ALERT: This is explicit adult material.
There are dozens of ways to give your women’s yoni (vulva & vagina) an erotic massage. Like polishing clio’s pearl (the head of the clitoris) with your fingerpad or using the Come Hither stroke inside on her G-Spot.
In our new ebook Long Hot Tantric Love Making, we show you how to use all of these strokes to trigger the 10 erogenous zones around a women’s outer yoni and the 9 inside. At least the ones you can reach. Some are so deep that most lovers need a sex toy or a hard-on to hit them.
As a guy who’s been socially-programmed to go for it, I used to gravitate towards harder and faster stroking and pumping. Watching porn only reinforced that misguided approach to female pleasure. Now that I’ve been carefully trained by Tantric goddesses, I know that tender and gentle is often more exciting. Especially at the start.
You might ask, if we’re not jackhammering away, how do we reach higher states of ecstasy with Tantric sex?
One answer is that trained Tantric adepts open each pleasure channel much wider than the average lover. (How to do that is a much bigger subject than we can address in a little blog post.) And when you’ve got one sexual electricity conduit pumping surging tides of excitement, you open another one. And connect them in a Passion Circuit inside one body or with an Energy Circle between two bodies.
So when I stumbled upon several super-intense Combo Strokes lately, I knew I was on to something. A Combo Stroke is when you use two fingers on different spots in or around your sweetie’s yoni at the same time. This is usually easier when the fingers are on different hands, but with some dexterity you can use two fingers from the same hand. When you’re triggering turn-on with two sensitive areas at once, the sexual energy naturally flows back and forth between them. Not only do the sensations in each place get intensified, but they often spread to fill the whole body.
Certainly there are several Combo Strokes described in our new ebook. But with 19 feminine erogenous zones and several finger strokes to titillate each of them, we’ve found that detailing them all in one place is just too overwhelming. So I was thinking that it would be better to share a few every so often. Like right here right now.
Recently we were making love both on our sides in the Scissors Position. (She’s on her back, I’m on my side at right angles with our legs entwined.) I noticed that my index finger was polishing her pearl while my middle finger was massaging clio’s base. That’s the soft area underneath. Her moaning and bucking convinced me this was an excellent technique
A couple weeks later I moved my middle finger down to rub her outlet. That’s the opening of the urethra just above yoni’s mouth. Some women really get off on playing with the outlet since it’s the external tip of the erectile tissue of the G-Spot.
You realize that I was stimulating at least three of her erogenous zones at the same time, right? If the picture isn’t clear, I’m referring to two fingers at work while one hard-on was thrusting in and out.
One of my darling’s favorite erotic massage techniques is rubbing her G-Spot plus her clio at the same time. I can’t tell you exactly what configuration your fingers should be in because their length and the locations of the erogenous zones are different in all women. Sometimes I use my thumb and middle finger. Damn, I guess that means you have to experiment and practice to figure it out. One of our favorite things, I might add.
She was really enjoying this two-finger approach a few times ago when she reached for her favorite Pocket Rocket vibrator. Since she directed that to her clio, I moved my index finder to her outlet. If you’ll permit the questionable language, that was a delightful three-pronged approach. But without any penile penetration.
Combo Strokes are not for the faint of heart. Or clumsy unpracticed lover. You need to monitor what’s going on with each distinct erogenous zone at the same time. And coordinate your movements with what each prefers in each moment. A little demanding, wouldn’t you agree?
But when you’re present, skilled, and in sync with your partner, the sky isn’t the limit. You can get much higher than that.
If you want the whole picture, download our Long Hot Tantric Love Making ebook by clicking here. Then you can develop your own masterful repertoire of Combo Strokes perfectly suited to your lover(s) unique yoni.