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"Sacred Sexual Secrets" Newsletter 4/18/07


Published by Somraj Pokras and Jeffre TallTrees

ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2007 by

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This free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of Tantra and the Kama Sutra coupled with modern sex research. We teach Supreme Bliss Tantra which is spiritual sex that helps you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through long-distance learning and hands-on training.

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Dear Tantra Subscriber:

Tantric Sex may be our favorite way to make love and bring spirit and heart-connection into the bedroom. But building slowly for hours like this to fill our body, mind, and spirit with orgasmic energy isn't the only way we play. The myriad of other approaches you can enjoy are what we call Sexual Style, and the theme of our featured article here.

We're sorry that you haven't heard from us lately. On top of studying new forms of shamanic energy practices and working with clients, it seems that running our busy website and writing new ebooks and ecourses for you are really two full-time jobs. Sometimes we get absorbed in one and sometimes the other.

To keep them both afloat and growing, we're looking for someone to help manage and market Do you have the interest and skills? Or do you know someone who would be qualified? All we need is one spiritually upbeat person who knows about web marketing and likes sex. Now that doesn't seem like that much to ask, does it?

Let us know if you can help. Plus we'd love to hear about your sexual styles at

Love, Somraj, Jeffre, and John



* Juicy Joke: "Mating Call"

* Featured Article: "How To Become An Aficionado Of LoveMaking Styles"

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* Juicy Joke: "Explaining Sex To Kids"

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Juicy Joke: "Mating Call"

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The young Farmer Brown made an appointment with

the family doctor, regarding sexual problems he was

having with his wife.

"Now listen, Luke," the doctor advised, "you have to

be more loving to your wife. Give her lots of hugs and

kisses. Show her how much you care."

"Well, I do the best I can, Doc," the fellow cried. "You

see I'm up before the sun rises, working in the field

until dusk. I'm just too tired."

The doctor thought for a moment and then said, "Take

a shotgun with you next time you work in the field and

shoot it off every time you're feeling a bit frisky. When

your wife hears the noise, she'll come a-runnin'."

About a month later Farmer Brown went back to the doctor....

this time really depressed.

"What's wrong?" asked the doctor. "Didn't you take my


"Yep, I sure did, and everything was going great until

hunting season started last week," moaned the farmer.

"I haven't seen her since."


Featured Article: "Supreme Bliss Tantra Urges You To Become An Aficionado Of LoveMaking Styles"
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Spiritual Sex Is A Sexual Style Where Anything Goes

With Consciousness, Communication, And Consent

For the first few weeks after John and Margie fell madly in love, their sex life was juicy, hot, and exciting. Then, the more they made love, the more it became clear how much she wanted it rough sometimes. Really rough.

Because he'd never made love to such a wild animal before, that really turned John on at first. In fact, he got caught up in the game, making love more and more like the primal beast deep inside he'd always kept locked away.

Slowly things began to change. John started to worry that he was hurting Margie. Which was, of course, the last thing he wanted to do to someone he loved so much. Without even realizing it, he started to hold back little by little.

Part of him felt bad that he couldn't let go and give Margie the hard pounding that he thought she wanted all the time. At the same time, part of him didn't want to mess up their fantastic once-in-a-lifetime connection. Like so many of us, he didn't talk about his inner conflict which made him feel worse because he didn't bring it up.

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"In order for a man to be able to follow a woman on the successive waves of pleasure, he has but one solution: to become a woman energetically. That is, to abandon himself totally, let go, surrender, completely." -- DANIEL ODIER in “Desire”

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Are you yelling at John inside that he has to talk to Margie before the tension in their lovemaking spoils the rest of their relationship? Well, of course he should. Anyone not caught up in this kind of dilemma can see the writing on the wall. Open, frank, loving communication is an essential component of a thriving and evolving sex life.

But this article isn't just another sales pitch urging you to talk about sex, especially guys. Here I want you to recognize that wanting it hard and rough and wanting it slow and sweet are two distinctly different sexual styles. Supreme Bliss Tantra doesn't teach that one is better than the other. But it does teach us to be aware so that we can choose, change, and collaborate on the way we make love every single time.

Your sexual style is the way you choose to make love. Wild animals and demure Victorian ladies choose different turn-ons. Do you approach foreplay with passion or reluctant patience? Do you prefer vajra to enter yoni (Tantric for penis and vagina) tenderly or suddenly? Do you suppress your moans or scream bloody murder when you're getting it on?

