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Your Tantra Newsletter: How To Become An Aficionado Of LoveMaking Styles - Part 2 - Spiritual Sex Is A Sexual Style Where Anything Goes With Consciousness, Communication, And Consent

"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 5/2/07


Published by Somraj Pokras and Jeffre TallTrees

ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2007 by

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This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.

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Dear Tantra Subscriber:

Here's the second installment of our windy journey through the exotic land of sexual styles. You can read the previous installment in our April 18 issue here:

We'd love to hear about your sexual styles at

Love, Somraj, Jeffre, and John



* Juicy Joke: "A Couple Of Plastic Garbage Bags"

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* Juicy Joke: "We Just Have To Wait A Bit Longer"

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Juicy Joke: "A Couple Of Plastic Garbage Bags"

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A little old lady is walking down the street dragging two

plastic garbage bags with her, one in each hand. There's a hole

in one of the bags and every once in a while a $20 bill comes

flying out of it onto the pavement. Noticing this, a policeman

stops her.

"Ma'am, there are $20 bills falling out of that bag."

"Damn!" says the little old lady, "I'd better go back and see

if I can gather up some of them. Thanks!"

"Well, now, not so fast," says the cop. "Where did you get that

money? Did you steal it?"

"Oh, no," says the little old lady. "You see, my yard backs up

to the parking lot of the football stadium. Each time there's a

game, a lot of fans come and pee in the bushes right into my

flower beds! So, I stand behind the bushes with a big hedge

clipper and each time some guy sticks his dick through the

bushes, I say; '$20 or off it comes!'"

"Hey not a bad idea!" laughs the cop. "Ok, good luck! By the

way, what's in the other bag?"

"Well," says the little old lady, "not all of them pay up.


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Featured Article: "Supreme Bliss Tantra Urges You To Become An Aficionado Of LoveMaking Styles - Part 2"
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Spiritual Sex Is A Sexual Style Where Anything Goes

With Consciousness, Communication, And Consent

In our last issue, I introduced you to the whole concept of sexual style. You know, the myriad different ways you can approach the whole game of love from wild animal, to soft and sweet, to almost being caught in public, to courtly romance. That last was the way a medieval knight was supposed to honor his amour from afar with only pure thoughts (yeah, right!).

When we had to end last time, we were just about to suggest some ways that dabbling with new sexual styles could offer opportunities for personal growth. For example . . .

- Your favorite partner might ask you to give a new kind of oral sex that might be uncomfortable. So you get to look at where the discomfort comes from and decide what's really true for you. And then develop the skill and learn to enjoy it.

- Now you've got the chance to experience what you've always secretly dreamed having done to you with a dildo. You might discover that you don't really have the guts to ask for it and have to work on your communication skills in bed. And then you've got to be able to surrender.

- The two of you are talking about playing out an extreme ropes-and-chains fantasy that pushes some strong buttons for each of you, both hot ones and challenging ones. So now you get to find out how you really feel about doing it. And if you go for it, to work through your resistance.

This whole discussion reminds me of the first time me and my wife made love with another couple. Something I'd dreamed and fantasized about for years and really turned me on. But when we got to the hotel room, I was paralyzed. Damn, I couldn't move a muscle. Fortunately the other woman was able to move mine, at least for a couple minutes.

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"I awoke to the realization (almost too late) that even in marriage I had a little guilty feeling about sex, as though the whole thing was tinged with evil. A very fine old gentleman started me out on the right track by interesting me in the practices of, or I should say, moral standards of, the primitive peoples never exposed to our civilization such as the Polynesians. These peoples who are truly children of nature and thus of God, accept physical desire as a natural, normal appetite to be satisfied honestly and fearlessly with no surrounding aura of sin and sly whispers in the darkness." -- Ronald Reagan

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The style of Spiritual Sex -- anything goes as long as you're conscious and agree on it first -- really can include a whole spectrum of styles. As a result of such intense loveplay, you evolve personally as well as sexually. You learn about yourself, your preferences, and your missing turn-ons. You develop new communication skills because you intentionally put yourself into new situations you yourself create. You discover firm boundaries that require you to summon your assertiveness to hold to. And most important, you unleash dormant reserves of energy that empower your self-image, your creativity, and your passion.

That reminds me that we've left out some basic choices about sexual style. Do you do it with yourself or with another? Do you self-pleasure, the Supreme Bliss Tantra ritual of honoring your divine pleasure and filling yourself with intense orgasmic energy, or do you masturbate, getting yourself off as quickly and strongly as you can? Come one, every one does it so not learn from it and enjoy it?

