More Sex Talk, Make Love At All 7 Chakras, Body Scan Meditation

I here are a few links to articles that will help you learn and practice and appreciate some finer points of Orgasmic Sex…

4 Ways to Have More Sex Positive Conversations | Slutty Girl Problems

How To Raise Your Erotic Consciousness to Make Love On The 7 Chakras

Body Scan Meditation | A powerful, simple, fundamental practice that empowers sexual energy | Greater Good in Action

Tantra Newsletter: Friction Sex vs. Energy Sex

What Kind of Foreplay Ignites Your Jet Engine?

I had an amazing date this weekend with an old lover I haven’t played with much in recent years. Our final two-hour coupling hit some startling new highs of passion. It wasn’t just my magic wand stroking in and out of this dear friend that drove us both wild. It was the sexual energy that we created together and passed back and forth. Frankly, it blew our minds. 

One of my early Tantra teachers urged us to shift from friction sex to energy sex. Back then in the 90s, this was an intoxicating concept, at least first. Putting more attention on the sensations the energy created a mysterious mystical aspect to the physical fun my body and my lovers bodies craved. And still does.

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Sacred Sexual Secrets Newsletter #302 published 3/18/19

Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees http://www.TantraAtTahoe.com

ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2019 by TantraAtTahoe.com

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The meaning of friction sex should be obvious: rubbing your jewels (genitals) to get turned-on. And when your excitable zones are rubbing your partner’s jewels, you hopefully experience the pleasure at the same time. Jewel union (sexual intercourse) doesn’t necessarily always result in a simultaneous orgasm, a rarer occurrence than most lovers realize. But it sure is wonderful anytime you’re sharing intense sensations with someone you love. 

Sharing sensations, by the way, is the simplest way to define energy sex. To understand it more deeply, it’s good to start with grasping what kundalini is, the ancient name for sexual energy. When we refer to energy in Tantra, we mean the percolating life force in the body that drives your heart, fuels your emotions, excites your nerves, and awakens clarity in your mind. 

Our new book Tantric Pathways to Supernatural Sex, due out this July, concentrates on how to maximize kundalini. Its subtitle, “A Groundbreaking Look at the Chemistry of Sexual Electricity,” says it another way. Turn-on results from releasing and flowing sensual electricity in your body. If you remember your basic physics, you know that moving electricity produces magnetism.

So we can formally define kundalini, sexual energy, as bio-electric-magnetism.

When your body gets excited from your favorite kind of sexual friction, blood flows to your jewels, your heart rate and breathing increase, and your skin gets flushed. That’s the physical side of the game. 

But it’s kundalini that’s primarily responsible for those delicious sensations. Tickles, tingles, and twitches. It’s like prickly heat on the inside of your skin. And preferably deeper. The energy makes the sensations spark, pulse, blossom, and explode. 

Though I developed some mastery of energy sex that first year of my Tantra training, it’s taken me many years to be able to make the shift intentionally. Now I can switch from animalistic sexual stroking to kundalini consciousness pretty easily when I choose. 

That doesn’t mean I can orgasm without any touching. Being in my seventies, my sensual juices just don’t start flowing instantly any more. 

So looking back on that Tantra class, I resent that teacher urging me to make a choice between friction and energy sex. You see, Tantra — the ancient art of spiritual growth through harnessing one’s physical potential — sees sex and spirit as one form of energy. Sure, it feels different when awakened in the loins or the heart or the head. But it’s kundalini that drives all of your senses and abilities and machinery.

So I’m NOT exhorting you to give up rubbing your parts in and around your sweetie’s body. I am, however suggesting your pleasure can be amplified by adding energy sex to your coupling. 

What seems to work best for me and my lovers is like a ram jet. I believe those were the first kind of jet engines aeronautical engineers experimented with. 

Any jet engine develops thrust by igniting fuel in a stream of compressed air inside a cylinder. It’s the exhaust that propels the aircraft. But if the incoming air doesn’t get compressed, nothing much happens. There are fancy ways to compress the air in today’s jets, but back in the middle of the last century they started with a simple solution. Get a propellor-driven plane up to top speed and maybe dive to reach a high enough velocity to compress the incoming air. That started the ram jet’s combustion. 

