrupt the ejaculation process. This can help you in the short term until you learn to separate orgasm from ejaculation.

12 Top Tips To Cure Coming Quickly
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Here's a summary of the 12 ways taken from Chapter 4...

• 1 type of Perineum Press (pushing up on the soft spot between your testicles and anus)

• 3 types of PC Muscles Squeezes (one long and hard, two medium, or several quick squeezes of your pubococcygeus muscles, the ones that snake around the floor of your pelvis)

• 2 types of Pelvic Root Locks (push out or pull up on your anal muscles)

• 3 types of Penis Squeezes (squeeze at the base, middle, or crown of your penis when you're real close)

• 3 types of Testicle Pulls (pull your testicles down with your thumb and forefinger, pull down on your scrotum, or relax the muscles supporting your balls)

Some of these techniques come from secret texts that taught men longer lovemaking thousands of years ago. I've heard many world-class male lovers today swear by some of these techniques.

There's Even A Better Way
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But I've got to level with you, stopping an orgasm just isn't my idea of great sexual fun. Wouldn't you rather be able to keep going with all that pleasure instead of suddenly derailing the train? I sure would.

That's why this easy re-training process is really a Tantric practice. It's about learning to master the movement of your inner forces so you can learn to go with the ecstatic flow that's trying to erupt within you.

When you learn to master the incredible life force of your sexuality, you'll be able to channel that power to places other than out the end of your pleasure stick. And exchange energy with your beloved for the longest time instead of making a big wet spot too soon.

OK, enough of my soapbox for now. I appreciate you letting me get all this off my chest. It's just that I want you to have the Supreme Bliss we create with Tantra.

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Interesting Pubic Findings

- The Value Of A Good Sex Life -

Economists study the values of things and relationships. And because they see the world as a series of value transactions, they sometimes measure things you wouldn't expect. (It's how they get promoted.) Which leads us to economics professors Andrew Oswald and David Blanchflower, who have determined that --

A good sex life with regular intercourse is worth about USD$53,219

A happy, loving, monogamous marriage is worth about USD$97,568

What do the numbers mean? "The financial values that we calculated are what it would cost to compensate someone [for a good sex life or a happy marriage] in money terms," said Blanchflower. In other words, the amount of happiness you get from marriage is about the same as you'd supposedly get from $100,000.

The study also found that women are generally happier than men, that married people are generally happier than single or divorced people, and that first marriages are generally happier than second marriages.
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- The New Blonde At The Toy Factory -

A new blonde employee is hired at the Tickle Me Elmo factory
and she reports for her first day promptly at 8:00 am. The
next day at 8:45 am there is a knock at the Personnel Manager's
door. The Foreman from the assembly line throws open the door
and begins to rant about the new employee. He complains that
she is incredibly slow and the whole line is backing up,
putting the entire plant behind schedule. The Personnel
Manager decides that he should see this for himself so the two
men march down to the factory floor.

When they get there the line is so backed up that there are
Elmos all over the floor and they're really beginning to pile
up. At the end of the line stands the new blonde employee.
She has a roll of red plush fabric and a big bag of marbles.
The men watch in amazement as she cuts a little piece of
fabric, wraps it around two marbles and begins to sew the little
package between Elmo's legs.

The Personnel Manager bursts into laughter. After several
minutes of hysterics he pulls himself together and approaches
the woman.

"I'm sorry," he says to her, barely able to keep a straight
face, "but I think you misunderstood me yesterday. Your job
is to give each Elmo two test tickles."

Tantric Quote
- Making Sex Grow -

"There is no way of making a hedge grow like pruning it. There is no way of making sex interesting like repressing it." -- Alan Watts

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