Orgasms are most lovers’ favorite part of sex. It’s a shame that their intense pleasure only lasts a few seconds. And it’s too bad so few lovers regularly have lots of multiple orgasms.
That’s one reason why we love, teach, and practice orgasmic sex. Orgasmic sex extends the intense pleasure for a few minutes, tens of minutes, and sometimes hours.
I’ve been writing about orgasms, Tantra, and sacred sex for nearly twenty years now. So if you’re interested in orgasmic sex, be sure to check out the hundreds of free pages and free articles on my TantraAtTahoe.com site.
Here are a few examples of those articles from my monthly Sacred Sexual Secrets email newsletter to get you started…
What You Need To Know About Blended Orgasms and How to Have One Solo and with a Partner – mindbodygreen (This is a great intro to one kind blended orgasm for women, but there are lots more for both sexes.)
Somraj Pokras is a Tantra teacher who works alongside Jeffre TallTrees at the Academy of Supreme Bliss Tantra from Tantra at Tahoe. Supreme Bliss Tantra is a carefully constructed brand of Tantra which focuses on the oldest living spiritual disciplines. Tantra is unique when compared with other organisations since it can be full customised to each individual, so people are able to follow Tantra with a wide range of approaches. This means that they are able to use Tantra in such a way that it is best suited to their individual lifestyles so that they are able to find out what best works for them. The common themes that Tantra includes is:
Supreme Bliss Tantra combines all of these core philosophies to assist people with western background to be able to follow. It uses sexual and orgasmic energy to form a deep level of expanded consciousness which will:
Develop love, passion and intimacy that will heal your mind, body and spirit
Prolong lovemaking to develop deeper and more meaningful connections
Tantra At Tahoe have developed eBooks, teleseminars, workshops and coaching sessions. This is a VIP Interview with Somraj Pokras co-director of Tantra At Tahoe. Somraj is also the author of over 10 books including Female Ejaculation, Male Multiple Orgasm, Long Hot Tantric Love Making and Supreme Bliss Tantra Guide to the Ecstasy of Spiritual Sex.
Tell me about yourself
Somraj Pokras co-director of Tantra At Tahoe, author of 10 Tantric Sex books, sexologist, author, blogger and trainer.
What inspired you to become a sex educator, sexologist and a Tantra expert?
I always had a strong sex drive but little understanding of how it really works. When I met my wife she was studying Tantra so we did a yearlong program together. It transformed our sex lives individually and collectively so thoroughly that we started teaching others to follow a similar path.
What inspires you?
Books, articles, music for sure. But even more so from applying consciousness and mindfulness to sexual encounters. My central interest is the anatomy and dynamics of sexual energy. So after we make love we talk and analyze what happened.
How has Tantra developed from Buddhist and Hindu teachings?
Not very accurate. Tantra came ﬁrst as a grassroots rebellion against these and other organized religions. The earliest Tantra writings created a path to enlightenment without dogma or intermediaries like priests or holy men.
Why is Tantra important to Buddhism and Hinduism?
Buddhism and Hinduism aren’t anywhere near as sex-positive as Tantra has always been. In contrast Tantra doesn’t separate sex and spirit. Though it wasn’t originally a sexual practice, it advocates the awareness and application of the physical, especially lifeforce energy, to spiritual growth. That’s so different from modern religions that in the West it’s become identiﬁed with sacred sexuality.
What is the difference between Tantric Sex and regular sex?
First, Tantric lovers treat their beloved as a reﬂection of the divine. A god or goddess. Next, love making happens in a sacred space with ritual practices like meditation, eyegazing, and intentionally calling in desired energies. Tantric sex is more conscious, more communication, more cooperation instead of male dominated. It’s longer because it’s focused on heightening sexual energy and amassing more pleasure instead of the goal of orgasms. Tantric lovers have multiple orgasms, many of them energy based instead of purely physical and triggered by more of the 31 erogenous zones than average lovers contact. When Tantric lovers choose to climax, women usually come ﬁrst and many times. Many say it’s slower which is true at times. But Tantric sex is changeable, sometimes slow, sometimes fast, and often interrupted by application of hands and mouths.
How can people experience the best orgasms with Tantra?
By taking time, building energy together, targeting erogenous zones, and synchronizing their motions to reach a series of pleasure peaks, ﬁrst alternately and eventually together.
What are the best Tantric sex positions?
The classic position is yab-yum, with her on his lap with her legs wrapped around his hips. The name means mother father because it depicts the Tantric creation myth, far removed from Adam and Eve. The Tantric view is that the divine beings Shiva and a Shakti create the world by making love in this position. Their secretions overﬂowed and solidiﬁed into the physical universe. But to ask the question actually shows confusion with Tantra which rarely speciﬁes postures and the Kama Sutra which has a chapter focusing on sex positions.
What can people do every day to experience Tantra?
Become more aware of their bodies, its sensations, its energies. They can do this my meditating before and during sex, practicing relaxation, and breathing more consciously.
Tell me about your product range?
We offer Tantric sex ebooks, long-distance coaching, and live private workshops. We have hundreds of free articles on our website and a steady feed of sexual news, techniques, and discoveries on our blog. Our latest ebook is Long Hot Tantric Love Making available at Tahtra At Tahoe.