This is an article about sex, not science, so I hope you’ll forgive this scientifically trained Tantra teacher’s analogy. My point is that I use friction to launch energy sex the way speed ignites a ram jet. The difference between jewel union and a jet plane is that pumping too fast may result in a quick orgasm (at least for the guy) instead of an extended flight of orgasmic passion. 

You see, Tantric training opens the door to orgasmic sex. Though that might include multiple orgasms, orgasmic sex is more about getting into the lofty zone where every breath, touch, and stroke feels like you’re coming. Instead of aiming for one or more climax events, you reach for a state of continuous orgasm. For minutes without interruption. Or when you’re really experienced, for a couple hours like we did last weekend. 

For example, after multiple encounters that could only be classified as foreplay, I slowly entered my lover. We both had the nearly irresistible compulsion to ramp the speed up and go for it. But we didn’t. We meandered, speeding up very slowly in fits and starts. The occasional little bouts of deep, hard, and fast stroking were totally ecstatic. 

But the majority of our attention was on feeling as much as we could in each moment. Feeling our own pleasure and reaching inside to feel each other’s pleasure. That’s even a better definition of energy sex, don’t you agree?

Hopefully this gives you a clearer sense of the fork in the road this article is about. The decision point early in your coupling is where you get to choose what you want. Wham, bam, going for a quick explosion? Or pace yourselves so you can ignite that passion for as long as you want? 

We used friction sex to ignite energy sex just as increased speed ignites a ram jet’s combustion.  But that doesn’t mean we ignored rubbing our hot bits together. I mean, if something feels good, don’t you want more of it? So why would you denounce sliding your excitable organs together? Not me.

Using friction and energy sex together in concert is the best of both worlds. Kind of like decades ago when hi-fidelity music systems added another channel to go from monaural to stereo. 

Now that’s a great example of the part of the Tantric attitude that encourages you to choose pleasure first wherever and whenever you can. 

There are other channels you can activate, too. I’m obviously a guy with a high sex drive who loves sexual friction. On the other hand, some of my female lovers, my wife paramount among them, need a different boost to get her engine running. Yes, I’m referring to the L word. Words of love that ignite the heart are essential for many lovers before their sexual juices ramp up and flow with gusto. 

What works for each of us is certainly somewhat different. So I don’t expect that the formula that ignites my jet engine into high gear is the best one for you. I write these words to encourage you to do something I love to do all the time: experiment with sex. 

Enjoy. And let me know what you discover.

Love, Somraj and Jeffre 

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SUPREME BLISS TANTRA

Supreme Bliss is the zenith of sexual ecstasy which transforms orgasmic energy into expanded consciousness. 

Supreme Bliss Tantra is the modern system of personal transformation based on the ancient Eastern spiritual path which uses sexual energy practices to…

     – deepen love and intimacy,

     – extend lovemaking, and

     – create continuous full-body mind-altering Tantric Orgasms.

By opening your senses of the present moment, embracing all of life and all of your being, and focusing on pleasure as a divine gift, Supreme Bliss Tantra…

     –  heals your mind, body, and spirit,

     – connects you passionately with your deeper self and your beloved, and 

     –  immerses you deeply into the untold joys of sacred sexuality to 

reach cosmic peaks of pleasure to make life an ecstatic journey in total communion with all that is.

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We respect the privacy of our readers. We NEVER provide our subscriber list to ANYONE. The information contained in this document represents the current view of Tantra At Tahoe on the issues discussed as of the date of publication. We provide this free advice in the hopes that your conscious use will improve your sexual life. If you have a medical or psychological condition, please contact your health professional before acting on this advice. Our guidance is not intended as medical or psychological treatment, psychotherapy, or services best performed by a health professional. Information provided in this document is provided “AS IS” without warranty of any kind, either expressed or implied. You assume the entire risk as to the accuracy and the use of suggestions in this document. Without our personal services, your results may vary.

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9 Ways to Steer Sex, A Different Kind of Orgasm, Unexpected Ways to Orgasm

Want to make sex more Orgasmic? Here are links to some interesting articles that can help.