Or for that matter, do you prefer to play with more than one other lover at a time?

Want to play with fire? Here are some things to talk about to expand your sexual style repertoire. Do you want to . . .

- Try talking dirty while going at it and see how that feels.

- Don't just make love in the bedroom. How about the living room sofa, the kitchen table, or the shower? Or why not go for a drive and enjoy the back seat or on a nice day in the country, on the hood? And since you're already out there, why not spread a blanket in a meadow or under a tree?

- If you usually do it with the lights off under the covers, try throwing the blankets on the floor and turning the lights on.

- If you're usually naked, why not dress up sexy and leave some lace, leather, or garments on?

- Ever blindfolded your sweetie or gotten tied down and been taken? What about handcuffing and gagging your main squeeze and having your way when it suits your fancy?

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How Handy Are You?

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Of course, we have to place the whole discussion about expanding your sexual style options within the context of the stereotype of typical modern lovemaking: as little foreplay as possible, a few minutes of missionary intercourse where he comes and she doesn't, and then he rolls over and falls asleep. You can choose what you want but that one isn't high on our list of Spiritual Sex games.

We have Betty Dodson and other feminists to thank for today's deeper understanding of a woman's anatomy and how important stimulating her clio (clitoris) is to her pleasure and orgasms. (Hey, that's a style choice we haven't mentioned: do you want to make the pleasure last and grow, or push for the Big O?) Some clios are close to yoni's opening which make for exciting intercourse.

But for those clios that don't get much stimulation from vajra's in and out motions, and for those clios that need a lot to wake up, other sexual styles are recommended. Finger play for one. No, I'm not just suggesting more foreplay. I'm talking about using your fingers -- and maybe toys -- to stimulate clio for the longest time in many different ways for intense pleasure and multiple orgasms.

And then there's using your mouth with the same shift in attitude.

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"The entire mystery of pleasure in a woman's body lies in the intensity of the pulsation just before the orgasm. Sometimes it is slow, one-two-three, three palpitations which then project a fiery and icy liqueur throughout the body. If the palpitation is feeble, muted, the pleasure is like a gentler wave. The pocket seed of ecstasy bursts with more or less energy, when it is richest it touches every portion of the body, vibrating through every nerve and cell. If the palpitation is intense, the rhythm and beat of it is slower and the pleasure more lasting. Electric flesh-arrows, a second wave of pleasure falls over the first, a third which touches every nerve end, and now the third like an electric current traversing the body. A rainbow of color strikes the eyelids. A foam of music falls over the ears. It is the gong of the orgasm. There are times when a woman feels her body but lightly played on. Others when it reaches such a climax it seems it can never surpass." -- Anais Nin

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Digital sex -- that means with your fingers, not your computer -- offers some tremendous advantages for learning about your own and your lover's body. Sexual adventurers revel in their discovery of many different kinds of orgasms though exploring different styles. G-Spot orgasms are so elusive for many and so powerful for those who awaken their sacred gate to supreme bliss that we've written a couple ebooks about this journey.

One for women, "Tantric G-Spot Orgasm & Female Ejaculation: Awakening Her Sacred Gate To Supreme Bliss," which you can read all about and download here:

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That's all we have room for in this issue. I decided to add a listing of all the styles we've explored here so we're going to split up the next installment across our two newsletters. Which allows us to give you a chance to contribute. Send us a short explanation of different sexual styles you like here And don't forget to explain graphically what you like about them. If we publish your account, we'll give you your choice of one of our ebooks or ecourses. So be sure to sign your email with the name and location you want printed, with your permission, of course.

Love, Somraj

Your Supreme Bliss Tantra Mentor


Juicy Joke: "We Just Have To Wait A Bit Longer"

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John and Mary had been high school sweethearts, but they had never

had sex.

"We'll have to wait until we are married," she told him. So he waits.

They are engaged three years, and finally the big day rolls around.

On their wedding night, Mary comes out of the bathroom, and says "I

have some bad news. I have my period, and I don't want our first

time to be all bloody!"

John says, "You're kidding!"

Mary says, "We'll just have to wait a bit longer."

Mary goes to sleep, and wakes up at 3:00 am to get a drink. On her

way back to bed, she notices Johnny wide awake staring at the


"There's no use John," she said "You might as well go to sleep."

"I would, except my dick's so hard there's not enough skin left to

close my eyes!"



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