Though some approaches to sex undoubtedly come more naturally to you, all these choices represent different sexual styles.

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What Is Sexual Style?

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Your sexual style comes from your particular attitude about sex and love while expressing your typical mood or emotion in the moment. It reveals how you feel about yourself, how important pleasure is to you, and how much you want to satisfy your lover.

Being inhibited in the sack is a sexual style, as is being a wild animal. Being gentle versus going at it hard is the style difference John and Margie are running into.

Style shows how artistic you are and determines how you perform your art. Certainly, your sexual style shows how you feel about your body and your confidence in your lovemaking skills.

Being conservative is one end of the sexual style spectrum that has highly experimental at the other end. Did you ever hear how pioneers in the early years of the U.S. courted prospective mates? They typically traveled far distances and since they couldn't sleep at home, shared a bed with a "bundling board" separating the couple.

That's what probably spawned the sexual style of making love in the back seat of the car with the parents listening upstairs.

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"...liberate the Wild Self from the stifling moral codes that curb our sexual expression, cut off our free-flowing energy, and inhibit our spontaneity and passion." -- Margo Anand in THE ART OF SEXUAL MAGIC

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I use the word style because it refers to fashion, dress, art, music, and literature. The kind of style you use during loveplay doesn't really reflect on your skill level., though your knowledge about anatomy and repertoire of techniques may limit your choices. No, sexual style is more about how you approach the whole game of giving and receiving pleasure.

Dominating and submitting, as you might guess, are two more choices with sadism and masochism are the very far ends.

Some use the word style to describe how a garment fits the character of a specific person. I don't want to extend that analogy to how well your sexual organs fit. No, it's not about your size, shape, and stamina.

It's not so much about what you've got, but what you choose in each moment to do with it.

For example, pushing for the Big O certainly determines your sexual style, quite distinct from the Tantric approach to make the experience last and last so your energy can build to the point of becoming one or touching God when you do ultimately let go.

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"Tantra was the first school which taught the later Vedantic secret that 'Man is God'." A couple approaching each other in the sexual embrace tacitly recognize this philosophical truth. A God and Goddess unite and transcendental bliss is achieved, using the physical mechanism as a lever." -- DR. JOHN MUMFORD in "Ecstasy Through Tantra"

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Supreme Bliss Tantra celebrates the whole spectrum of sexual styles. But, because it's foreign to so many lovers and such a powerful personal growth path, we spend more time teaching the style of Spiritual Sex. That's a style where building kundalini orgasmic energy takes precedence over the biggest fastest series of climaxes you can engineer.

A trained Tantric lover is passionate, noisy, and responsive instead of the opposites. Frigid, quiet, and still are just other style choices. Spiritual Sex is often thought of as a slow style, and I'd certainly have to agree that it doesn't consistently look like porno-flick style hard sucking and fast fucking. I often use the expression "slow down and smell the roses" to describe the style of Spiritual Sex, but that's not the whole story.

Since Supreme Bliss Tantra is about learning to open your orgasmic energy channels, use kundalini to raise your consciousness, and bond in a sacred way with your beloved, how you make love at any moment more depends on what you both need to get super turned on right then. So I'd have to say the style of Spiritual Sex includes lots of variety instead of the same old pattern of doing it.

So that wild animal who's shrieking loudly while bouncing up and down on you might just stop at any moment, lick your belly really sensuously, and suck your earlobe while grinding slower than a snail's pace.

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Personal Growth Path

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When you learn Tantric Sex, which is another way to say the style of Spiritual Sex, you learn more about yourself, sexually, mentally, and emotionally. It's a powerful opportunity to look at yourself. That's why we say that Supreme Bliss Tantra is a personal growth path.

You see, your personal limitations and sexual inhibitions determine the loveplay styles that you're comfortable with and the ones you're not. So guess what happens when you play this game? You end up dabbling with new sexual styles that push the edge of your comfort zone.

That's all we have room for in this issue. We'll finish up in our next Sacred Sexual Secrets newsletter in a couple weeks. In fact, we'll be starting with some very juicy scenarios. You'll probably get a lot of mileage out of fantasizing about what you'd like to experiment with until then.

Love, Somraj

Your Supreme Bliss Tantra Mentor


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Juicy Joke: "Explaining Sex To Kids"

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A young boy knows about sex and where babies come from because

his mother told him that "the man puts his penis inside the

woman and she gets pregnant."

A few days later, after pondering this for some time, the boy

asks in all the innocence and wonder of a child, "Does the man ever get his penis back?"



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