9 Surprising Ways To Have A Better Sex Life, According To Sex Experts – mindbodygreen

Did you notice anything different about your orgasm? ~ Temperature’s Rising

All The Unexpected Ways You Can Have Orgasms – mindbodygreen

On Viewing Shakti

The looks we can give each other carry more than mere vision
As we gaze on our naked flesh with holistic appreciation and
Noting flaws and imperfections as the individual marks of Godhood
We surpass the ordinary sensual boundaries of physical lust.
You, a goddess, as your skin, scars, wrinkles and stretchmark’s reveal
An indication of your celestial power, the force behind my desire
And as I see that imperfect but so perfect form, I am aroused with
My lingam becoming so painfully hard. My vision expands with it.
Suddenly the brilliant light of creation bursts forth from within you.
The illumination of sexual yearning; a goddess casting aside mortal form.
You become Shakti to my Shiva. Female creation to my male destruction.
And our touch is still light, our bodies not yet bound together.
I feel the flow of energy between us, the weight of desire to unite.
Those whirling vortexes of passion steadily amplifying the worship of us.
The sacred prayers recited through motion, sweat and soft moans.
The pressure of flesh on flesh pushing the energy of our chakras higher.
The energy builds desire where climax is neither a goal or ignored.
Universal Forces we give and share, to create and heal outside ourselves.
Our sexual contact and erotic movements’ part of the Grand Truth.
The truth of what we are despite our bodies we saw as imperfect.
For you are the Goddess and I the God who exists to worship you.

Your Tantra Newsletter: Which Fork Do You Choose in the Road to Orgasm?

There Are Different Paths to Different Kinds of Orgasms

Tantra promotes pleasure in all the phases of life. When it comes to sex, that includes heartily celebrating orgasms of all kinds.

Yes, there are different ways to come. We’re not just referring to orgasming by yourself or with a partner. There are dozens of sweet spots you can titillate to trigger a climax, some naturally and others with practice. Singly or together for a more resounding blended explosion.

(You can learn about all 40 orgasmic triggers in our new book to be published July 8 entitled Tantric Pathways to Supernatural Sex. Preorder at Amazon here.)

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Sacred Sexual Secrets Newsletter #301 published 01/31/2019

Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees http://www.TantraAtTahoe.com

ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2019 by TantraAtTahoe.com

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Of course, you don’t have to orgasm to have fun, share your love, and end up feeling great. But when you feel the urge to go over the top, you’ll encounter a major fork in the road. Simply, you can decide whether you want to reach for a big explosion or pace yourself so your every sensation is orgasmic for as long as you want.

That’s the pot of gold at the end of the Supernatural Sex rainbow: staying super excited for minutes or even hours. That is, if you choose the long road instead of the quickie one. 

The Tension-Release Fork

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Let’s look first at the quickie fork that releases your sexual tension. It will help to understand a little about the breakthroughs of the famed sex researchers Masters and Johnson who studied orgasms in the laboratory in the 1960s. They found that lovers go through four physiological phases when engaging in sex…

  1. arousal when you first get turned-on and start building sexual tension,
  2. plateau when your sexual response slows and the tension levels off making you push for more as soon as possible, 
  3. orgasm when you release the tension in a blaze of glory, and 
  4. resolution when your metabolism returns to normal.

These four phases are the natural formula for a quickie when you’re rushing to get off. Totally wonderful when you’re so hot you can’t stand waiting another microsecond. At least, it’s wonderful when you’re masturbating. 

But what if one partner, typically the horny guy, chooses the quick-release path while his partner needs longer to climax? You’re probably aware that most men can come in a few minutes while most women take 20 to 40 minutes of the right kind of stimulation in an ideal setting. This too often results in the orgasm gap when the female partner doesn’t get there. 

Sure, the one who came can use hands, mouth, or toys to finish the other off.  Or wait until the resolution phase passes and the guy recovers. This later option doesn’t work well for us since Somraj has trouble recharging his sensitivity and hardness within a reasonable timeframe.

Don’t get us wrong? Releasing all your tension in a flash bang is a wonderful thing at the right time. If you can recover quickly and easily enjoy multiple orgasms, by all means go for it. But if you want to feel those delightful orgasmic sensations for much longer, you’ll want to choose the supernatural fork. 

The Supernatural Fork

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The supernatural fork is all about maximizing and extending the flood of sexual energy, or what the ancients called kundaliniTantric Pathways defines this as…

The electromagnetic life force in the human body responsible for attraction, sexual desire, libido, sex drive, turn-on, and orgasm. Lovers experience it as a flow of nervous stimulation, physical excitation, and moving sensations. 

When you’re hot to trot and do whatever it takes to get turned on, you’re building kundalini inside your body. Of course, if you’re a horny guy like Somraj, it usually starts in the groin. Heart-centered lovers who feel love first might feel it expanding from the heart. 

Sex is all about expanding kundalini and enjoying the wonderful sensations it creates. But as your kundalini expands up from your pelvis and rises, you arrive at the fork in the orgasmic road. 

Do you want to explode or keep feeling this way and let the feelings intensify?

We use the term “explosion” to describe orgasms that release the tension that kundalini can create. The supernatural fork chooses the “implosion” option. That means you still feel all the earth-shaking sensations of climax as the energy erupts. But it erupts inside your body so you don’t waste the orgasmic energy. 

You might call it a “green orgasm” since it’s the foremost and most natural way to practice recycling. 

Actually, what happens inside when you implode is more relevant than its color. What happens is the energy blossoms, spreads, and fills your whole body. We call that an energy orgasm

Wouldn’t you like to be able those peak sensations everywhere instead of just in your crotch? That’s the appeal of choosing the supernatural fork.

How to Choose the Energy Orgasm Fork

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Triggering a resounding series of energy orgasms requires that you avoid succumbing to the urge to come immediately in the plateau phase. You instead choose to extend the plateau phase as long as you want. 

That’s the theory anyway. How to do it starts with the simplest and often most challenging technique when you’re so turned-on. Namely, you relax while you’re stroking or being stroked. 

Clearly, relaxation is the opposite of tension. But how can you relax when all your instincts are making your body tense up?

That’s where the fundamental practices of Tantra can help. Tantra is the ancient art and science of using kundalini to expand your consciousness. The fundamental practices that we’re referring to are… 

  1. breath, 
  2. sound, and 
  3. movement. 

It’s natural for our breathing to get shallow and choppy when the tension builds. So kundalini management begins by learning to breathe slowly and deeply. Try it when you’re playing with yourself or being played with. As the first tickles of sensation surface and the pleasure blossoms, breathe like this to relax your nerves and muscles. 

Another natural thing that happens as we approach orgasm is to moan, cry out, or even scream. This is one way that your body tries to release the tension. But if you add deep sighs and growing moans to your slow deep breathing earlier in the arousal cycle, you’ll spread the excitement and tense up less. 

It’s interesting to note that women tend to make more noise during sex than the average guy. Couple that with the fact that the average guy comes more quickly than the average women. We’re not saying that sounding off is the total cause of this difference but it’s an interesting correlation.

So when you feel yourself tense up as your excitement builds, let it out by vocalizing how you’re feeling. The vibration in your throat attracts the kundalini around your pelvis and helps you relax and spread the feelings. 

Moving is The Third Key

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The third key is moving, both inside and out. If you stay totally still, the kundalini pools in a small space in your crotch. It gets so intense that tension is unavoidable. 

But if you move your body, your muscles will tend to let the energy flow. Shining and undulating loosens the stuck energy that makes tension solidify. Again, moving slowly instead of rapidly will keep your excitement from spilling over into a premature climax. But more importantly staying loose and flexible lets the kundalini spread out.

To truly master energy sex, toning your pelvic muscles is also vital. That’s because when the tension builds down there, it spurs contractions that release a man’s ejaculation and a woman’s explosive climax.

We usually call them the PC muscles where the P stands for the pubic bone above your jewels (genitals) and the C stands for the coccyx, the bottom of your spine above your butt crack. The PC muscles snake around below your jewels at the pelvic floor.

PC exercises help you strengthen the muscles which make orgasms stronger. As well, they tone the muscles so you can relax them at will when the tension becomes troublesome. 

Any of the three can help you trigger energy orgasms. But using breath, sound, and movement together is a reliable prescription for raising and spreading your kundalini. That’s where full-body orgasms come from.

And did we mention that conserving your energy by relaxing instead of exploding right off the bat also allows you to repeat the whole process? Full-body orgasms are so great that you won’t want to settle for just one. 

That’s why we call it supernatural sex. But if you want to ignore the hype of overblown promises for a moment, consider this simple bottom line. Choosing the supernatural fork lets guys last longer so their women have the time to go over the top. 

Love, Somraj and Jeffre 

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This is the adult educational journal of TantraAtTahoe.com where anyone can post what’s up in their sex life. And what’s down. Here we post our experiences and encourage you to do the same. Did you have a great time list night? A lousy time? A troubling time? Tell us in graphic detail. We want to know and help. This isn’t porno, it’s sex education. Freely post your questions and we’ll do our best to answer them. And at the same time we can all learn to be more open about this vital part of everyone’s life.

This is the adult educational journal of TantraAtTahoe.com where anyone can post what’s up in their sex life. And what’s down. Here we post our experiences and encourage you to do the same. Did you have a great time list night? A lousy time? A troubling time? Tell us in graphic detail. We want to know and help. This isn’t porno, it’s sex education. Freely post your questions and we’ll do our best to answer them. And at the same time we can all learn to be more open about this vital part of everyone’s life. 

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Contact Us…

Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees

11260 Donner Pass Road C1#139, Truckee, CA 96161 

Email: http://www.tantraattahoe.com/connect/news.htm

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We hope some of these images turn you on and get sexual energy flooding your body. And we hope when you get turned on you’ll have somebody dear with whom you can share those life-giving forces. Enjoy!

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Past Articles…

To help you revolutionize your sex, love, and intimacy, check out previous articles in our newsletter archives at…  http://www.tantraattahoe.com/resource/news.htm

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SUPREME BLISS TANTRA

Supreme Bliss is the zenith of sexual ecstasy which transforms orgasmic energy into expanded consciousness. 

Supreme Bliss Tantra is the modern system of personal transformation based on the ancient Eastern spiritual path which uses sexual energy practices to…

     – deepen love and intimacy,

     – extend lovemaking, and

     – create continuous full-body mind-altering Tantric Orgasms.

By opening your senses of the present moment, embracing all of life and all of your being, and focusing on pleasure as a divine gift, Supreme Bliss Tantra…

     –  heals your mind, body, and spirit,

     – connects you passionately with your deeper self and your beloved, and 

     –  immerses you deeply into the untold joys of sacred sexuality to 

reach cosmic peaks of pleasure to make life an ecstatic journey in total communion with all that is.

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Privacy Statement…

We respect the privacy of our readers. We NEVER provide our subscriber list to ANYONE. The information contained in this document represents the current view of Tantra At Tahoe on the issues discussed as of the date of publication. We provide this free advice in the hopes that your conscious use will improve your sexual life. If you have a medical or psychological condition, please contact your health professional before acting on this advice. Our guidance is not intended as medical or psychological treatment, psychotherapy, or services best performed by a health professional. Information provided in this document is provided “AS IS” without warranty of any kind, either expressed or implied. You assume the entire risk as to the accuracy and the use of suggestions in this document. Without our personal services, your results may vary.

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Planning a Day of Love?

Enjoy Lupercalia. Long live erotic love!

The age-old tradition of St Valentine’s Day was called Lupercalia in pagan times. It was held on 15th February, which pagans considered to be the end of one year and the beginning of the next. The day was named after a God called Lupercalis who was similar to the God Pan, a God of fertility. During the festival each young man would pull the name of a young woman out of an urn full of names. They were expected to spend 3 days together as lovers during the festival and then an entire year in sexual relationship together. From these liaisons, many young people would find themselves continuing in a longer relationship. 

A succession of popes were scandalized by this festival and tried to uproot it, unsuccessfully. Finally, in the 5th century, Pope Gelasius managed to rearrange it in such a way that the martyred Saint Valentine was worshipped on that day. What actually happened is that a boy would present a token of the martyred Saint to a young woman in order to let her know he fancied her. This later metamorphosed into what we know of today as Saint Valentine’s Day. Because of the tenacity of the pagan festival and the fact that people were not willing to give it up, the poor martyred Valentine became synonymous with gestures of love and courtship.

— Reprinted from Sarita’s newsletter newsletter@ananda-sarita.com

Tantra Newsletter: Why We Love Sex So Much

Tips and Inspiration to Make Your Love Life Supernatural in the New Year

If you want to give your significant other(s) the best possible gift for a happy new year, we humbly suggest Supernatural Sex.

Now we know a lot of you are already having great lovemaking. We hope family affairs allowed you to celebrate Christmas or Hanukkah or Kwanzaa (or simply a day off) like we did. Doing it in bed all day.

We’re just wishing you more. More pleasure. More often. And more orgasms.

If you already love sex like we do, this should be easy to act on. If not, we want to urge you to make an orgasmic sex life more of a priority in the coming year.

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Sacred Sexual Secrets Newsletter #300 published 12/28/2018

Published by Somraj Pokras & Jeffre TallTrees http://www.TantraAtTahoe.com

ISSN 1540-8825 (c) Copyright 2018 by TantraAtTahoe.com

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So why do we love sex so much?

  • Because it makes us feel fully alive.
  • Because it’s the most powerful way to express our love.
  • Because of all those feel-good bonding hormones it releases into our system.
  • Because it helps us lose all stress, worry, fear, and even pain.
  • Because at the peak right before orgasm it makes us feel so good. (Which is why we practice and teach making the pinnacle of pleasure last for minutes or even hours.)

Sex is one of the most captivating forces in the universe. But for most new to Tantra and spiritual sex, it’s too often so fleeting.

Satisfying, orgasmic, consensual sex is a basic human need. And it’s healthy. What a shame how much those occasional few seconds of glory control (and sometimes distort and pervert) our lives. Happy people and harmonious relationships need it regularly. Otherwise tension, frustration, and internal pressure too often lead to crumbling relationships, predatory behavior, domestic abuse, and sexual violence.

Did you realize some groundbreaking psychological research beginning in the 1970s found a striking relationship between lack of sexual pleasure and violence?

In fact, Somraj is writing a series of action novels set in 2137 about the ultimate sexual revolution that heals women’s sexuality, civilizes male lovers, and eradicates war and international tension. It’s going to be the most fun way we can dream up to teach Tantra and Supernatural Sex.

If you missed our September newsletter this year, here’s how we defined it…

Supernatural Sex is a kind of sexual union that’s way beyond ordinary sex. Supernatural Sex doesn’t just focus on you getting off now, but instead creates a continuously orgasmic state of shared passion. It works equally well for hetero sex, same sex, and solo sex. And it usually lasts longer and takes you higher. 

That’s why you might call it a pathway to divine communion. Being one with your beloved and the entire universe. 

Though it’s extraordinary and may seem mystical at first, it’s not really magic. Sure, it takes a little practice. But don’t you think a hour-long orgasmic state is something you’d be willing to invest some time and effort in?

Supernatural Sex is a Tantric approach that expands your sensuality and the intimacy between you. It does this by activating multiple heart, mind, and soul connections while you’re giving and receiving pleasure.

Wouldn’t you rather keep feeling that special ecstatic feeling on and on over and over?

Wouldn’t you rather bask in that magical altered space together and never leave?

Wouldn’t you rather share and recharge that divine oneness with your beloved?

That’s what Supernatural Sex can do for you. It lets you hover on the edge for of coming for as long as you want. It enables you to orgasm over and over until you’ve had way more than enough. It launches you into a blissful orbit where you float for hours afterwards.

That’s why we’re wishing you the kind of sex life for the coming year that’s beyond natural, beyond ordinary, beyond average. Don’t settle for ho-hum lovemaking. Instead, incorporate more of the Supernatural Sex way. To do that you simply practice…

  • Relaxing instead of tensing
  • Peaking instead of exploding
  • Edging instead of coming.

Then you’ll naturally find yourselves accessing the vast untapped reservoirs of sexual energy. That’s the psychosexual life force called kundalini which is mostly dormant in many lovers.

How will you know if you’re making progress? When your body fills with buzzing electricity and streaming fire, you’ll know it’s working. When your sensations soar so high that you feel like you’re continuously orgasming, you’ll know the magic of kundalini is flooding through you. When you feel your bodies, minds, and souls connect at multiple levels, you’ll want to make it last forever.

That’s why we celebrated earlier this week with a twelve-hour marathon packed with multiple rounds of ecstatic pleasure. We hope your New Year’s resolution is to dedicate yourself to creating your own version of so powerful a spiritual journey together.

Though you’ll have to wait until July for the publication of Tantric Pathways to Supernatural Sex which shows you exactly how to get there, there’s no reason to wait to start practicing.

May all your couplings in the coming year be supernatural. Oh, and ours, too, of course.

Love, Somraj and Jeffre

P.S. If you’re a published author or expert with a significant social media following and would like to review our new book, we’re happy to share an electronic version with you. Email Somraj here.

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This is the adult educational journal of TantraAtTahoe.com where anyone can post what’s up in their sex life. And what’s down. Here we post our experiences and encourage you to do the same. Did you have a great time list night? A lousy time? A troubling time? Tell us in graphic detail. We want to know and help. This isn’t porno, it’s sex education. Freely post your questions and we’ll do our best to answer them. And at the same time we can all learn to be more open about this vital part of everyone’s life.

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SUPREME BLISS TANTRA

Supreme Bliss is the zenith of sexual ecstasy which transforms orgasmic energy into expanded consciousness.

Supreme Bliss Tantra is the modern system of personal transformation based on the ancient Eastern spiritual path which uses sexual energy practices to…

– deepen love and intimacy,

– extend lovemaking, and

– create continuous full-body mind-altering Tantric Orgasms.

By opening your senses of the present moment, embracing all of life and all of your being, and focusing on pleasure as a divine gift, Supreme Bliss Tantra…

–  heals your mind, body, and spirit,

– connects you passionately with your deeper self and your beloved, and

–  immerses you deeply into the untold joys of sacred sexuality to

reach cosmic peaks of pleasure to make life an ecstatic journey in total communion with all that is.

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Tantra Newsletter (explicit): How Freely Do You Share Sweet Everythings?

Sexual Communication Tips to Help Make Sex Supernatural

“You really turn me on!”

Don’t you love hearing sweet words like that while you’re flirting, texting, hanging out, and making love? We sure do.

In the Supernatural Sex universe, we don’t call them sweet nothings. They’re much too important to view them as nothings. Because they’re so valuable, we refer to them as sweet everythings.

This name change should be easy to digest if love means everything to you. And if it doesn’t, it might well be crucial to keep your sweetie hot and happy. So here’s a little primer on sharing sweet everythings to keep your sex and love passionate, alive, and growing.

Though we’re going to focus on words here, we don’t believe that unsolicited dick pics or the feminine equivalents are sweet nothings. It’s the sentiment, the intention, the emotion that counts.

Disclaimer: Some of the language that follows is ultra raunchy. If explicit sexual talk isn’t your thing, you might want to skip this article. But if talking dirty turns you on, continue and enjoy.

Express Your Love

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Undoubtedly love is the most prevalent inspiration for songs and movies. The underlying intention of all sweet everythings is to express your care, affection, and devotion for your beloved. That’s why saying “I love you” is the preeminent endearment.

When you fall in love, everything about your honey or hunk is perfect. So be sure to voice what you see…

“Looking at your body makes me wet/hard.”

“You’re really my type.”

“Your arms and shoulders are so strong.”

“Your curves are perfect.”

“When I see you walk, my wildest fantasies come to life.”

And what’s in your heart…

“Just being next to you makes my heart swoon.”

“I’m so joyous when you take time our of your busy day to text me.”

“I feel complete when we’re together.”

And what you hear…

“I love hearing your voice.”

“The way you sigh when I touch you tickles me deep.”

“When I put my mouth on your jewels (genitals), I love how you moan and roar for me.”

Everyone wants to be wanted. Letting your desire show is a powerful aphrodisiac…

“I really want you.”

“Your body turns me on.”

“I can’t keep my hands off you.”

Many women and men are self-conscious about the look and size of their jewels. Even if you’re not, it’s always great when your lover applauds your anatomy. How about…

“Do you mind that I can’t keep my hands off your beautiful breasts?”

“I love the way your cock gets hard and points up at me.”

“Your pussy is so beautiful like a blossoming flower.”

Don’t forget to share your feelings in the moment. This is one powerful secret to showing up as real, authentic, and transparent.

“I love your hands on my body.”

“Your touch is electric.”

“Your cock is work of art.”

What Fragrances Turn You On and Off?

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Another emotionally sensitive area is smell. Look, you need to really be in your body to enjoy magical pleasure. And even freshly washed bodies sometimes emit odors from armpits and feet that only our dogs relish.

We’re not suggesting you lie and say “I love the way your farts or burps or breath smells” when you don’t. But saying “whoops” or “sorry” until you both fully accept each others’ humanness is probably better. Being sweet and real includes asking your playmate to wash, brush teeth, or apply deodorant when it helps.

Still, some lovers like the smell of their  partner’s armpits, crotch, or feet. True love has no bounds. One person’s outlandish fetish is another’s routine turn-on or absolute no-way boundary. Thats why it’s so powerful when you can honestly say things like…

“I love the way your body smells.”

“Your pussy’s sweet fragrance makes me swoon.”

“The aroma your package sends off is so manly.”

Sure, shampoo or perfume or deodorant may add an odor preferable that masks B.O. or dirty feet. But in Tantra we avoid manufactured fragrances and go for the pheromones inherent in freshly bathed bodies.

While we’re talking about bodies, we must address how fluid friendly you are. Again, bodies secrete liquids that are natural. Armpits sweat, vaginas lubricate, and penises ejaculate. And other things that are best confined to the toilet except for those whose kinks are extreme. (If that’s your thing, we suggest you read the Marquis de Sade’s memoirs. That’s the French nobleman whose name was turned into sadism.)

We’re not suggesting that true love requires exchanging golden showers (peeing on each other). We’re saying that stuff happens and acknowledge it. If you love your baby’s manly or feminine odor, say it. If you revel if your sexual escapades making each other perspire, enjoy the sweat and express it.

Cum Play Isn’t For Everyone. Is it Fun For You?

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Lots of porn promotes cum play, especially bukake, the Japanese word commonly used for ejaculating on a woman’s face. Again, we’re not trying to convince you to enjoy what you don’t. But the popularity of cum play demonstrates that it’s a thing that turns some people on. Yeah, even some women. If it does, don’t hesitate to say things like…

“I want you to cum all over my breasts.”

“I swallow because I love how your cum tastes.”

Women ejaculate, too. We even wrote a book about it some years ago entitled Female Ejaculation. Though it’s not universally accepted by the medical profession yet, there are reports from many sources modern and ancient to substantiate it. Not just adult web sites.

In Tantra we celebrate amrita, the sweet nectar of the goddess, when a woman expels this ambrosia which is chemically distinct from urine. Out of this form of celebration comes sweet everythings like…

“You’re so wet.”

“I love it when you squirt.”

“Honey, please shower me with your divine amrita.”

After years of exchanging sweet everythings during jewel union (sexual intercourse), we regularly express the details of how great it feels.

“I love the way your cock feels inside me.”

“I love the way your pussy wraps around my cock and squeezes it.”

“You sure know how to hit/grab all the right spots.”

Many of the above sayings were inspired by the great book Making Love by the now passed Tantra teacher named Barry Long. Barry urged lovers to talk continuously sharing what they’re experiencing during sex. While we applaud this kind of openness, we find it sometimes puts you in your head when you want to focus on the delicious feelings in your body. So we only advocate the Share Everything Style for practice or when needed to increase intimacy.

Some Final Things to Watch Out For

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Before we finish, there are some limitations to mention. Comparisons rarely come across well. Comparing like “Your breasts are the biggest I’ve every held” or “Your cock is smaller than I’m used to” isn’t recommended. Be in the present moment with your lover and tune out your memories.

Be sincere. A savvy lover can smell bullshit a mile away. And when your personal spaces are merged, lies flash like a neon sign in the dark.

What you say during the throes of lovemaking proves how loving and sex positive you are. So be real and mean it. The more you say, the more intimacy you’ll create. And the more you’ll keep your heart connection alive and thriving.

Love, Somraj

P.S. Before we go, we should mention that the spirit of this article comes from our new book, Tantric Pathways to Supernatural Sex. It’s slated for publication next summer by Llewellyn Worldwide.

Your Erotic Self, 8 Male Orgasms, 8 Female Orgasms

Here are links to some fascinating articles that can help you understand and practice Orgasmic Sex…

5 Ways to Be More Sexual by Embracing Your Authentic Erotic Self – Dr Dick’s Sex Advice 

Why the Male Orgasm Is Not as Simple as Everyone Tries to Tell You – Beducated Magazine 

The 8 Types of Female Orgasms – Beducated Magazine 

Sex Games, Talking About Sex, What Turns You On

There is so much fantastic free advice about Orgasmic Sex on the internet. Here are a few links to articles that will help you find new ways to maximize your passion every time you do it.

38 Sensual Sex Games for Frisky Couples – Beducated Magazine

The Surprising Benefits Of Talking About Sex With Your Friends

How To Figure Out What Turns You On, According To A Sex Therapist – mindbodygreen